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Kirk Cameron says he's now target of "hate speech"

Marriage is a government institution. People have the right to have a religious marriage. And many people, who aren't religious or atheist, get married through the government. People who argue that marriage shouldn't come under government authority are not being practical.

Government's only job should be to keep a register of who is married, so all those benefits and privileges would be known. Arguing for government defining marriage is arguing for the continuation of bigotry.

I know some people who hired a small local tour boat and had their wedding out of the sight of land, done by the captain. But as in all cases, the essence of marriage, the thing that makes a marriage, is the commitment of the people to each other.
 
Name me one religion that specifically requires through their doctrines, for people to be married in a church (or other relative building).

Roman Catholics, Orthodox, and Lutherans require a church wedding. In a building? No, not really -- but a church is not a building.

There is nothing petty about what i said at all. No right is being infringed upon in the circumstances i desrcibed. It perfectly highlights the dumbassery of those who would complain of gay marriage being legalised.

Yes, a right is being infringed -- you want to tell churches who they can (and cannot) perform weddings for. You want to turn them into a branch of government.

Let me get this straight, it's all the governments fault, but you don't want them to do anything? OK then.

Right -- they shouldn't do anything, they should STOP doing: stop defining who can be married, and thereby stop feeding bigotry.

Any church willing to marry gay couples would not be affected by a change in the legality of gay marriage. What are you on?

Right -- which is why you were wrong about not being able to be married once. And your statement meant that gays wouldn't be allowed to be married where they wished -- they'd have to get married in a government-approved facility. That's just more government meddling in personal lives.

Hmmm, that's pure speculation simple as that. Or are gays selfish? I missed that stereotype.

Advocates of writing gay marriage into law are shown to be selfish by their actions. They're not asking for equality, they're asking to join an existing structure of oppression.

I get it Kuli, you want gay marriage to be legal, but to have a clause which allows religious groups to abstain. This presumably protects their personal beliefs and prevents court action against them for refusing. Well, that is workable. Call it a compromise. But the current situation is seeing religious groups, just like rolyo has pointed out, from allowing change to happen. In other words, they believe that it is THEIR definition of marriage which should dictate the legal position of the entire country, just like over here. Our previous Labour government bent over and kissed the Anglican Church's butt, settling for 'civil partnerships'. The current coalition government of Conservatives and Liberal Democrats are seeking to guage opinion for a change, legalising gay marriage. Something to be happy with, civil partnerships are a shortchange and an equality that harbours a petty inequality. I.E. gays cannot call it gay marriage cos it would upset the church.

No, I don't want a clause, because it isn't necessary -- religious freedom guarantees it. Court action against them is already prevented -- religious freedom guarantees it.

The religious groups, BTW, are why the government should give up the word "marriage". Tell the freaks to take it and go play in their corner while the grownups switch to a system where whoever shows up and tells the government they're hitched, is hitched. The mistake of your Labour government wasn't using the term "civil partnership", but in not applying that to all political-noted interpersonal unions.

"Upset the church"? Screw 'em. As a devout Christian I say that they are in error, and in rebellion against the words of Christ by failing to render to Caesar what is Caesar's.
 
Actually no. Government governs. It can't do that without the rights to do that. It's people's right to replace parts of it when they are not happy with how it operates, but to say that governments have no rights is... not based in reality. Also, the government is made up by people. People are a part of it, and when someone new comes into it, they are also coming from the people. To try and make the government into some antithesis of the people is just silly.
 
Actually no. Government governs. It can't do that without the rights to do that. It's people's right to replace parts of it when they are not happy with how it operates, but to say that governments have no rights is... not based in reality. Also, the government is made up by people. People are a part of it, and when someone new comes into it, they are also coming from the people. To try and make the government into some antithesis of the people is just silly.

It's exactly reality to acknowledge that government has no rights. All government has is authority loaned to it by the people. Anything which cannot be done because of a right of the people is immoral for government to do.
 
