If Your Bf Hit You.....

[Ram]

I mean 5% I get. Must be those Joan Crawford and Mommie Dearest nutjobs going slap-happy on their partners.

But that high? I know sleeping with Lilbit is considered a form of mental and physical abuse but his ass can't get around that much.

The whole statistic just upsets me. I thought we are better in relationships than straight people.

 

[Dariusb]

rape his ass.

Well damn.

 

[Dariusb]

But to be honest (please dont bash me)
I would like to have a semi violent angry sex with a boyfriend, like bitch slapping me and stuff and pulling my head hard, geez thats just too naughty but that kinda turns me on

Oh well back to topic lolz

Different strokes for different folks.

 

[Dariusb]

One partner did hit me, and I fell all the way down a flight of stairs. When I got to the bottom, he was there absolutely shocked at what he'd done and helped me up crying and apologising. I punched him in the stomach and left. The very next day I bought him roses and 'made up' with him, thus negating his responsibility in the exchange of violence.

Violence in relationships is very common, I believe, and not at all something to participate in, or remain subjected to. It is shocking to experience either way, and reduces one's value immensely.

Man oh man! I hope you're still not involved with that creep!

 

[Dariusb]

There's some pretty interesting information on that website. I wonder how old it is...I almost want to redesign it for them.

Right. I was shocked by that number as well.

 

[Ram]

Is it too late to retract back that I will cry first?

Seems like most of you would either hit back or do something that will reaffirm the presence of your balls.

I can't be the only one that will cry first. If I love him, I will bawl my eyes out. Probably be too stunned and slightly turned on to do anything. After that, I look at the relationship. If it's in the infancy stage, dump his ass in a macho way. If it's in a marriage/long term thing, I need to talk to him first in a macho manly way of course. His actions are not excusable but it is still no grounds to terminate the relationship quickly to me.

 

[hotb0d]

drug him up with some diphenhydramine. Wait until he's asleep, cut off his penis and put it in a blender. That's for hitting me earlier this morning.

 

[Dariusb]

I mean 5% I get. Must be those Joan Crawford and Mommie Dearest nutjobs going slap-happy on their partners.

But that high? I know sleeping with Lilbit is considered a form of mental and physical abuse but his ass can't get around that much.

The whole statistic just upsets me. I thought we are better in relationships than straight people.

You really must dislike Lilbit huh? Yeah, that 30-40% is a very high and disturbing number.

 

[Ram]

You really must dislike Lilbit huh?

Nah, we are good friends. I just hate his ass so much though.

 

[Dariusb]

drug him up with some diphenhydramine. Wait until he's asleep, cut off his penis and put it in a blender. That's for hitting me earlier this morning.

Ouch! I cringed while reading that.

 

[Dariusb]

Nah, we are good friends. I just hate his ass so much though.

Oh ok, lol.

 

[Ram]

drug him up with some diphenhydramine. Wait until he's asleep, cut off his penis and put it in a blender. That's for hitting me earlier this morning.

Lorena Bobbitt, I love your avatar here at JUB!

 

[LilBit]

I mean 5% I get. Must be those Joan Crawford and Mommie Dearest nutjobs going slap-happy on their partners.

But that high? I know sleeping with Lilbit is considered a form of mental and physical abuse but his ass can't get around that much.

The whole statistic just upsets me. I thought we are better in relationships than straight people.

Oh, you are SO getting angry sex tonight.

And remember, when you call me Mommie Dearest, I want you to mean it.

 

[Dariusb]

then squirt a whole tube of Super Glue into the end of his penis...

and squeeze it shut

Oh sh!t! I couldn't imagine the feeling.

 

[oakpope]

First time I would be probably shocked first, then try to verbalize what just happened with him, to understand the act or the pulsion.

Second time would be the last, though.

 

[barnbuddy]

like many here, I'd be shocked - it has never happened to me

I'd get away from the person, but if this was a serious relationship,

I'd want to figure out the "why" before breaking ties.

and, I might push him out of the way, but I hope I wouldn't hit him

then I'm not any better really.

 

[zampa4]

It's never happened to me, and hopefully it never will... I'm a very non-confrontational person to begin with; if it did, though, I wouldn't hit back, to be honest. I'd get the hell out of there and tell someone I trust right away.

 

[GayPopeye]

Try to hit me..just try

As I dread to meet abusive people like that, I'm glad that my 200 p weight is hard to be shaken

 

[Dariusb]

It's never happened to me, and hopefully it never will... I'm a very non-confrontational person to begin with; if it did, though, I wouldn't hit back, to be honest. I'd get the hell out of there and tell someone I trust right away.

Right, because if it happens once it's likely to happen again.

 

[80KGold]

Honestly, this will sound like a dick comment, but I think a lot of people are just bs'ing to make themselves seem badass.

I don't think anyone in their right mind would hit back if they knew that the guy was a lot stronger than they were and could beat them into oblivion...

I think you're assuming that the person who was hit first would try to fight mano-a-mano. During my life, I've fought people who were obviously bigger than me. And at those encounters, realizing that I was overmatched, I've picked up a chair, a clothing iron, and even a cast iron skillet, once, to even out the situation. This happened instinctively; I didn't even think.

Once, when I was in 5th grade, this huge boy had me in a choke-hold. I wasn't able to wiggle loose, but I bit the shit out of his arm. He let go and said that I wasn't "fighting fair." Bullshit! It wasn't my fault that I was short and about 70 pounds, while he weighed about 3 times me and was at least a foot taller. And it also wasn't my fault that he had his arm near my mouth.

If a dude--especially one whom I thought I loved and who I thought loved me--hit me (first) because he was angry, and if he were bigger and stronger, I suspect that I'd pick up the nearest object and swat the hell out of him. Maybe some of the other people who've posted messages in this thread would do the same.