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Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017 / 2018 / 2019

Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

I'm getting to a point where I'm starting to realize the stark differences between my boyfriend and I go far beyond something cute I can pass as "opposites attract." I'm starting to think that maybe we aren't right for each other.
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

Doubt is an important element in any human relationship. Without doubt there is no loving relationship.

Doubt helps us to adjust our own behaviour, and encourage our partner to do likewise.

Doubt is a healthy, and productive feature of all relationships.
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

:help:Well I finally gave in and downloaded grindr. I am in over my head. It's as if i never spoken to guys in my life before.
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

Tony wants to go to Apollo Beach today, decided to op out. Did a lot last week, needed a Prozac today, been turned down or straight up ignored a lot recently, I just need a me day.
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

kallipolis said:
Doubt is an important element in any human relationship. Without doubt there is no loving relationship.

Doubt helps us to adjust our own behaviour, and encourage our partner to do likewise.

Doubt is a healthy, and productive feature of all relationships.
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Eh. It definitely does not feel that healthy.
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

eastofeden said:
Thanks for the reminder Borg!..fixing things is so automatic for me..and it never even occurred to me to just back off a bit and detach....nothing I can do to change the OCD but I really don't want to make him feel like shit because I know he can't help himself.

Sometimes when he has gone off on a tangent he comes to me with a sincere apology and I just tell him...."get it out baby..I know you need to do it so just let it rip and we will move along..eh?" ...but the cursive "e" thing and making the hole in the "e" bigger...UGH..fuck...
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A week later...I am calm again and I am formally addressing his "new concerns" and without any kind of malice or sarcasm....

As long as I can express my anger without any self censorship..I am usually good once it subsides....

He had a whole list of "concerns"...but the way I addressed the cursive "e" thing was to tell him that if he likes I will be happy to print his "e"s in the future BUT I won't promise he will like them any better than the cursive ones....

What I left out is that I don't give a shit if he likes them or not LOL....and that is the truth. Unbeknownst to him..he finally found the line with me....and the cursive e is THE LINE...so hopefully he learns to live with it..or not...his choice...

I feel like I have done admirably to this point accommodating his OCD and...now it is his turn to figure out that I don't need to accommodate his stupid requests unconditionally...and he needs to figure that out on his own....
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

eastofeden said:
A week later...I am calm again and I am formally addressing his "new concerns" and without any kind of malice or sarcasm....

As long as I can express my anger without any self censorship..I am usually good once it subsides....

He had a whole list of "concerns"...but the way I addressed the cursive "e" thing was to tell him that if he likes I will be happy to print his "e"s in the future BUT I won't promise he will like them any better than the cursive ones....

What I left out is that I don't give a shit if he likes them or not LOL....and that is the truth. Unbeknownst to him..he finally found the line with me....and the cursive e is THE LINE...so hopefully he learns to live with it..or not...his choice...

I feel like I have done admirably to this point accommodating his OCD and...now it is his turn to figure out that I don't need to accommodate his stupid requests unconditionally...and he needs to figure that out on his own....
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I tell my BF it's fine that you have OCD's. I have my own. But do not expect me to take on yours because it's how YOU think things should be. I have my hands full with my own OCD's. You're riding that crazy train on your own.
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

Slept like 14-15 hours yesterday. Which is definitely a first for me. I drank Friday night but not anymore than I have before and I was a little hungover but nothing out of the normal. I was just so tired that I didn't want to get out of bed at all.

I'm glad I got the rest but I can't help but think about because that's completely out of the ordinary for me.
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

Doing something new with sex is always interesting and exciting...
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

MakeDigitalLove said:
Slept like 14-15 hours yesterday. Which is definitely a first for me. I drank Friday night but not anymore than I have before and I was a little hungover but nothing out of the normal. I was just so tired that I didn't want to get out of bed at all.

I'm glad I got the rest but I can't help but think about because that's completely out of the ordinary for me.
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So envious of you right now.
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

Well, last night I only got like 4 hours before I had to be work in 2 in the morning. So it balances out in the end.
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

^
Quality is more important than quantity, apparently.

The idea that we need eight hours of sleep a night can be damaging: given that the average Londoner gets just over 6.5 hours, the one-size-fits-all approach ends up sending us on an exhausted guilt trip as we fail, night after night, to hit the magic eight.

Rather than take a nightly approach we should be looking at our sleep on a weekly basis. Littlehales suggests that the average person needs around 35 cycles of sleep a week — which works out as five lots of 90 minutes a night. But you don’t have to feel guilty for one bad night’s kip — you can just make up for it another day.

http://www.standard.co.uk/lifestyle...ern-to-get-a-better-nights-rest-a3349071.html
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Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

There are nights where a few hours sleep work for me and by that I mean 6 hours or less. Eventually that catches up with me and there is a night I sleep really long. My work schedule isn't exactly ideal and has me going in anywhere between 2-7am multiple times a week. So my sleep schedule gets kind of fucked because of it.
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I don't think it's a good idea that I see my older brother in person any time soon. With all the bigoted shit he has been liking on Facebook, I'm going to end up knocking him on the side of his head.
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

Pulling your back before work is not fun. :(
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

Last time I ever use soap to shave, my face feels like it's burning. *adds shaving cream to his shopping list*
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

Charon said:
Last time I ever use soap to shave, my face feels like it's burning. *adds shaving cream to his shopping list*
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I tried aloe vera one time i ran out of cream. Never again
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

Being able to relax in a bath and listening to music is incredibly therapeutic.
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

Got to say one of the things I miss the most up north is hanging with my younger brothers and their friends watching bad movies. Some of the funniest times I had with people.
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

Really can't wait to get my own car again.
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

I think seeing little animals locked up everyday in this pet store is bothering me to the point where I don't want to work here anymore.
 
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