The government is not made up of extra-terrestrials Kuli, they are your fellow citizens. They are able to use their position for their own agenda as well as for the good of the nation, and they do. And neither are any of them beyond cow-towing to any religious group that conveniently donates to their campaigns.
Marriage needs to be legally defined to prevent members of government from exercising their own opinion to the detriment of equality, or from being corrupted by groups that wish to place a religious imposition on a minority group.

The government is made up of over-paid fat-asses who are more interested in milking the rest of us for benefits. They are not my fellow citizens, they're parasites living in an unreal world where writing new regulations is a passtime, and they could care less if those regulations cost us jobs or even homes.

I already gave the only moral "definition" of marriage: whoever comes to the government and says "We're hitched" is hitched. Then the government dutifully writes it down, and that's that. The government has no authority to tell us what to do with our personal lives. To suggest that it does opens the door to all sorts of bigotry.

Gay marriage is not legal until its recognised within the law, thus, my statement was correct. It makes no difference if churches are willing, if the law doesn't recognise the ceremony.

As it is already, gays cannot get married where they wish, so it wouldn't pose a huge difference anyway.

So the position is that it's okay to screw with someone's rights because their rights are already a bit abused?

Besides that, the government has no business recognizing a ceremony -- the government's only business is acknowledging the decisions people make for their lives.

Of whom? Who is being oppressed by legally defining gay marriage? Its pure fearmongering to suggest that people of faith are, on the basis that if it such a big issue, they could be exempt (just like in South Africa where gay marriage is LEGAL).

Who's being oppressed? Gays, straights, bis, who want something besides standard monogamy. It isn't relevant whether two people want to unite their lives or fifteen -- it's their choice, no one else's.

It SHOULDN'T be needed, but it WOULD be needed, because otherwise gay people could argue that their right to marriage is being blocked illegally by any church refused to marry them, and then take legal action. So it would be the best offer that the church could get, because the only alternative would be the refusal of licenses to anyone not willing to recognise the legal definition. Its a compromise that most people would be happy to settle for.

No, it isn't needed. With things as they are, any such suit would last only as long as it took the church to tell the judge that it's a matter of doctrine -- then a good judge would find the plaintiffs $10k or more for wasting the court's time with a frivolous lawsuit.

And the government CAN'T tell a church their marriages don't count. They might get away with saying no church marriages at all count; that would be an interesting one to see -- it wouldn't be discrimination against a particular religion, but the courts might decide it was persecution of religion in general, which isn't allowed either.

So in effect, you are asking EVERYBODY, to cow-tow to religious groups and call it something else, despite a perfectly satisfactory term. The church does not own the dictionary, it does not sanction the marriage, it is for people to determine what marriage is.

Over four-fifths of Americans consider marriage to be religious. A good lawyer could win an argument in front of the Supreme Court that since so many regard it as religious (sacred, holy, etc.), the government isn't entitled to regulate it at all.

What my proposal does is tell the religious freaks to take their toy and stop bothering the grownups.
 
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No doubt you'd think differently if Libertarianism was popular. :rolleyes:

If Libertarianism were popular, the situation would be different. For starters, bureaucrats wouldn't be writing regulations, which is essentially making law -- because the Constitution vests all law-making power in Congress, and that's the only place law should be made.

Two people getting married in a church or registry office or wherever else, are ALREADY telling the government they are hitched, and the paperwork signed at the ceremony. The only difference is that only straight couples are legally allowed.

The government is ALLOWING them to get hitched -- they have to pay for a license. There should be no fee to exercise a basic right (something the Supreme Court has said, but which hasn't trickled through to marriage yet).
And if people were telling the government, then there wouldn't be a problem with gay marriage: gays would just tell the government, and that would end the matter.

There IS NO SCREWING with rights, its balancing the rights to be fair to all.

You commented on people's rights being screwed with, like it was no big deal.

Make your mind up. In post 87 you said government should recognise ALL ceremonies. So which is it?

Different context. In one, you were saying the government can recognize some ceremonies and not other. In that context, no -- if government is going to be recognizing ceremonies, it has to recognize all of them. In the other, it was a matter of how things really ought to be done, in which case the government has no business worrying about whether there even was a ceremony.

