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You think you know the people you work with. Including your bosses. You see them for 9 and 10 hours a day. You stay late beyond quitting time, when they ask you to, routinely. You begin to actually trust them and have each other's back.

Until something like this.

One of the salaried assistant managers at my supermarket was reassigned to the overnight shift. Back in December, when I was a day and evening cashier and supervisor, this manager personally came to me and invited me to come with her to the overnight shift - said she'd hand-picked me to come with her to the overnight shift. I started on the overnight shift January 25th.

Well, in order to reassign someone in our system, you have to temporarily reassign them to part-time status. Then, after the change is made, reassign them back to full-time status, so that the employee doesn't lose their benefits, medical and otherwise. It's that last little leap from part-time back to full time that wasn't made. And I didn't know about it until my dentist calls me the day before my cleaning appointment (Tuesday - day before yesterday), and tells me my dental insurance is supposedly no good.

I call my company's health insurance hotline, and explain the situation, and that's how I find out why my dental insurance was cancelled. I was never put back at full time in the system. Despite working 40 hours-plus a week with overtime, sometimes even staying an extra up to 2 hours per day above my scheduled 7am time to go home after I'd put in a full 8 hour night, and in some cases even came in early the night before (at the beginning of the shift) to help out.

I worked like a damn dog for these people, including almost putting my health in jeopardy running myself into the ground, and this is what I have to show for it? That the promise to put me back at full time was just lip service. And when I need the dental insurance I thought I had, Oh, I'm sorry, you don't have any dental insurance.

According to company guidelines anyone getting over 35 hours a week is considered full time. And changing someone to full time is just a matter of a salaried manager going into the computer system, in MS-DOS and with a few keystrokes, and going through a few screens, the process takes literally all of 90 seconds to do.

Wow, I seriously don't know, anymore. Just wow.

I'm not going to quit the job - I need the income, and don't have that luxury. But trust and believe - When Open Enrollment comes around, in October, You better bet that I'm going to cancel my workplace-provided health insurance all together. Quit flushing my hard-earned dollars down the fucking toilet, then when I need the coverage the most, I don't have it. I'm gonna see if I can get the coverage I want on the open market, just paying for the health insurance out of my own pocket. I can get the coverage I want (medical, vision, dental, and life) with no nasty surprises like this to ever come up again.

This is not cool. So incredibly not cool. I'm trying to make a better life for myself, and work on my health and my body with this health insurance I'm supposed to have. I honestly don't have time for shit like this. :grrr: /pissed!!!!
 
^ That is VERY NOT COOL. Can you possibly be eligible for a refund on some of the premiums you've paid in, if they were merely going for alleged, but phantom, coverage?

And, did you start that course you needed to start, after all? That was you, right?

4 dates in 2 weeks and you're having the "where is this going" talk already??? That would scare me off.
A lot of relationships, when being formed, go through TWO OR THREE "Where is this thing going?" stages. He is in the second stage...I think??

1. "Where is this thing going?" - Do I even THINK that I would want anything more to do with this guy...even just more dating with no strings attached?

2. I think I like this guy a lot, but I don't know how he feels about me yet. I'm also not sure yet that I want a relationship.

3. I really do like [love] this guy...and he is quite fond of me himself. Are there enough things in place, also including the logistics, to possibly make a relationship work after all, and is he willing to go for it too? I know that I am ready.
 
^^^^

I've seen the pizza delivery guy more often than that, and the guy on the corner holding the cardboard "work for food" sign 4x that... I'm still not ready to have the talk with them. I've also had one night stands that lasted longer than 2 weeks.

Some people wade in...
Some people jump in...
Some people boil your rabbit.
;)
 
^ That is VERY NOT COOL. Can you possibly be eligible for a refund on some of the premiums you've paid in, if they were merely going for alleged, but phantom, coverage?

And, did you start that course you needed to start, after all? That was you, right?

The college course I needed, yes sir, that was me. This course can be taken at the physical campus itself, or you can take it online. I'm taking it online at home, so that hopefully, I won't have the hypercrazy 20hr/day schedule I had in the spring.

As far as my health insurance situation is concerned, I can honestly say that part of the situation is my fault - Instead of turning around and holding my bosses, my managers accountable for doing what they said they were going to do, I just took it for granted that they would actually do what they promised.

Lesson learned - Trust no one anymore to do what they promise. Follow up!

After an investigation by me of my paystubs, Turns out the missing coverage hasn't ever been docked from my check and paid for.

Per paycheck, every two weeks, I'm paying...
Medical Insurance - $59.30
Critical Illness - $1.86
Accident Coverage - $1.14

What hasn't been docked out of my checks...
Dental, Life, and Accidental Death And Dismemberment.

