>>>Is he an idiot in other ways as well?
When he found out I was gay, he stopped talking to me for over a month. I didn't actually notice until somebody pointed it out. I finally cornered him and said "You really won't talk to me because I'm gay?" He mumbled, "I just don't want you checking my ass out all the time." To which I said, half-smiling, "Ugh - I think I'd rather go straight." And then he got offended at THAT. It was odd having the homophobe pissed because I didn't think he was hot enough.
To be completely fair, there IS a message that confederate flag owners and displayers want to get across.
It's not "I'm racist".
It's not "states rights".
It's not "pride in my area's history".
It's "fuck you".
Lex