Preventing legislation to bring equality to anybody else, unless it is inclusive of everybody else, tends to lead nowhere fast. People are less adverse to small change than to stonking great big ones. Sort the gay inequality of marriage issue first, and then lead on to polygamous relationships. Polygamy is legal in South Africa also, so it can easily be accommodated.

Promises, promises. What this really means is that actual marriage equality won't come for another two hundred years... and that doesn't bother gays at all. In fact the great majority of gays will either shrug and not fight for marriage equality or will fight against it.

CLAUSE, CLAUSE, CLAUSE. Marriage in the context of law takes precedent over religious doctrine. A clause can exempt those of faith. There is NO issue of genuine concern for faith groups over the legalisation of gay marriage and a legal change in definition.

<sigh> NO CLAUSE IS NEEDED. It's called religious freedom. We already have it. Any official who tried to tell a church it couldn't perform weddings, regardless of the reason, would lose the lawsuit against him so fast it could make a speed record. Any law saying that would be overturned within the week by the Supreme Court.

It hardly qualifies as persecution of religion when nobody is prohibitted from the free practice of their faith. It is NOT a requirement of any faith, that persons must be married in order to practice their faith. To be married in order to do 'other' things, but not to practice their faith. As such, there is no infringement on the freedom of religion right. But in any case, CLAUSE.

If the government is dictating what churches can perform marriages and what can't, or if they forbid all churches from performing marriages, that most definitely is a violation of freedom of religion. There are numerous churches, as I pointed out, which require a church wedding -- or none at all. So not only would telling churches they can't perform marriages violate freedom of religion, it would violate the right to marry.

I don't know why you keep harping on a clause: no clause is necessary. Almost any American could tell you, quite correctly, that the government can't tell churches what to do where the faith is involved. Any law written in such a way that a clause would be required would be unconstitutional on the face of it. Telling churches what they can and can't do with marriage is a violation of religious freedom -- one sufficiently egregious that even the ACLU would get into the fight against it.

Kuli, that is only half the point. No religious group has the right to regulate marriage either. Freedom of religion does not exist simply to protect those of faith, but to protect those who choose not to have a faith also. This is why the legal definition must be established to be inclusive of gays et al, regardless of current or future government, or of religious ideology.
You cannot argue that its NOT the governments right to interfere and yet expect that everybody would willingly accept the premise that marriage should be for everyone, and why? Because they don't, simple as. And it is religious imposition responsible, an imposition which actually defiles the freedom of religion act, by imposing ideals of the religious, over the ideals of the non-religious. Government needs to balance that by taking ownership of marriage properly, in the interests of EVERYBODY.

Government must NOT "own" marriage. That's the problem now! People own marriage, the people who decide to enter into one. If government doesn't own marriage, no religious group can fight to control it. All such laws should be eliminated, and the government merely say, "If you come and tell us you're married, you're married". And there's no "balancing" involved, there's only maximing the freedom of everyone.

And convolutes things in the process. Its stupid having to change all documentation that refers to marriage, to include 'hitched' or whatever other pointless word you might care to use, when there is already the proper word within the english language that describes it. Any document which asks 'are you married?' has to include 'are you in a civil partnership?' over here. Its a waste of space, time, words and ink. Its pathetic. I look forward to the day that the Anglican Church (more importantly, the Catholic Church, cos the Anglicans are plentiful in support of gay marriage) are told that they do not own the institution of marriage, by redefining it by law.

What changing documentation? That's the sort of inanity that comes from bureaucrats sucking the taxpayers' money while playing games to justify their existence. You just do like people in academic disciplines do regularly: before a certain date, one word was proper; after that date, another is proper.
 
