My bubble finally burst and I need input.

[Maestoso]

I'm so over pretty boys/twinks, but he only wants vagina. End of story.

 

[Willie Boy]

I'm so over pretty boys/twinks, but he only wants vagina. End of story.

Actually, that is not definite. Right now he could swing either way.

 

[silentalk]

You're not being very proactive about this. You should at least be in conversation with him by now, if not getting into his pants. Do we have to do everything for you?

Lex

This has sarcasm written all over it! Why can't you be supportive like the good guys here?

A stalker? So you like corn and beans?

I doubt you would actually hurt yourself over this. You do seem to understand that it is a long shot at best, not happening at worst.... And you still purport yourself with a reasonable level of sense.

Is he Zayn?????? You may be onto something there!

Actually, that is not definite. Right now he could swing either way.

Will, I don't know what I'd do without you.

 

[Maestoso]

Actually, that is not definite. Right now he could swing either way.

Bisexual. Tell me about it

 

[G-Lexington]

This has sarcasm written all over it! Why can't you be supportive like the good guys here? [

Not sarcasm - just unclear if this is going to be fanboying, or a guy chasing after his dreams. If this thread is going to be nothing but us giggling and saying "No, he MIGHT be gay/bi" so you can continue drawing hearts with his and your initials in them within the margins of your notebooks, then I agree with above assertion that this belongs in the Celebrity forum with the other five hundred "Is (person of modest reknown) Gay?" threads. If this thread is going to be about your journey to becoming this guy's lover - not in FanFicLand but in reality - then it belongs right here.

Of course, the very first few steps are the same. You want to know if he's gay or bi. I'm telling you with certainty that he is. You want to know if you have a chance. I'm telling you with even more certainty that you do. The next step, however, seperates the men from the (fan)boys. Given this information, what are you going to do about it?

Lex

 

[silentalk]

Not sarcasm - just unclear if this is going to be fanboying, or a guy chasing after his dreams. If this thread is going to be nothing but us giggling and saying "No, he MIGHT be gay/bi" so you can continue drawing hearts with his and your initials in them within the margins of your notebooks, then I agree with above assertion that this belongs in the Celebrity forum with the other five hundred "Is (person of modest reknown) Gay?" threads. If this thread is going to be about your journey to becoming this guy's lover - not in FanFicLand but in reality - then it belongs right here.

Of course, the very first few steps are the same. You want to know if he's gay or bi. I'm telling you with certainty that he is. You want to know if you have a chance. I'm telling you with even more certainty that you do. The next step, however, seperates the men from the (fan)boys. Given this information, what are you going to do about it?

Lex

OK, that was a little mind-blowing! But before I tell you why, I want to thank you for being supportive (A huge improvement over your first post which I thought was pure sarcasm )

I also want to let you know that this most certainly isn't just giggles and laughs. At least not to me. I'm working on it. I know I can reach a place where friendship would be offered to him (not literally of course, but the same way natural friendships develop) and the ball would be in his field. It would be his choice whether to consider me a friend or not. Therefore, I tend not to think of my chances of getting into his inner circle a problem. I can do it. It would take some time though.

The problem would be the next step. I don't want us to be just friends. And if he's not gay/bi then all my efforts would mean nothing. So, since a few guys here think there's a good chance he's gay, I'm going for it.

I apologize in advance for not posting any details or results of what happens or might happen. If he wants to stay in the closet, I want to make it easy for him to remain so. So, the "journey" of my reaching out to him won't be entirely posted here. I might give a few hints though. I apologize to those of you who want to know the details. I don't know if I'll succeed, but I need your support guys, those of you who believe!

And yes, I might seem not to be very proactive about it, which is somewhat accurate. I'm not taking the necessary steps yet. I won't be able to do so until the end of July, and I have my reasons for that.

I've said too much. I wanted to keep my mouth shut about all this, but you dragged me into spilling it out Lex

And now for the mind blowing part: What makes you so sure he's gay/bi? You seemed so sure which socked me. If you know something the rest of us don't, please PM me.

Thanks Lex, that was more support than I hoped for

 

[borg69unimatrix]

This has sarcasm written all over it! Why can't you [STRIKE]be supportive[/STRIKE] tell me what I want to hear like the good guys here?

