I wanna try cock in the worst way

[Str8Cocksucker]

Didn't mean to start a huge,war and I didn't say I was going to cheat on my wife either. Just that I wish I had tried it at least once before I married.

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The funny thing is that if you had posted a fantasy story about being married and wanting to suck cock (or a real story had you done it), most of the same guys bitching about you would be jerking off to the story.

 

[Str8Cocksucker]

I've always wondered, were it not for heterosexist stigma and how we're socially conditioned to aspire to a heterosexual nuclear family, how many of these men who adore cock but only "love" women would actually be in romantic relationships with men.

There are plenty of straight men & women that only want a physical relationship of some kind but no romance. I know lesbians that want a real dick now and then and have zero attraction to men but are picky about what the man looks like.

I will say that society is much more accepting of woman being bi than men. I meet many couples that can't mention the M half is bi to any degree or they get shunned. I also find that as "straight" men (and couples) get older they get a lot less judgmental about bi contact between men.

 

[sixthson]

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The funny thing is that if you had posted a fantasy story about being married and wanting to suck cock (or a real story had you done it), most of the same guys bitching about you would be jerking off to the story.

Nah, those kinds of stories only appeal to other closeted, so-called bisexual married men who live in the delusion that there are actually straight men who love gay sex. You go girl.

 

[Str8Cocksucker]

That would make them "bi". Calling it "gay sex" usualy has a snarky connotation they're gay, like they can't make a choice.

Again, it's how one identifies themselves. Take the TS community. Lots of TS women keep their dicks, but identify as lesbian or as a straight woman. Then there's situational bisexuality, which can be what happens at a sleepover to jail, or in a lights-out orgy, or a drunk night watching porn with a friend, or a circle jerk with friends before anyone's started messing with girls, just to name a few

Some people are entirely too caught up in defining sexuality, and trying to inflict their own narrow, biased views onto others. I had a gay friend that insisted that all bi people were closet gays, but only when it was a straight people doing same-sex sex, because gay people "never go bi", which reading any number of threads here would prove otherwise.

The name calling, outright or inferred ("you go girl", really?) doesn't help anything, and I fully admit I find myself falling into in now and then when really pissed off.

 

[dralockhart]

Some people are entirely too caught up in defining sexuality, and trying to inflict their own narrow, biased views onto others.

This sort of accusation would matter to me more if it weren't always coming from closeted gay/bi/pan men who want to reap all the benefits of heterosexual privilege/being perceived as straight while screwing men on the side (since, you know, they don't value the humanity of men, just their convenience as sex objects).

 

[cuteguyincali]

It sucks we can't have a good conversation without being harassed. I totally respect how the ones who disagree with this topic feel. I get that. But everyone else would like to have a conversation (whether real or just a fantasy fetish) without the topic hijackers. That is all.

 

[sweet_taboo]

Let your wife know what's up. Her response just might surprise you.

 

[dralockhart]

It sucks we can't have a good conversation without being harassed. I totally respect how the ones who disagree with this topic feel. I get that. But everyone else would like to have a conversation (whether real or just a fantasy fetish) without the topic hijackers. That is all.

Having an online thread "hijacked" or being cheated on/having your physical and emotional wellness jeopardized by your husband. [In Jerri Blank voice.] "Which is the greater loss? I don't know."

 

[Str8Cocksucker]

Really? On this site, where a good lot of it is dedicated to men that want to be sex objects, or find them?

 

[Str8Cocksucker]

Let your wife know what's up. Her response just might surprise you.

Yup, by finding shark attorney. If he were to do such a thing, and that's a big "if" since we know nothing of her, then it should be done slowly as to not freak her out blindsiding her with something like this.

 

[dralockhart]

Really? On this site, where a good lot of it is dedicated to men that want to be sex objects, or find them?

I think there's a scary blurring of lines in your head between fantasy and reality. "Married men fantasize about having sex with people other than their wives, so it must be okay if I do it." Um, no. Sometimes people fantasize about punching those who make them mad, but it doesn't mean it'd be cool in real life if they did that.