Kuli, I am sorry, but I DEEPLY disagree with what you are saying. I am very conservative when it comes to marriage. It meant ownership once, when women had no real rights, and therefore it could include many different things. However, since women switched from property to actual human beings, marriage has become an institution promoting a mature loving relationship. It is a bond, and it symbolizes not just love, but also commitment and the admission of responsibility. You tell that person "yes, I love you, but I also am ready to take care of you, and trust you unconditionally, and by getting married to me, you promise me the same thing." It isn't simply an old-fashioned ceremony that is outdated and unnecessary, it is a rite of passage, allowing you to stop playing at being adult, and actually become one. I have seen so many long-term gay couples who keep playing at being a family, but it never feels quite real. I'm not saying real commitment is impossible without marriage, in fact it has to already be there or marriage won't magically make it happen. BUT the ability to marry, the knowledge that this type of symbolic commitment is possible, strengthens the bond you already have, makes things "real", even if the reason for that is cultural heritage, even if you don't actually DO it. Nobody is immune to the darkness that comes before ;)

THAT's what I think marriage is, and therefore to make the argument that groups should also have the right to it is a shaky ground to say the least. A couple has proven throughout the millenia of human civilization to be the most stable union both socially, and emotionally. That much the hate groups are right about. I'm sure there are bigger units that could achieve the same, but really, how often have you seen that happening? How many people do you know, who are able to have feelings of that magnitude for more than one person at the same time? Even people in stable open relationships will tell you they care far more about their official partner than about anyone else they might have sex with.

So if we accept what I've said so far, and we don't want to just erase the institution of marriage, then by its definition, it's a union of two consenting adults. Tell me then - who else is left to be oppressed if both hetero and homosexual people can marry? What other type of consenting adult is there? A corpse cannot give consent, and neither could a child, a dog or a table. WHO ELSE WOULD BE OPPRESSED THEN?
 
Kuli, I am sorry, but I DEEPLY disagree with what you are saying. I am very conservative when it comes to marriage. It meant ownership once, when women had no real rights, and therefore it could include many different things. However, since women switched from property to actual human beings, marriage has become an institution promoting a mature loving relationship. It is a bond, and it symbolizes not just love, but also commitment and the admission of responsibility. You tell that person "yes, I love you, but I also am ready to take care of you, and trust you unconditionally, and by getting married to me, you promise me the same thing." It isn't simply an old-fashioned ceremony that is outdated and unnecessary, it is a rite of passage, allowing you to stop playing at being adult, and actually become one. I have seen so many long-term gay couples who keep playing at being a family, but it never feels quite real. I'm not saying real commitment is impossible without marriage, in fact it has to already be there or marriage won't magically make it happen. BUT the ability to marry, the knowledge that this type of symbolic commitment is possible, strengthens the bond you already have, makes things "real", even if the reason for that is cultural heritage, even if you don't actually DO it. Nobody is immune to the darkness that comes before ;)

THAT's what I think marriage is, and therefore to make the argument that groups should also have the right to it is a shaky ground to say the least. A couple has proven throughout the millenia of human civilization to be the most stable union both socially, and emotionally. That much the hate groups are right about. I'm sure there are bigger units that could achieve the same, but really, how often have you seen that happening? How many people do you know, who are able to have feelings of that magnitude for more than one person at the same time? Even people in stable open relationships will tell you they care far more about their official partner than about anyone else they might have sex with.

So if we accept what I've said so far, and we don't want to just erase the institution of marriage, then by its definition, it's a union of two consenting adults. Tell me then - who else is left to be oppressed if both hetero and homosexual people can marry? What other type of consenting adult is there? A corpse cannot give consent, and neither could a child, a dog or a table. WHO ELSE WOULD BE OPPRESSED THEN?

The essence of marriage is commitment to each other. How many are in that commitment is not relevant to anyone but those participating. Whether two, three, four, or fifteen, it's not anyone else's business. By limiting it to two, you're just continuing the bigotry.

I know of a handful of triples, and once knew a foursome, who function just fine. You could pick two of them by drawing straws or whatever, and that pair would be just as close as any supposedly monogamous couple around. But ask them, and they'd tell you they didn't feel complete without their whole set.

So what you're saying is the same thing the talibangelicals are saying: you can get married, but it has to be my kind of marriage, the sort of which I approve. But your approval is irrelevant, because you don't own them. They own themselves, so what they choose to do with their lives is their business. Maybe they want to marry for business reasons -- that's fine; it's been done often enough in history. Maybe they want five spouses so they have a household where there will always be one at home with the kids. Maybe they want a line marriage because then their marriage will never end. Maybe it's seven who've been friends since grade school and just don't ever want to be apart. Whatever it is, it isn't anyone else's business.