You have a lot to learn about support. That friend that cautions you from doing something is a better friend than the ones urging you over the cliff.

 

[silentalk]

You have a lot to learn about support. That friend that cautions you from doing something is a better friend than the ones urging you over the cliff.

That's true, the last part of your post I mean. Yet, if no risk is taken, no return/profit. If people stopped chasing their dreams because chances were slim, then we won't have electricity, airplanes, freedom, justice, movies, amazing food, computers, medicine, music... you name it!

Looking at music alone is enough for me. Look at Zayn, if he hadn't chased his dream of singing because of fear of rejection/embarrassment, there won't be One Direction.

The trick is to assess the risks, calculate the potential damage, draw a plan to minimize damages and maximize chances of success, and adjust accordingly.

I appreciate your concern. Thanks

You really need to watch this :

 

[layton]

What's coming out got to do with it? I'd much prefer it if he stayed in the closet.

Well, if he is still in the closet that makes a relationship all the more difficult, to even learn if he was gay, which in all honesty is unlikely, I pretty sure Liam is the gay one, you would have to find your way into his inner circle for him to come out to you. How do you even plan to meet him in a non-fan setting, because he is not just going to meet you at a concert and decide to date you.

 

[silentalk]

Well, if he is still in the closet that makes a relationship all the more difficult, to even learn if he was gay, which in all honesty is unlikely, I pretty sure Liam is the gay one, you would have to find your way into his inner circle for him to come out to you. How do you even plan to meet him in a non-fan setting, because he is not just going to meet you at a concert and decide to date you.

I still have to try, don't I?

 

[rareboy]

I'll be on the edge of my seat waiting for July to roll around.

 

[G-Lexington]

If we don't hear anything, I'll just assume it all worked out.

Lex

 

[layton]

I still have to try, don't I?

I guess, I just wouldn't get your hopes up.

 

[pat grimshaw]

silentalk, I'd rather have a burst bubble than a burst appendix. Just saying

 

[silentalk]

Thanks for all your input guys. I'll keep you updated as much as I can.

 

[Willie Boy]

Thanks for all your input guys. I'll keep you updated as much as I can.

Just remember: Pics or it never happened.

 

[silentalk]

You better.

Just remember: Pics or it never happened.

I wish! If it does happen, I'd really want to tell you guys. But like I said, maybe Zayn wouldn't want that. Let me ask you this (and I'm not promising anything at the moment), if I do post a picture of us holding hands, like 4 months from now, can we agree that "What happens on JUB, stays on JUB"? OK, to be realistic, I doubt it. But I'd still want to tell you.

One more thing. If I don't update you guys with news, please bear my need for support. I might update you with doubts, hesitancy, and other problems. I'm counting on you to be there

 

[JayHawk]

I wish! If it does happen, I'd really want to tell you guys. But like I said, maybe Zayn wouldn't want that. Let me ask you this (and I'm not promising anything at the moment), if I do post a picture of us holding hands, like 4 months from now, can we agree that "What happens on JUB, stays on JUB"? OK, to be realistic, I doubt it. But I'd still want to tell you.

One more thing. If I don't update you guys with news, please bear my need for support. I might update you with doubts, hesitancy, and other problems. I'm counting on you to be there

I think it would only be fair that you go over to the amateur thread and post some nudes so if we see it on TMZ then we will know it is you.....

 

[Willie Boy]

I wish! If it does happen, I'd really want to tell you guys. But like I said, maybe Zayn wouldn't want that. Let me ask you this (and I'm not promising anything at the moment), if I do post a picture of us holding hands, like 4 months from now, can we agree that "What happens on JUB, stays on JUB"? OK, to be realistic, I doubt it. But I'd still want to tell you.

One more thing. If I don't update you guys with news, please bear my need for support. I might update you with doubts, hesitancy, and other problems. I'm counting on you to be there

Don't worry. If you post pics I will assume (unless you state otherwise) that they are not to be spread around. Of course that means I will have to share them with everyone I meat. That would include, in totality, 1 (my partner). We haven't been interested in 3somes for some time now.

 

[borg69unimatrix]

I think it would only be fair that you go over to the amateur thread and post some nudes so if we see it on TMZ then we will know it is you.....

I agree. How do we even know you're Zayn worthy? We should get some kind of feel if you two are even in each other's league.