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Is porn considered cheating?

CudDULL said:
No just tell your friend she's an insecure over controlling bitch.
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I'm not sure if that's the best way to handle the situation. LOL She's really nice and calm when she's not around him but all hell breaks loose when they're together.
 
xtacee1990 said:
My first cmmt ==: I think it is cheating, not because of the fact that u masturbate, but because u have sexual thoughts about another person, aka porn actors (n actresses, :D). Its not comparable to checking out somebody else n thinking their hot, because usually u just stop there, thinking that their hot (it doesnt really make sense i know =="), while when ur watching porn, u actually think about fking the porn actors/actresses...
thats just my opinion. Doesnt mean that im gonna not do it when im with someone :P. yeah, im that much of a hypocrite :D =="
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I doubt that that majority of people in relationships can HONESTLY say that they have NEVER had sexual thoughts about somebody else while in a relationship... whether they're about a porn actor/actress, your best friend, somebody you saw at the mall, or your favorite musician. Sexual thoughts do not equate to love and feelings. A relationship is more than just sex.
 
Porn isn't cheating. Cheating is cheating. If my guy wouldn't let me watch porn, he would have to step it up by at least 150%.
 
Ephemeral said:
A friend of mine got really upset when she found out her boyfriend watched porn. She considered it cheating and she threatened to break up with him. I just nodded because she's very overdramatic and overemotional, so she was likely to snap on me too. LOL
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that's what you call insecurity. i remember that true life episode where this guy's wife left him and even took the kids away simply because he watched porn and masturbated. she threatened that if he didn't change his ways that she will divorce him and he would never see the kids again. #-o i felt bad for him for having to deal with an insecure nutjob like that.

for real... a good thing he broke up with her because she's fucking crazy. good luck to any guy that has to come across her ass.
 


Oh My Fucking Stars and Stripes

If viewing porn is cheating then what is masturbation?


Or...Wet Dreams that come to full fruition?


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by the poster as they contained adult penises#-o

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It definitely depends on each person, some take it personal because they feel that if their partner is needing to use porn then it means they are not good enough in bed and some might think that can also lead to cheating in the long run. I personally don't think it's cheating.
 
Wow this is an old thread.

A quite surprising update if you guys care:

The girl moved back to Florida and is now in a two-year relationship with some guy. Last time I heard, they were on a break and that he was "annoying", but going off Facebook photos, they're together again.

The boy actually came out as a transsexual and is now transitioning. His facial and body features have changed but he hasn't gotten the corrective surgery yet. To show how much of a bitch she is, when he told her about his transitioning, she laughed in his face and called him disgusting.

They haven't talked since.
 
Ephemeral said:
A friend of mine got really upset when she found out her boyfriend watched porn. She considered it cheating and she threatened to break up with him. I just nodded because she's very overdramatic and overemotional, so she was likely to snap on me too. LOL

I've never considered porn as cheating. You're satisfying your fantasies mentally. It isn't like you're actually having sex or seek sex outside of the relationship.
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I understand how many women feel this way, but I also think many women don't get that for men, getting off is often extremely visual, and many (if not most) guys have used visual aids in their solo sex life since they started masturbating... it's not an emotional investment in the pictures or a denouncement of a real sex partner, it's habit and how many men are wired.

So no, it isn't cheating. But sexual mechanics in general are much less purely physical or visual and much more personal and emotional for women than for men on the whole, so it is often a disconnect between men and women trying to get them to see the same page on issues like this.
 
Ephemeral said:
Wow this is an old thread.

A quite surprising update if you guys care:

The girl moved back to Florida and is now in a two-year relationship with some guy. Last time I heard, they were on a break and that he was "annoying", but going off Facebook photos, they're together again.

The boy actually came out as a transsexual and is now transitioning. His facial and body features have changed but he hasn't gotten the corrective surgery yet. To show how much of a bitch she is, when he told her about his transitioning, she laughed in his face and called him disgusting.

They haven't talked since.
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Interesting update. Well good luck to both of them. A good thing your friend and the girl aren't together. That's a really terrible thing for her say to say :/ Good luck to him for the transitioning.
 
Ephemeral said:
A friend of mine got really upset when she found out her boyfriend watched porn. She considered it cheating and she threatened to break up with him.
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I would only consider porn a threat if the boyf was wanking to it instead of having sex with me (which happened in the past with an ex)
 
LeicsDom said:
I would only consider porn a threat if the boyf was wanking to it instead of having sex with me (which happened in the past with an ex)
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Well this kind of opens another topic--- does being in a relationship necessitate the end of one's solo sex life? Is continuing a solo sex life through masturbation "cheating on" or "Harming" a partner?
 
xbuzzerx said:
Well this kind of opens another topic--- does being in a relationship necessitate the end of one's solo sex life? Is continuing a solo sex life through masturbation "cheating on" or "Harming" a partner?
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My personal feeling is that so long as I am getting as much sex as I want then the overflow can be burned off with porn :)
 
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