Either government can regulate personal lives, or it can't. If it can, a law only allowing white Protestants to marry and have children would be just as valid as anything else. The rule has to come from the principle of liberty, the fact that we own ourselves. And that principle says whatever consenting adults do is okay -- including marrying more than one person.
 
Well, I have ever known of a single triple. Started as a couple, then a new guy was added. Then one of the original boyfriends got kicked out.

Like I said, it is a thing that can happen. However, it is NOT in its nature as stable a unit as a couple.

And honestly, whether you agree with that or not, that's irrelevant. For a thing to be a thing that everyone accepts, it has to be regulated at some point. It's like the age of consent. Are you going to say that's not the government's job either? That it should not meddle? After all, a kid a day younger than 18 is just as mature as he will be the day after he turns 18, no? Should the government stay out of his life? I was able to handle my liquor at 14. Should I have been allowed to buy it? I mean, why should the government regulate that?

You say government shouldn't meddle? But why stop at 4-5 or 15 people? Why not marry entire cities? Countries? All the population of Zanzibar getting married to the state of Louisiana?

Do you not see that the moment you have NO definition of marriage, it stops to have any meaning? You can only broaden the definition of something so much before it stops being anything. Commitment? That's too broad. A diligent grandson might be committed to his aging grandmother. Should they be married?

I am sorry, this kind of idealistic outlook of life seems just way too simplistic for me to accept it. Probably why libertarian ideology isn't that popular.
 
Well, I have ever known of a single triple. Started as a couple, then a new guy was added. Then one of the original boyfriends got kicked out.

Like I said, it is a thing that can happen. However, it is NOT in its nature as stable a unit as a couple.

And honestly, whether you agree with that or not, that's irrelevant. For a thing to be a thing that everyone accepts, it has to be regulated at some point. It's like the age of consent. Are you going to say that's not the government's job either? That it should not meddle? After all, a kid a day younger than 18 is just as mature as he will be the day after he turns 18, no? Should the government stay out of his life? I was able to handle my liquor at 14. Should I have been allowed to buy it? I mean, why should the government regulate that?

You say government shouldn't meddle? But why stop at 4-5 or 15 people? Why not marry entire cities? Countries? All the population of Zanzibar getting married to the state of Louisiana?

Do you not see that the moment you have NO definition of marriage, it stops to have any meaning? You can only broaden the definition of something so much before it stops being anything. Commitment? That's too broad. A diligent grandson might be committed to his aging grandmother. Should they be married?

I am sorry, this kind of idealistic outlook of life seems just way too simplistic for me to accept it. Probably why libertarian ideology isn't that popular.

The only meaning marriage has is what the people bring to it. Government adds nothing to it.

Everyone accepts people hugging each other, and that's not regulated. Everyone accepts that people can eat what they want, and that's not regulated. Everyone accepts that people have best friends, and that's not regulated. What regulation does to a thing is say, "Government can tell us what to do". In this case, it says, "Government can tell us what to do with our private lives." I reject that. Any sensible person will reject that -- our private lives are ours, not anyone else's, most certainly not the government's.

And age limits on things are a klutzy, clumsy, heavy-handed way to do something every society does because people do it naturally, recognizing the move from child to adult. Why we put up with it I don't know, except that most people are too lazy to do it more rationally, individual by individual.

And if two cities were small enough that every person in both cities knew every other person in both cities, and every one of those people desired to be deeply personally committed to every other, then such a marriage would be their right. But I think you know you're being foolish with that one -- just how many people do you think could possibly know each other deeply enough to want to commit their lives together like that?

People know what marriage means. The government doesn't tell us -- all the government says is "one of these, and one of these, and sign the paper". By the government's definition, people don't even have to know each other or care about each other. Do you actually think that the government's definition gives any meaning at all? except government paperwork? People put the meaning in marriage, and will continue to do so if the government threw out every law about the matter.


BTW, better than two in five Americans score as strong libertarians on surveys. They've just been brainwashed into thinking they have to vote for the D or R.
 
