just venting, airing out, talking shit, personal beefs, problems, anger management, and etc thread

[maxpowr9]

^Better than the yuppity assholes that flock to Whole Foods.

 

[chance1]

Heading to Trader Joes - lines but manageable and the checkout people are interesting and nice

And some attractive

Oops not a "vent" is it ?

 

[Lefty]

He is not your roommate.
As I understand it, he is your dependent.

The dynamics of your relationship are secondary here.
House rules include not having unannounced, unexpected
and worst, unknown people in YOUR house without an OK.

This or another third party type could rip you off big time
or hurt you (or worse). Don't just have a talk with your
charity case. Flat out TELL him the rules that he will have
to follow.
This isn't 'Dorothy's OZ' ...
be prepared to change the locks etc, not just get the keys
back. This only sounds harsh until you think of the ramifications.

Best of Luck

 

[borg69unimatrix]

dreading having to have a talk with my roommate, but god damn... I asked for 1 thing while he's living with me rent free and drinking my liquor/eating my food. I don't want strangers in my house.

so what do I see when I duck into my spare room this morning as I'm getting ready for work (because I left my keys on the desk in there last night)? my roommate and his boyfriend, who's a total stranger to me. our arrangement can't work if I can't trust him, and maybe it was an emergency, but a heads up or a warning text would have been appreciated. as it is, it feels very clear like my roommate wanted to hide it from me, and the paranoia gears in my head are churning wondering if, in fact, the BF has been over like every weekend and whenever I'm away overnight.

I see why you're mad, but we all did it in our youths. I once hid out a GF for a whole week at my mom's without her knowing. We're all slaves of our hearts and hormones.

 

[oakpope]

^you're already amazingly accommodating I feel.

 

[ChickenGuy]

Wait a minute, what about The Artist Formerly Known As Prince?

 

[justanothershyguy]

Seriously Loki? That's fucked up.

My family's relatively cool about Facebook. Amazingly, the only one that makes me smack my forehead is one of my cousins. It's kind of funny. Another of my cousins and I are the family gays, and neither of us can even compare to how big of a drama queen the one is. There was one post after a snow storm where he got his girlfriends car stuck in a parking lot and couldn't get a ride to work, so he bitched about how it would suck having to walk in the morning. The rest of us were like.. shovel? push? I swear, he doesn't even think when the going gets rough. Oh, if he's not bitching about something like that, it's about how much he loves his girlfriend.

*vomit gif*

There is no way in frozen hell that I would be *that* guy... Affection is awesome, but c'mon, we know you love her already. Now shut the fuck up and carry on!

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Wait a minute, what about The Artist Formerly Known As Prince?

Not to mention that's not Hitler's symbol, but the symbol of the Nazi party

 

[borg69unimatrix]

A lot of my family is on Facebook, but I never look at or read their posts. I have no idea what they say about anything.

 

[FuryOfFirestorm]

Facebook makes me hate a lot of my family.

I finally unfriended my aunt today after she posted this picture:

Does that mean that Prince is like Hilter?

All kidding aside, that is stupid on so many levels. The swastika was originally used by an ancient religion, and had a completely different meaning until the Nazi Party took it as their symbol and distorted it's meaning. It's not Hilter's symbol, it's the symbol of the Nazi Party.

 

[rareboy]

Facebook makes me hate a lot of my family.

I finally unfriended my aunt today after she posted this picture:

Your poor aunt. She must hate him a lot to buy into such a complete nonsensical fabrication.

Maybe you should let her know why she is wrong in her facts.

 

[jdcnow]

My $0.02 rant on restaurants' sweet tea.

Had Subway this afternoon, oven-roast chicken on flatbread. Since going soda-free several months ago, I almost exclusively drink sweet tea.

Food at this particular location was awesome, however the tea just imho missed the mark.

I don't want tea so sweet that you can taste the diabetes in it. But I don't want tea so bitter or sour that it taste like used dishwater.

There's a happy medium that restaurants are usually good at hitting - just the perfect level of sweet.

But this last cup I got just missed the mark. :/

 

[refujiunderground]

sometimes, i get so annoyed and frustrated with some of my fellow gay peers where i just want to fucking grip my hands around their neck and fucking strangle them with my bare hands or punch them right in the face and beat them down til they're black and blue. i get that heated sometimes. the sad thing is i try to come in peace but you know, some people have to be dealt with the other way though.

 

[jdcnow]

I hate to break it to you, but you're totally defeating the purpose if you still drink sweet tea.

Meh, I gave up on soda for good at Christmas last year, due to a possible kidney stone and urinary tract issues.

Now, all I drink is sweet tea, not-from-concentrate fruit juices, and cranberry juice.

 

[refujiunderground]

diddy performing @ wrestlemania. that's the best the wwe could get? gimme a break.

