If Your Bf Hit You.....

[ronboy]

Luckily it has never happened.....

If it did, I think it would end thing for me....

 

[G-Lexington]

Seeing as we have more than a decade behind us, I wouldn't be so quick to leave or kick his ass to the curb. I'd have to calm him down and figure out WHY he was hitting me (or trying to). This doesn't mean I'd forgive him immediately (or at all), but since I'm significantly larger than my boyfriend, I think I'd be able to minimize the damage and figure out the issue before just up and leaving.

Oddly, we joke about this to some degree. I once said something that irked my boyfriend, and he jokingly formed a fist and waved it in a small circle, saying "You're just begging for one of these." I said, "What? Are you gonna rub that against my cheek?" And we both burst out laughing. So he'll occasionally still make that motion, and I'll act happy that I'm going to get a "cheek-rubbing fist".

Lex

 

[kevbo]

I'd probably start laughing

 

[GL]

i wouldn't kill him but he'd leave the room with a severe limp.

 

[LilBit]

Motherfucker'd get a skillet upside the head.

 

[highwindcaleb]

id get my knife

 

[thisisinteresting]

I'd leave.the situation......and decide what I want to do next

This. Very little chance I wouldn't leave the guy.

Then again I have a scary temper so who knows. If it pissed me off enough I'd probably attack him.

 

[Ram]

I can understand why Lilbit's bf would severely hit him. I mean, you would try your best too, do whatever you can to improve Lilbit's face. Power of love, baby.

 

[FirePhoenix]

I would do exactly what I did. I returned the favor and then calmly told him you hit me once and if you ever try it again you may not be able to walk away. He never tried it again.

Don't fuck with me!

 

[LilBit]

I can understand why Lilbit's bf would severely hit him. I mean, you would try your best too, do whatever you can to improve Lilbit's face. Power of love, baby.

Don't forget your panties, Ram.

 

[BlackAdam13]

I would dump his unconscious ass in the street...both literally and figuratively.

 

[Ram]

Well if it were playful, I'd turn it into a wrestling-match-then-sex-romp.

This.

But if it's meant to hurt, I will cry.

 

[Geoffboyardee]

Fucking leave that bitch.

However I may snap and freak out on him. And by freak out I mean punch him just as hard across the cheek but with no restraint.

I'm bipolar like that. :\

 

[undisclosed1234]

Logically, I know I should just walk away. But I have a temper and if he actually hit me I have little doubt I'd hit him back. Hard.

Pretty much this. When it comes to physical violence i'm pretty gendered. Never touch a woman, ever, except to hold her back but as my dad always said a guy hits you 5 you hit him 10. Period.

If it was a slap or something I don't think I'd do anything (although I don't see myself dating a male that slaps) except tell him to calm down and piss off. But a punch....yeah, I'm laying him out. Boxing trigger.

Which doesn't make a lot of sense since the few guys I date are always complete sweethearts while the women are usually erm, livelier? Smashed plates at break-up, stalking, etc.

 

[bi-4u2]

Break up with him. i dont think i could do much damage wile fighting fair

if he BEGGED for forgiveness i would take him back under the condition that i get to hit him back. THEN I WOULD BEAT THE SHIT OUT OF HIM... then if he still wants me back

I can fight. but im like a wild animal when i do. i dont pull anything back, and i wont hesitate for low blows

 

[TheOscar]

Leave him, break up with him, like others have said. I wouldn't want to stay with someone like that.

 

[giorgiobaby]

I've never had it happen, but if it did. He'd be picking himself up off the floor and then out the door.

 

[blackbeltninja]

What would you do? Hit him back, be stunned, curse him out, cry, etc.? I'd probably hit him back.

I'd give him a 30 second head start.

This is assuming he managed to connect, though. I do have 17 years of karate behind me, so I'm unlikely to get successfully jumped by a rookie. What's more probable is that reflexes would take over and I would deflect the attack and have him pinned up against the wall before I'd realised what had happened. But then I'd figure out what had happened. And then I'd give him that 30 second head start mentioned above.

-d-

 

[Beachguyj]

You can see signs of things like this beforehand and I would never get into a relationship with someone who would hit me. I'm a good judge of character and I wouldn't give a person the person the opportunity. I'm very level headed when it comes to physical things regarding anger. I never throw things, hit, or punch a wall.

 

[navidzurender]

Depends on how long we're together, then i might forgive him but definitely need to work on something about it, he hit me for a reason and I need an explanation.

But if we're just new and he hit me, I would definitely call it quits but won't hit em back, that's just not me.