The medical insurance - that's what I've been paying on, and that IS a service that has come through when I needed it - this foot surgery. I have indeed gotten what I've paid for on that.

It's the dental coverage that I did not know that I wasn't paying on that I was left out in the cold on. I had misread my paystubs - I though there were some line items under deductions from last year that that I was paying on, that had turned to Zero after the fiscal 2013 year began for my company in February. Turns out, that wasn't the case. The case was, I was put in the system as part time to make the transfer, and should have followed up with people to make sure that I was put back to full time status in the system.

This was a painful, but good learning experience with health insurance.
 
Im about to post a butchery of public planters by plant vandals around my town- but it's better I put that later (with photos)

this news demand attention first:

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BRAZILIAN REFEREE BUTCHERED BY FANS AFTER KILLING PLAYER
http://blog.foxsoccer.com/post/54702157659/brazilian-referee-butchered-by-fans-after-killing

it's like...
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It's my birthday and no one remembered. I'm not low on friends or family either, so I feel like something Twilight Zone happened. :lol:



I remembered...I just didn't think you'd want me to make a big deal of it....remember last time...?
 
So yeah, this weekend was amazing. Had a 12-hour date with my guy on Saturday and we made out on the Commons too. Then Sunday we had a 4-hour skype session just talking about w/e.

It's been a while since I've felt this way about a guy. The best part we have learned is, we both like to cook! We share food porn.
 
^That is an urban legend as the original is about a US naval ship and a Nova Scotia lighthouse. A good parable though on inflated self-purpose.
 
I have no idea if it's true or not... I'm ok with the idea of it, and the generalized humor in how pompous, arrogant, and self righteous people CAN be.. even in the face of their own demise.

I kind of see it as a modernized Oedipus type of myth reminding humanity to watch their behavior.

It would have done just as well with me as a "FAR SIDE" cartoon.
 
WHY do people have to fuck up a common courtesy that was working very well?????????????????

Two things that piss me off a lot there days when I am drifing...

The four way stop. The first car to arrive goes first..right? So...since I was a friggin teenager and a car stopped at just about the same time as me I would visually give hem a hand wave so they could go first. I noticed as the years went on more and more people doing that and it was great...UNTIL a couple years ago when it started to become annoying. For some reason...a car that was sitting there before all of the others arrived will now "direct traffic" and keep waving people on for some fucking reason I don't understand. It kinda fucks up the whole idea IMO and it misses the point. What I want to know...does anyone have a clue why they are doing this? I look in my rearview mirror just in case their car broke down or maybe they were on the phone but nothing so far...

...and then another thing...again same time frame when it started to change...letting someone out of a driveway in heavy traffic is common courtesy...one car anyway...if the line of cars is lucky every other car will let another integrate into traffic...I always wave a driver into traffic.

...now I keep getting behind people that let 10-20-30 cars through. Yesterday I was only four cars away from the light and sat through THREE FUCKING LIGHTS because the lady was letting the Bingo crowd out of the Catholic Church driveway. UGH...traffic behind me was backed up really far. I don't think she had the right to decide we were all going to allow anyone leaving Bingo to go before us. Again...it misses the point of the courtesy and fucks the whole thing up.

OK...that's all :)
 
I agree. ^^^^

Most of the common courtesy rules of the road are extinct. Like not living in the fast lane going whatever speed YOU want to. Get the frack over to the slower lanes and let people pass!!!
 
July in Texas. Hundred-degree heat, god-awful humidity. And so dry that the lakes run low, and there's talk of water restrictions because cities' water supply is so low. Right?

Ha, ha, ha, and No!

It's been actually almost cold here, along with being overcast around the clock. Don't get me wrong, the rain is needed badly, but the weather the so screwed up and such a departure from a stereotypical July summer in Texas that most people here don't exactly know what to think. I'm right there with them.
 
July in Texas. Hundred-degree heat, god-awful humidity. And so dry that the lakes run low, and there's talk of water restrictions because cities' water supply is so low. Right?

Ha, ha, ha, and No!

It's been actually almost cold here, along with being overcast around the clock. Don't get me wrong, the rain is needed badly, but the weather the so screwed up and such a departure from a stereotypical July summer in Texas that most people here don't exactly know what to think. I'm right there with them.

WTF is wrong with Texas?!? In MA, from Memorial Day to Labor Day we have a "mandatory" odd-even watering ban in place regardless of the rainfall. Meaning you can't water your grass/garden on an even day if you live in an odd-numbered house. If the drought is even worse, there is a daytime watering ban on top of that for everyone. It's pretty much why most people removed their in-ground sprinkler systems in the state.

The hypocrisy of "conservatives" not caring about conservation.
 
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JD, Texas is not the only place the weather is out of sync. The drought has been washed away in the southeast. Rain gauge pushing close to 20 inches above normal.
 
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