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My 16 year old son wants a prince albert piercing

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I dont know if I should let him have the piercings or not, if I do let him then he will be happy but I haven't ever liked the other prince albert's that I have seen. I don't know if he's mature enough for one yet but two other friends has one.
 
Best advice is for him to wait until he is of legal age and then let him decide whether or not to do it. Two years will seem like an eternity for a teenager but it will also give him the chance to see how his friends' piercings do as time goes by.
The pissing issue can be a problem not to mention a need to remove it for sex and then to make sure the hole is kept clean.
 
I had one for about a year and a half. Loved the look. The initial piercing is fairly painless and it heals rather quickly. I hated how it drips all the time when you pee. I usually ended up sitting down most of the time...it got to be kind of a drag, to be honest. You might want to let your son know that that's pretty much the only really drawback, that and you have to be careful that it's "dry" after peeing so it won't leave wet marks on your clothes. (Embarrassing at the office!)
 
The way I see it is simple. If he can rationalize it in the form of a logical and well supported argument then go ahead and let him. As he won't likely regret it and letting teens develop smart ways of choosing things without regret is important in maturing. If his only reason is because everyone else has one then don't let him because thats an asinine reason and he will regret it when everyone stops thinking its cool.
 
I agree with Horny Henry, wait unti he's 18 when he's an adult and can make the decision for himself. Two years maximum. By which time, the idea may have worn off. But, if he ever has to answer for his piercing whilst he is a minor, you would have to take full responsibility for the decision you made.

I'm moving this thread into Health and Wellbeing and hopefully more experienced folks may be of help there too.
 
He should wait until he is legal age. What brought him to decide he wants to be pierced with a PA?
 
when i was 16 i didnt want a PA but i begged and got my Labret pierced. it only lasted about 6months i would snag it on my teeth while eating and it got infected a few times from the jewelry i used. the only fun thing about it was shooting water at my sister, but now 7yrs later the hole has closed and now it still looks like its pierced!!! i say make the kid wait
 
Serenx55 said:
The way I see it is simple. If he can rationalize it in the form of a logical and well supported argument then go ahead and let him. As he won't likely regret it and letting teens develop smart ways of choosing things without regret is important in maturing. If his only reason is because everyone else has one then don't let him because thats an asinine reason and he will regret it when everyone stops thinking its cool.
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I agree.

Encorrous,

Fantastic your son so directly talks about his dick with you. All my congrats.

In older times some younger boys received some kind of cock device to prevent masturbation. The device sometimes was a PA. The father or mother decided peremptoriously. My granddad was infibulated at 13.

Muzart1

Peeing indeed is a problem

http://community.tribalectic.com/content/pissing-standing-prince-albert-piercing
 
I'm gonna add another vote for "make him wait til he's 18." When you're that young, you want a lot of things that might not be the best decisions for you. Or that you want in the spur of the moment because it seems cool or because you want to do something adventurous. And then you change your minds. With some things, I'd say sure, with the parents' consent. Why not? But for a minor to get a piercing in such a controversial place with his father's consent...it's just asking for trouble.

Meanwhile, if it gets infected, it may risk his reproductive health (teenage boys are notorious for not going to the dr/ignoring health issues until they are out of control). A cartilage piercing or a facial piercing wouldn't risk that and would be harder to ignore if it got infected since it's right out in the open.

In the end, I think waiting until he's 18 is a good idea. It's a good way of finding out if he's serious about the piercing (it's the type of piercing one should think long and hard about before getting) and if, in two years, he doesn't want it anymore, he'll thank you for not letting him go through with it. And if he still wants it then he can get it himself without involving you.

Ultimately, you're the parent and it's your job to set boundaries. Your primary concern shouldn't be making him happy, but keeping him safe and healthy and making the right decisions for him until he's old enough to make them for himself. This is an adult decision regarding an adult body modification and not something you should be making for him.
 
Tell him its a great idea and you will even help him find a professional to

do the job he can pay for. Then suggest he see if he can get a discount on

a nose ring at the same time. That way when he gets tired of being drug

around by his dick he can still be led by the nose. Bet he could get a good

price on a sleeve tatt to start the full suit he will want/need be 21 so he

can complete his individuality identity thing. JMHO
 
Serenx55 said:
The way I see it is simple. If he can rationalize it in the form of a logical and well supported argument then go ahead and let him. As he won't likely regret it and letting teens develop smart ways of choosing things without regret is important in maturing. If his only reason is because everyone else has one then don't let him because thats an asinine reason and he will regret it when everyone stops thinking its cool.
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I agree. But I'd also require that he pay for it at this age, too. If all that's a go, he's committed. Get out of the way.
 
I'd make him wait until he's 18 and in the meantime I'd try my hardest to talk him out of it.
 
If he is living under your roof, then he definitely should abide by your rules;
I definitely wouldn't think that you should pay for it if he goes through with it;

I do think that he should wait till he is 18+, if only for the additional two years of maturity and a more thoughtful decision-making process that comes with age.

He should have a good rationale for wanting one right at this very moment, and if he wants one badly enough, then he can wait a few years.
 
16 is too young to make such a decision.

He should wait until he's 18 and then he can make whatever foolish decisions he wishes. He can then pay for it and for any complications that ensue out of his own pocket, too.
 
Legal age to do body modification is a place to start. What circle is he hanging with that he likes this look? Others may disagree but I wouldn't want anyone pointing a PA at me.
 
Not to put anyone down here yet wonder if you remember being 16. Short

of a daily inspection, how can one enforce a No in that issue. In a year, the

government says he will be old enough to go to foreign countries and invite

far more hostile piercings to his body.....I explained to my son my aversions to

piercings and designer skin labels. Told him what he could afford he could do

as long as it was legal. Several years later, he has 1 ear pierced and two small

tatts. I saw no further evidence while swimming or in the spa last month. Yes,

backyard pool and spa are clothing optional when adults only or immediate

family only due to laws.
 
I think he should wait on getting a PA. If he really wants a PA at 16, that urge will still be present at 18.
 
I agree with most of the previous posters, but with a couple of qualifications.

I'd like to know if the Parent(s) have body mods, and if so, when did they begin with them? Also, some 16 year olds are rather mature, and others shouldn't be trusted to leave the house :lol:. Being 16 once upon a time, I can understand how awesomely awesome it would be if a Parent approved of the procedure...the kid would be the one with the Cool Parental Units that everyone would love to hang out with.

I'd also need to know what kind of a place y'all live in. The town I work in is full of Trustfundians who will never need to work a day in their tender lives, and every day I see kids with freaking dinner plates in their ears. Good thing they'll never need to get a job!

And, at 16, if the kid decided it didn't work so well, it would probably heal up eventually. And it's a 'hidden' thing so wouldn't preclude any potential career options, either.

I'd personally still REALLY try to get the kid to wait, though. But I'd need more information before setting that in stone.
 
I agree with the majority..he needs to wait until he is 18 and be responsible for paying for it..keeping it his decesion.
 
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