If Your Bf Hit You.....

[evanrick]

rape his ass.

 

[navidzurender]

But to be honest (please dont bash me)
I would like to have a semi violent angry sex with a boyfriend, like bitch slapping me and stuff and pulling my head hard, geez thats just too naughty but that kinda turns me on

Oh well back to topic lolz

 

[Anders123]

Though it can be argued that aggressive tendencies are inherent in humans, so too are mechanisms for cooperation, compassion, and the intellectual capacity to exhibit learned self-control. Lashing out physically as a response to feelings of anger and frustration is both primitive and barbaric; retaliation is equally so.

If my partner lacked the willpower, constraint, and sophistication to successfully manage his emotions, resulting in physical violence, then he would no longer be my partner; simple.

There is no rationale to justify causing physical harm to those you love.

 

[evanrick]

But to be honest (please dont bash me)
I would like to have a semi violent angry sex with a boyfriend, like bitch slapping me and stuff and pulling my head hard, geez thats just too naughty but that kinda turns me on

Oh well back to topic lolz

semi violent angry sex? sounds like wrestling in ancient times lol...

 

[Dolmance]

He'd be lucky to get away with his manhood intact. Oh, and things would be over.

 

[Sam Blum]

One partner did hit me, and I fell all the way down a flight of stairs. When I got to the bottom, he was there absolutely shocked at what he'd done and helped me up crying and apologising. I punched him in the stomach and left. The very next day I bought him roses and 'made up' with him, thus negating his responsibility in the exchange of violence.

Violence in relationships is very common, I believe, and not at all something to participate in, or remain subjected to. It is shocking to experience either way, and reduces one's value immensely.

 

[borg69unimatrix]

One partner did hit me, and I fell all the way down a flight of stairs. When I got to the bottom, he was there absolutely shocked at what he'd done and helped me up crying and apologising. I punched him in the stomach and left. The very next day I bought him roses and 'made up' with him, thus negating his responsibility in the exchange of violence.

Violence in relationships is very common, I believe, and not at all something to participate in, or remain subjected to. It is shocking to experience either way, and reduces one's value immensely.

He hit you first, knocking you down a flight of stairs, and YOU bought HIM roses???

What the Hell ?!?!? Dude. Seriously?

 

[ShihTzuTylenol]

yeah, I'd beat the shirt off him...That happened to my friend Kellen, he was in this relationship with this rich guy in Dallas and the dude started knocking Kellen around on a regular basis until a few of us went down and sent him a message/an offer he couldn't refuse*

just because someone buys you a Mercedes Benz doesn't give them the right to own you




*no horses were harmed in the beating of his ass lol

 

[thewiz]

My husband and I have talked about it; we may get frustrated, we may get angry but we will never hit each other.

As a police officer, I frequently saw the damage done by physical abuse both to the individuals as well as those around them. The worst result was when it had escalated to a point that the guy thought anyone who smiled at his wife must have been "fucking her" so he spread gas all over the house and set it on fire, killing her and their two children who he viewed as "likely contaminated." He's now doing life in prison (Michigan does not have the death penalty).

Violence occurs in the gay community but I am sad to say it is dealt with like it was in the hetero community -- about 20 years ago. It is frequently ignored, swept under the carpet, under or un-reported, and even when it is reported, it is likely poo-poo'd by the police when responding.

It took deaths to get domestic violence dealt with in a uniform and serious way. Shelters were established for abused victims to remove them from the home of the abuser. Counseling and other programs were coordinated to deal with violence and offenders are taken to jail.

We have a ways to go and I fear that we will see some very unpleasant things in the gay community before all is said and done.....

 

[BearBoi]

It took deaths to get domestic violence dealt with in a uniform and serious way. Shelters were established for abused victims to remove them from the home of the abuser. Counseling and other programs were coordinated to deal with violence and offenders are taken to jail.

If the victim is a woman, sure.

If the victim is a man, than the situation is as bad as it was for women 60 years ago.

In the city of Toronto, there are no victim outreach lines for men who are abused by a female spouse.