 

[borg69unimatrix]

fucking absurd... pulled over last night and issued a $130 ticket for having a 10 second conversation on my cellphone while stopped at a red light

I'm the biggest advocate of "get the fuck off your phone," but seriously? the car had come to a complete stop, the light had just turned red, and I was only calling the car in front of me to say "turn right, pull over, and let me get in front so you can follow me instead."

You should feel lucky... I believe where I live the fine for talking on a cell phone while driving is $2,000.

 

[jdcnow]

Another $0.02 rant here...

My straight friends, the couple I housekeep for. I adore them, they're fundamentally good people who have helped me a lot, for which I can never repay. But they both have pressured me to come out of the closet to my mom, who still doesn't know, because frankly, I don't feel I need to tell her.

My mom and I have been amicable, but "friendly strangers" amicable. We have never had a real "family" type of relationship. Hell, on my last birthday, a few months ago, I called down there to remind her (I actually normally have to actually call my mom and remind her it's my birthday - not kidding!), and turns out she was in the hospital having major leg surgery for an infection she let get out of hand (she's stubborn...) and had instructed my older brother to not contact me or tell me anything - I had to milk the information out of him. So that's the nature of my family - me, my mom, and my older brother - we're just 3 DNA-related strangers.

My straight friends also give me hell about not coming out period and finding a boyfriend. I know I'm in the city now, but I still have to keep my mouth shut with the people I come into regular contact with (mostly my co-workers at my supermarket, since there and school are the only other two places I ever go - my two jobs and school basically run my life. What little free time I actually have is usually the middle of the night, and so I'm usually here or on Tumblr, as my only means at all of any kind of recreation.)

I have to keep my mouth shut. And it annoys me like hell when my straight friends breath down my back that I can be open about my sexuality. I counter: They can - they're straight people, enjoying straight privilege in a hetero-normative world! They can be open about who they are. I cannot.

Gotta run to catch the bus for school. Later.

 

[FuryOfFirestorm]

never, but your post reminded me of

Emma Frost - I love that bitch so much.

 

[refujiunderground]

Ah, ok. That makes more sense. I've heard of people cutting out soda because of HFCS, yet still consuming copious amounts of sugary drinks.





The WWE is a total joke now, so it doesn't surprise me.

I realize wrestling is ridiculous, but they used to maintain some semblance of realism.

When Steve Austin used to cut promos, they didn't feel forced at all. Ditto a lot of other guys on the WWF roster. It seemed like they were just shooting from the hip. Now it's like every mic segment feels completely forced, and it doesn't help that they book these ten-minute soliloquies for guys who can barely do 3 mins. Everything ends up feeling and sounding like bad porno acting.

exactly, that's what made the wwe the shit back in the attitude era as well as wcw when the nwo started out and they literally turned that organization out. it was like there was some real personal vendettas going on where they really became the storylines or the wrestlers were just being themselves because they didn't give a fuck. now they've regressed for the "kids".

my older brother actually went to wrestlemania last night with his coworkers/buddies. he said that the crowd was much more alive than how it came off on camera. he said that the crowd actually enjoyed the diddy performance which i'm not quite sure of because judging from what they showed on camera and the audio, the crowd seemed .

that cm punk and undertaker match should have been the main event. it was way more exciting than the last two matches. that john cena and rock match was boring. brock lesnar should have won that triple h match and make triple h's ass retire. triple h has no business being in a wrestling ring anymore. shawn michaels looked more alive and active than him in that match.

on a side note, i actually saw cm punk close to a decade ago before he was in the wwe in that ring of honor shit. never thought dude would be in the wwe. dude didn't give a fuck back then either.

speaking of which the old wwe, whatever happened to val venis? that dude was the most underrated superstar ever. his gimmick was funny as fuck and he was hot. when him and those japanese wrestlers were going at it where they kidnapped him and tried to chop his dick off.

 

[ChickenGuy]

it's really fucking with me that there's a new tv series coming out titled "The White Queen," and it's written by a writer named Emma Frost, but it has nothing to do with the X-Men (it's a historical drama about some random British queen)

Hmm, you peaked my interest with this, more so when I just found out it was about the Wars of the Roses in the 15th century and the rival Houses of York and Lancaster.

Unfortunately, I just saw a truly dreadful trailer on YouTube which rather exposes it for what it is - a moronic 'drama' in the vein of The Tudors. In other words, instead of a serious, proper, well-researched, in-depth and informative period drama, we just get this type of brainless 21st century revisionist claptrap. No use watching a show that throws history aside for modern language, rock music, and 'sex' scenes all to be digested by hormonal teenage girls. More dumbing down for the masses.

Armchair TV critic rant over.

 

[refujiunderground]

I had an RJ-type dream last night.

what happened?