Well, I don't really feel inspired to continue this argument. For me marriage is something that is ABOVE you as a person, something that everyone understands the same way (and before you say something about how so many people understand it as "ONLY one man and one woman", don't worry - I'll address that), and something that signifies a particular type of commitment. You claim that that type of commitment is possible between multiples. I think it's an exception when it happens there, not a rule. But I'll get there in a second.

A second.

Yes, a ton of people believe marriage is NOT a relationship between two committed adults, but between two committed adults of the opposite gender. And here is where the "people" whose voice you so praise come into the picture. The homosexual people have fought for decades for marriage to start including them. As a homosexual myself, I hold the opinion (which I stated earlier in the topic) that marriage SHOULD be between only two people, but it should not care what gender they are. Most other homosexuals think like me, and therefore there is a gay movement to achieve marriage equality.

I realize this pits me against almost everyone here, because the American mentality is generally anti-government. I am European, however, and I grew up on a continent where governments as a rule have MUCH more control than they do here. I've never suffered because of that, so I don't hate it. Furthermore, I strongly - PASSIONATELY - believe that most people in the world are idiots who should NEVER be allowed to have any say in anything not directly related to their daily life. Of course I wouldn't literally want their rights to be taken away, but I am always happy when important decisions are NOT given to "the people". Terry Pratchett once said that a mob's IQ is equal to that of its stupidest member, divided by the number of participants. And I have never witnessed anything else.

Now back to social changes and multiples marrying each other. Having stated my opinion in the previous paragraph, I am perfectly content with gay marriage equality being achieved with a fight. In a way it's even better that way, cause when you've fought for something, it feels like a prize. But that's irrelevant. Point is - where is the multiples' movement? Where are the multiple communities, the "multiple agenda"? I like that marriage is only available for couples, but I would never try and stop multiples for marrying... if they show that they are an actual group, and not just a few aberrations here and there, and a concept used in libertarian arguments.
 
Now back to social changes and multiples marrying each other. Having stated my opinion in the previous paragraph, I am perfectly content with gay marriage equality being achieved with a fight. In a way it's even better that way, cause when you've fought for something, it feels like a prize. But that's irrelevant. Point is - where is the multiples' movement? Where are the multiple communities, the "multiple agenda"? I like that marriage is only available for couples, but I would never try and stop multiples for marrying... if they show that they are an actual group, and not just a few aberrations here and there, and a concept used in libertarian arguments.

"A few aberrations here and there"?

There goes any claim you have to respect your fellow man. It doesn't matter if people who want multiples in a marriage number one in a million, they're still human beings, with human rights -- but you call their love and their desires an "aberration".

Should we take away political speech because most people aren't interested in engaging in it? That's really the same thing -- that because most don't want it, no one should get it.

That says your life is meaningless unless you conform.
It says the same thing Kirk Cameron does.
It says the same thing Prop 8 in California said.

If most gays have an attitude like that, then gays don't deserve marriage it -- they don't understand what makes it, and they won't honor that thing in others. If most gays actually agree with you, then I hope the Koch brothers and others keep funding anti-gay initiatives, because someone needs to stand up to the selfishness and disregard for human beings.
 
I meant statistical aberration, nothing else. And yeah, if it's one in a million, a law that's based on the OPPOSITE of it (a commitment in a small unit) should not be removed to accommodate it. Same way as the law should not accommodate the fact that I could make mature decisions regarding and under the influence of liquor in my early teens. Some things just ARE, and until we have godlike benevolent AIs governing the world, I'd say it's naive to expect a system that accommodates every particular desire.

But like I said, should multiples be a big enough percentage to make their voice be heard, more power to them - I'd fully support their right to be married.

Don't try to paint me as intolerant. I am not. But homosexuality is a fact, and our numbers swell with every year, as more and more people come out. We are here, and we number in possibly millions. We are a big enough group to be able to ask for equal treatment. Multiples however are nowhere to be heard. So why are you advocating for them?
 
I meant statistical aberration, nothing else. And yeah, if it's one in a million, a law that's based on the OPPOSITE of it (a commitment in a small unit) should not be removed to accommodate it. Same way as the law should not accommodate the fact that I could make mature decisions regarding and under the influence of liquor in my early teens. Some things just ARE, and until we have godlike benevolent AIs governing the world, I'd say it's naive to expect a system that accommodates every particular desire.