There are no counselling centers, shelters or programs to deal with that.

Absolutely nothing.

And then, even if by some slim chance the man does get to take her to court, the deck is completely stacked against him.

True story; I know a guy who was not only abused, but outright terrorized, by his wife. She'd phone him at work and threaten to murder their child if he didn't come home right away because the baby (1 year old) would not stop crying. She neglected the infant to the point that he was unable to stand on his own at nearly 2 years of age.

One night, shortly before (finally!) filing for divorce, he tape recorded her threatening to kill their baby.

She was arrested, charged, and then at the trial all evidence was tossed out because she didn't know she was being recorded at the time.

If a man threatened to murder a baby, do you think the courts would give a fuck if he knew he was being recorded or not? The News stations would see that he was strung up the nearest tree within the hour.

That's the Canadian "Justice" System when it comes to dealing with heterosexual male spousal abuse victims.

 

[Taz]

I'd tell them to gtfo then i'd sever all contact. hitting back can only cause more harm than good.

 

[Sigma-taylor-E]

The calm, rational thinking part of me is saying right now that I would probably just try to walk away and remove myself from the situation.

But in the actual moment...yeah, I may not be as cool. lol

There's a good chance of me going Ike Brown on that ass if he put his hands on me.

Honestly Moe spoke for me!

 

[mbamike]

He would be history.

 

[Dariusb]

I believe Erykah wants to say something:



Seriously, though, I'm assuming that he'd hit me first. Wow. We'd be fighting, especially if he hit me in my face.

LOL! I remember that song bt Erykah. She wanted dude to get his sh*t out!

 

[Dariusb]

I'd tell my mommy on him.

LOL! Mama might whoop his azz!

 

[Dariusb]

I'm a little curious as to how often physical abuse takes place in gay/lesbian relationships. I rarely ever hear about it and didn't encounter it in a GLBT film until a few weeks ago when I watched The Stranger In Us.

You're right you don't hear about abuse in the LGBT community. I did read something about a shelter for gay and lesbian abuse victims in Minnesota. Here is a site I found concerning domestic violence in the LGBT community.
http://www.rainbowdomesticviolence.itgo.com/

 

[Dariusb]

Oh my gosh, you guys are so head strong(In a good way)

I'd probably be shocked and try to leave the situation but I wouldn't hit back, if he hit me once he would probably hit me again and I can't hold my own in a fight :/ But I would probably tell someone and break up with him

I was in an abusive relationship before. Ever see the movie 'Sleeping with the Enemy' with Julia Roberts? It was kinda like that but I didn't fake my death.

Oh man that's crazy! Glad you're out of that relationship!

 

[Dariusb]

I would dump his unconscious ass in the street...both literally and figuratively.

LMBAO! I can see this and he'd wake up all dazed and sh*t.

 

[Ram]

Surprised that there is domestic violence in LBGT relationship. I thought we are little "better" than our straight counterparts since we don't really have the "who's the man in the family" kind of relationships and are more in love and empowered.

 

[Dariusb]

My husband and I have talked about it; we may get frustrated, we may get angry but we will never hit each other.

As a police officer, I frequently saw the damage done by physical abuse both to the individuals as well as those around them. The worst result was when it had escalated to a point that the guy thought anyone who smiled at his wife must have been "fucking her" so he spread gas all over the house and set it on fire, killing her and their two children who he viewed as "likely contaminated." He's now doing life in prison (Michigan does not have the death penalty).

Violence occurs in the gay community but I am sad to say it is dealt with like it was in the hetero community -- about 20 years ago. It is frequently ignored, swept under the carpet, under or un-reported, and even when it is reported, it is likely poo-poo'd by the police when responding.

It took deaths to get domestic violence dealt with in a uniform and serious way. Shelters were established for abused victims to remove them from the home of the abuser. Counseling and other programs were coordinated to deal with violence and offenders are taken to jail.

We have a ways to go and I fear that we will see some very unpleasant things in the gay community before all is said and done.....

So sad! What a worthless b@stard to do such a thing!