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thanks dude, I have no intention of leaving

I've been shot at quite a few times by big bad men with real guns & survived that so some boys trying to lecture me is water on the duck

I've gotten this same routine from a couple dudes who I hooked up with, it's actually pretty funny hearing it out of a guy five minutes after I shot a load in his mouth

now thats fucking funny !!!!:badgrin::badgrin:
 
I feel a little like I am reading 4chan in this thread *eats popcorn*...
 
im not really into guys that cheat on others. but im not here to judge you. its the lifestyle you have chosen. besides, i have cheated WITH someone. but i havent cheated ON someone so i understand guys like you who do that.

anyway, im posting here to tell you that you better be good in hiding your secrets because you better hope your wife doesnt find out especially your kids as they will lose respect from you.

im just speaking from my experience as my dad is cheating on my mum and im too coward to tell her about it. and now, i have no respect for him at all.

so imagine if your kids find out that you're cheating on their mother with a GUY! they might despise you for that. you should know what your getting yourself into.

but then again, your kids will be different to me. i read your blog and i realised that youre also different from my dad. i think you are more of a person that thinks that we are just human beings who are looking for some interaction from others. i also read that you would understand if your wife is doing it to you behind your back. if it was my mum, i reckon she would get a big slap from my dad even though hes doing behind herback as well.

but anyway like i said above, you just becareful and should know what youre getting yourself into.
 
I've been shot at quite a few times by big bad men with real guns & survived that so some boys trying to lecture me is water on the duck


Now that you have told us what a big man you are, why not tell your wife AND your fellow cops that you have sex with men? Trying to demean your fellow JUBbers by calling them "boys" takes no balls at all. Telling your wife and co-workers, does. Are you man enough to take THAT bullet?
 
Now that you have told us what a big man you are, why not tell your wife AND your fellow cops that you have sex with men? Trying to demean your fellow JUBbers by calling them "boys" takes no balls at all. Telling your wife and co-workers, does. Are you man enough to take THAT bullet?

i think everyone will keep their secret activities secret until they sort out their lives.
Especially the single ones.
 
Gentlemen, I'd like to remind everybody that this is a no flame zone. Please limit your comments to the subject at hand, not at each other. Thank you for your anticipated cooperation.
 
Let's take a little easy on this fella, gentlemen. It's not like we are Dr. Phil. This is the internet. Plus, He's obviously not 12. He knows what to do and it's his own decision.
 
Um... you're about 7 months late to the party. This thread is from Dec 2008.
 
So don't you just want to know how it all turned out?
 
Of all the threads to bring back from the dead, this is the most upsetting one I did not want to remember. Ugh.
 
I read his blog from time to time. It's kind of interesting. If anyone wants to get updated on his situation you should read it.
 
I read his blog from time to time. It's kind of interesting. If anyone wants to get updated on his situation you should read it.

off topic.
interesting clip you got.
Anyone broke their neck while doing those sort of wrestling on TV?
 
Sorry to bump this post. But I`m just wondering is OP all right? He hasn`t updated his blog for almost 1 year now.
 
I agree with most responses here, but would only add a gentle reminder: it's not fair to criticize someone's choices - good or bad - without having been in the same situation and dilemma. I don't condone cheating or dishonesty, but I have made some of the original posters mistakes, or lapses in judgement. Before I cheated on my wife I would have thought it impossible, but it happened nevertheless. Whether that cheating was with a man or a woman in immaterial - it's was cheating. I now understand that the situations we find ourselves in are rarely black & white, or can be resolved by making the "moral" decision. It's just not that simple. Some of the most principled, humble, honest people I'm lucky enough to call a friend (male and female) have made this same mistake, or find themselves in similar situations as the poster. I don't judge them, condemn them or end our friendship because of their human frailty. The only difference between people who have cheated and/or hid their sexual behavior and people who have not is simply that distinction - not one of moral superiority or better personal integrity.

This forum and the people on it need to be a little more compassionate, less judgmental, and more understanding that as individuals we don't all think, act and live our lives the same. I would hope that this forum is a place where confused, hurt, guilty, angry, scared boys and men can come for help, reassurance, understanding and maybe even advice. Sexual orientation, sexual behavior and intimate relationships are difficult things to sort out for a lot of people. This forum and its members of various backgrounds, beliefs and situations should be here as a resource fro everyone without the fear of being judged, flamed or ostracized.

My two cents. Go ahead and flame me if you choose.
 
I agree with most responses here, but would only add a gentle reminder: it's not fair to criticize someone's choices - good or bad - without having been in the same situation and dilemma. I don't condone cheating or dishonesty, but I have made some of the original posters mistakes, or lapses in judgement. Before I cheated on my wife I would have thought it impossible, but it happened nevertheless. Whether that cheating was with a man or a woman in immaterial - it's was cheating. I now understand that the situations we find ourselves in are rarely black & white, or can be resolved by making the "moral" decision. It's just not that simple. Some of the most principled, humble, honest people I'm lucky enough to call a friend (male and female) have made this same mistake, or find themselves in similar situations as the poster. I don't judge them, condemn them or end our friendship because of their human frailty. The only difference between people who have cheated and/or hid their sexual behavior and people who have not is simply that distinction - not one of moral superiority or better personal integrity.

This forum and the people on it need to be a little more compassionate, less judgmental, and more understanding that as individuals we don't all think, act and live our lives the same. I would hope that this forum is a place where confused, hurt, guilty, angry, scared boys and men can come for help, reassurance, understanding and maybe even advice. Sexual orientation, sexual behavior and intimate relationships are difficult things to sort out for a lot of people. This forum and its members of various backgrounds, beliefs and situations should be here as a resource fro everyone without the fear of being judged, flamed or ostracized.

My two cents. Go ahead and flame me if you choose.
That's a post worth ruminating on. :=D:
 
Sorry to bump this post. But I`m just wondering is OP all right? He hasn`t updated his blog for almost 1 year now.

Maybe he just got busy and didn't find the time to update? Sounds kind of weird, but he did write that sometimes work will take a lot of his time. Hopefully this is the case and he's still doing well.
 
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