 

[Str8Cocksucker]

There's a big difference between fantasizing about sucking cock and then doing it, and fantasizing about committing violence on someone and then doing it. But this is taking the conversation far away from the original topic, so back to the topic..

 

[dralockhart]

There's a big difference between fantasizing about sucking cock and then doing it, and fantasizing about committing violence on someone and then doing it. But this is taking the conversation far away from the original topic, so back to the topic..

Both harm someone.

 

[sweet_taboo]

Yup, by finding shark attorney. If he were to do such a thing, and that's a big "if" since we know nothing of her, then it should be done slowly as to not freak her out blindsiding her with something like this.

I agree. Slowly...he doesn't want to shock his wife.

 

[Str8Cocksucker]

No. Not the former. The latter, always.

 

[Str8Cocksucker]

I agree. Slowly...he doesn't want to shock his wife.

There's so much no one knows about his wife. There are numerous reasons he doesn't want to tell his wife. Some of my buds have wives that have lost all interest in sex, which might be fine in their 70's, but not in their 30's. The rest of the marriage is good. I've had a couple of buds that had good marriages, but their wives were big bible thumpers, so there was NO way they were going to ever agree to supporting the guys' bi sides. A few had bi wives who were big hypocrites, so while they could have all the girl on girl fun they wanted, the men were forbidden from man on man. A few others had women that got their interest in bi piqued, but then reneged on it, before it happened, or afterward, and left the guys high and dry.

Those few are just in my experience, and there's many more than that. So, maybe he can tell her, maybe he can't, but he should so what he can live with, not submit to some moral highground from people that don't walk in his shoes.

Anyway, slow and easy, if he's going to tell her.

 

[dralockhart]

No. Not the former. The latter, always.

So I guess you're just deluding yourself into believing whatever helps you sleep at night. God knows I'd need a heaping portion of delusion if my marriage was built on lies.

 

[LAPan75]

No.Just no.

I don't know his wife, but there could be so many other reasons he can't tell her any of this. I know a lot of married guys that love their wife but can't tell her about their having sex with men. Some wives won't suck dick, or have a low libido, or they might have religious issues with m2m sex, or would shoot their mouths off about it to, or any of numerous other reasons. But you don't throw the baby out with the bath water. So why wreck a marriage because one person in it needs to address something that seems to be an intrinsic part of them?

If you can't trust your Spouse, your marriage is already wrecked.... too late.​

 

[dralockhart]

The logic (or lack thereof) is astounding. If you had enough of a problem with the fact that your wife won't suck dick or has a low libido that you have to commit adultery, you shouldn't have married her. You seem to think that window-dressing your marriage makes it legitimate. It does not. It's not about keeping up appearances, it's what's at the heart of it. Lies and dishonesty are at the heart of yours. If you truly loved your wife, you'd communicate with her. You're a very selfish person.

 

[peeonme]

Interesting... I am a married, closeted gay, I had plenty of gay sex(but not enough) before marriage. Then I decided that I could be str8 if I really tried.
It didn't work, I am still gay and have been married for nearly 42 years. The last 20 have been without sex as my wife lost interest due to medications and I got tired of being turned down.
That being said I have not gone outside of marriage unless one were to include masturbation and gay porn in being unfaithful.
For me, I have religious convictions, such as don't commit adultery and divorce is only allowed if my wife were to commit adultery... even then it does not mean that I would have to divorce, only that I could.
Forsaking all others and until death do us part weren't just words.
That is my standard for myself, by living by this standard I respect myself and can look in the mirror. Some say that I live a lie, should leave my wife... yada, yada, yada.
That's their opinion.

If you want to suck a dick, you have to answer to yourself, you have to live with yourself. I think that you posted this in hopes of getting some support.
Don't ask if you don't want to hear what others think, just go find a guy and blow him... if your conscience allows this.