But like I said, should multiples be a big enough percentage to make their voice be heard, more power to them - I'd fully support their right to be married.

Don't try to paint me as intolerant. I am not. But homosexuality is a fact, and our numbers swell with every year, as more and more people come out. We are here, and we number in possibly millions. We are a big enough group to be able to ask for equal treatment. Multiples however are nowhere to be heard. So why are you advocating for them?

I advocate for them because limiting the number of people who can join in marriage is an abuse of the right of freedom of association. There is no right to discriminate on the basis of personal relationships, so there is no government authority to do so. If your love for one person is worthy of public acknowledgement and recognition, why do you think the love of three people together is inferior? If you don't think it's inferior, then you shouldn't treat it as inferior -- you should support it.

BTW, the law should accommodate the different skills and abilities of people as teens. If they are capable of handling alcohol or whatever, they should be allowed to. The only reason we haven't is perceived difficulty of administering and laziness. A rational society would set up a system of voluntary education and testing so those who wanted to use alcohol before the arbitrary age line could demonstrate their ability to do so -- and the same for all age-related barriers.

Your "we're a big enough group to be able to ask for equal treatment" is just a modified version of "might makes right": if we're numerous enough, if we're loud enough, if we're persistent enough, then we get to be counted as real human beings... but if we aren't, we have to conform and not expect to be treated as equals.

Liberty has to be the default position. Any restriction of liberty has to have substantial, serious reason behind it

You've flipped the line from Animal Farm, to: all are equal, but some are less equal than others.
 
^ That.

Also, yes, might makes right. It isn't a pretty truth, but it is one none the less. I'm a selfish person - I'd rather use society's laws to benefit myself and the group I belong to, rather than hold to absurd ideals that have no chance of becoming reality in my lifetime, and trying to change the world.

Arguing what the world should be is occasionally entertaining, but usually gets boring pretty quickly. I'm much more interested in how the world IS, and how to make it better for MYSELF and the people I care about, without hurting others.

I would apologize for this kind of selfishness, except I don't feel guilty.
 
You argue that all marriages should be legal without government regulation (as if laws just pop up from the ground), yet argue that the law should not apply to those who hold religious beliefs, because its an infringement upon freedom of religion, despite their imposition of religion being of detriment to the right of association of others.

If all marriages are legit, then how can religious weddings be "of detriment to the right of association of others"? You're making no sense at all.

And I'm not arguing that some law "should not apply to those who hold religious beliefs", I'm explaining that it does not apply; any such law as you've proposed would be tossed out by the Supreme Court in a unanimous decision as a violation of religious freedom. No law telling one church it can't perform weddings while telling others they can would last a week, if you could even get one passed, because it's so obviously a government preference of one church over another.

You argue that the church 'requires' church weddings, yet argue that marriage is between people (thus it is a social institution and not a religious one), and yet somehow, government acceptance of that would constitute an infringement of the freedom of religion.

You said no church requires church weddings, which is false. You further said some churches would be allowed to do weddings and others not. That would obviously be an infringement of freedom of religion, as obvious as that snow is frozen water.

BTW, marriage being a social matter does not preclude it being religious -- that's really sloppy thinking you did.

The problem with the Libertarian view, is that it masquerades as being in the best interest of everybody, when in actual fact it is inherently selfish.
I dispute your suggestion that better than two in five americans are libertarian, purely on the basis that such views are unpopular everywhere else. Most people are either left or right, with people falling mostly in the centre, and where people lean differently depending on the subject matter of any moral or social policy. Libertarians do not fit the mainstream like either conservatives or liberals do.

Huh? Where did you get that wild claim? That's an incredibly bizarre assertion!

Libertarianism is about rights. It rests on the fact of self-ownership. It aims at liberty. And it believes -- if you want to talk about interests -- as did Barry Goldwater, as did America's founding fathers, that liberty is what's in everyone's best interest.

A CNN poll last year showed about two-thirds of Americans being basically libertarian. A NYT poll in '09 or '10 came up with slightly over half. When the World's Smallest Political Quiz is used, the results fall between two-fifths and three-fifths.

It's because America was founded on libertarianism, though it wasn't called that back then. It was founded by libertarians who recognized that all sovereignty in human society lies with the individual. And the United States remains nearly the only country in the world founded purely on liberty, without the notion that government, a totally artificial construct, has some existence and rights of its own. Most of the world still believes in the "divine right of kings", though they'd hardly admit to it -- they believe that government has an existence of its own, with inherent authorities and powers, and that rights flow from government to the people. But that means there are no rights, merely privileges, because if government has to give us rights, then what we are in truth is property, the property of that government.

Libertarians don't "fit the mainstream" because they aren't on the spectrum. Left and Right authoritarian at root, thus anti-liberty.

You want government to butt out of peoples lives, but yet want them to do the right thing. You want the right of self defence to be absolute, regardless that the evidence proves it impedes the right to life. You want freedom of religion to be protected to the absolute, despite it impeding on social institutions. You want freedom of speech to be protected to the absolute, despite it impeding on peoples right to security. You want everybody to be treated equally, yet approve of blocking the furtherance of that cause. You believe that basic rights should be free, yet qualify criminals as being exempt from the most important, on the basis that they are bad people, which makes you a follower of their level of morality.
Libertarianism is the road to anarchy, i say that as a liberal.

The right to self defense IS the right to life.
Freedom of religion CANNOT impede on social institutions, unless those institutions belong to one or another church.
Freedom of speech doesn't impede people's right to security. There is no right to harm or betray or steal secrets from anyone, so speech can't be used for that.
I'm haven't said anything toward blocking the furtherance of any cause but oppression. You've been arguing consistently for religious intolerance and for discrimination against people on the basis of who they love.
Where here have I talked about criminals? They're exempt from nothing except when they ask to be, by violating the basic contract.

From the above paragraph, I can tell you haven't got a clue about libertarianism. It couldn't possibly be the road to anarchy, because anarchy is at root a denial of all rights -- the utter, complete opposite of libertarianism.

And the licence fee for marriage, i'm sure covers administrative costs. It's not paying for the right to be married.

It it covers administrative costs, it should be about $2. In the digital age, that's being generous; it works out to about $60/hr, since it takes the clerk maybe two minutes to deal with the matter.
 
^ That.

Also, yes, might makes right. It isn't a pretty truth, but it is one none the less. I'm a selfish person - I'd rather use society's laws to benefit myself and the group I belong to, rather than hold to absurd ideals that have no chance of becoming reality in my lifetime, and trying to change the world.

Arguing what the world should be is occasionally entertaining, but usually gets boring pretty quickly. I'm much more interested in how the world IS, and how to make it better for MYSELF and the people I care about, without hurting others.

I would apologize for this kind of selfishness, except I don't feel guilty.

And you say libertarians are selfish?

By your own statement here you're a sort of petty tribalist.


Oh -- might does NOT make right. If it does, then you should never protest against things like the gays kids in Iraq being dragged off and having their bones broken by smashing with concrete blocks and then their heads crushed. If might makes right, that's perfectly moral behavior, as is Muslim men setting their daughters on fire for having an "infidel" boyfriend, etc. etc.
 
Morals are relative. The only reason western morals are deemed superior is because we have enforced them on a thousand other cultures. The only reason you have the rights you do is because somebody somewhere was strong enough to enforce this situation. As for Iraq, WE view what those people do as immoral, but that doesn't make it so. Gays there follow our morality because it is beneficial for them to do so, rather than commit mass suicide, but that doesn't mean they would otherwise. Like I said, might does make right. I protest against what I feel is wrong, but the only way I can do something about it is by being stronger than the ones doing it, or have on my side those who are stronger than them. That is ABSOLUTELY the only way to ever achieve anything.

I don't know how me using "selfish" to describe myself translated as "libertarians are selfish". I haven't said that, you're mixing your opponents. Also, not familiar with the label "petty tribalist". I try to not limit myself by putting people into categories, and I get kinda itchy when others do it to me.
 
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