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Need help before I explode!!

BTW thanks to everyone that has replied or viewed my thread. It has definently helped me in realizing what is going on.
 
Offer that dog your milkbone. He's panting for it, dude.
 
I also forgot, today my manager texted me asking me if I wanted to work today and he saw the text. He took my phone away from and said to him no, then he turns to me and says your not working today, we are hanging out today. I told him I had to give a ride to my friend today and shes a girl and he got so upset that he texted the girl saying I can't give her a ride. He did this because he wanted to hang out with me today. Today at the store he said, "kiss me (my name) come on give a kiss and he did that thing with his lips like he was going to kiss me. Oh those butterflies are in my stomach =)
 
I have to agree with the others, from what you have written he has done everything but rape you. If you don't start responding he's going to give up. I don't think you want that. I know you don't want to make a bold move, but you have to make some moves. Next time he says "kiss me", say "your lips look so good I just might" and see how he responds. When he rubs you, rub him in return. If you give him some encouragement, maybe he will make even bolder moves. You have to at least let him know that you like his moves and respond in kind.
 
Heydude009 said:
Hi everyone. I really need your help whether my best friend is bi or not. I've known him for 6 years and now I have the biggest crush on him and the first time he saw me, he was just staring at me. Other people around us starting saying that he was gay and that he liked me. Right now he is in my classes and these are the things he does that I think he is bi.

1. we sit near each other and he touches my upper leg sometimes near my dick like hes feeling me
2. He wanted to take my phone as joke today and I had it in front of my dick and he goes and grabs my phone when it was there
3. has told me hes horny and wants me in bed (is he just kidding?)
4. winks at me and does that thing with his tongue like he wants to suck on someone
5. says he loves my family and wants to come over and spend time with them
6. talks abut us living together and says he loves me
but...
says to me there is a girl he knows that he just wants to fuck (trying to hide his real sexuality? he laughs and doesnt really talk seriously)
he has had a girlfriend a while ago but has been single in a while
There are probably more things I can't think of, but ill add them later. Now is he just a funny straight guy or is he bi or gay? Please help me as all of this is simply eating me alive and I really need to know if he likes me or if he is just kidding. Thank you to everyone!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I am sad for all of the torture that we put ourselves through as gay people. You need to start calling your friends on any homophobia that they are exhibiting. It could all be for show. Find some gay friends. To me it sounds like this guy suspects you are gay and wants you to out yourself. He sounds like trouble.
 
Heydude009 said:
Today at the store he said, "kiss me (my name) come on give a kiss and he did that thing with his lips like he was going to kiss me. Oh those butterflies are in my stomach =)
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If he does that again, just kiss him and say "you get what you ask for" and see how he reacts. It should either get him to stop messing with you, or move things along.
 
I'm going along with Lex and others on this. Quit the drama and get on with it or lose him. I almost think you must have made all this up. I really can't believe you are still holding back when this guy is trying so hard. Frankly, and I'm sorry to say this, but he deserves better than you.
 
ugh I'm just going to give up. I just realized he does almost the same things to me to his other friends too. Time to move on... Thanks everyone
 
Good that you've realised it.

Now go find a nice gay boy!!
 
Heydude009 said:
ugh I'm just going to give up. I just realized he does almost the same things to me to his other friends too. Time to move on... Thanks everyone
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he is probably doing it to other people because you are not catching onto him. I say just make a move on him when you guys are alone dont tell him anything about your feelings this way you can always say it was a joke or whatever. Next time he says kiss me go in for it!!! and if he reacts the right way he will kiss you back if not just say "ahah you dared me" no bigge win win situation. Let us know how it goes
 
Okkk... I'm finally starting to show him that I'm into all the things he does. All of these happened yesterday/today...

1. We were texting each other last night and he said "I lov u guy"
2. Slapped and pinched my ass very hard
3. Felt my leg again
4. Calls me his brother alot
5. We went to rent tuxes together for prom and he got the same exact tux I did
6. When the tux guy was measuring me, I noticed he looking at me at times
7. Told me when and what time his soccer games are and wants me to go to them
8. I was sitting on a big radiator and he comes towards me and pretends to hump me
9. Texts me saying " I have you forever to save me" cause I reminded him of his homework
10. Makes jokes about two of our guy friends being gay togerther
11. Said "I want to suck your dick" I think he was joking though
12. Talks alot about his nipples being hard
13. Him and I were singing "Kiss me through the phone" together in his car haha
14. Said he wants to hangout tonight

Sorry about the long post, but sometimes I feel that we are already going out. Last week, him and I were in my car late at night at DQ just talking about his whole body was turned to me and were making eye contact the whole time. We have gotten so close that I seriously feel like we are already together?? Sorry, but alot of things happened yesterday and today!
 
When he says his nipples are hard, ask him if you can feel them. When he pinches your ass, ask he wants to pinch it naked, this guy is a prankster and you should use that to your advantage. If you get a boner, say look you gave me a boner. If he gets a boner, ask him if you can see it - not in some sexy, lovestruckin way, just casual.

Just relax and enjoy his pranks and see what happens. Sounds like this guy would be up for the question, "how do you jack off"? Especially if he spends the night with.

Make it happen!
 
When you see him say "I have to ask you something, Will you be my boyfriend?" Let us know what he says.
 
As usual, you're giving us a litany of things HE's doing to YOU. And, as usual, we're not seeing that you're doing a damn thing in return.

Lex
 
The advice here is good. Move it or lose it, sir. This guy is giving you every indication that he wants you, and you're letting your nervousness get in the way of what could be a wonderful experience for you (not to say that your anxiety is unwarranted; you're still in high school (prom reference); small town, presumably?; most of your friends are homophobic?).

You need to act--with subtlety, if you're afraid that things could be ruined if he's not actually gay. But you *need* to act.
 
ugh tonight had to be the hardest night ive had in a while.... i was hanging out with one of my friends which is a girl and she now talks about how cute and how sweet the guy i like is. she is starting to like him and i think the guy i likes her too :[ he starts to do some of his pranks to her and even asked her to kiss hlm however they didnt... my crush has told he doesnt really like her but i have a weird feeling they are going to hook up. omg i cant even sleep just thinking about this
 
I also noticed that whenever me and him are around other people, he tends to not pay as much attention to me as when me and him are alone. All those instances above happened when me and him were alone. Could it be because he feels awkward around me with other people? However, this past Friday he was in my car and turned his body and pretending to hump me while I'm in the drivers sear with other people around. He was also shoving his ass in my face lol. Then he got out and actually mooned me and pretended to pull down his pants to show me his dick. ugh sorry everyone, I'm just so confused, but I think I'm ready to take action soon. Thank you.
 
Look, I'm sorry. Really. I am.

One of my greatest failings is that, when people tell me about their problems, I think they want advice. I think they want the problem solved. And, much of the time, they don't. As one friend so astutely pointed out...

"Fuck you, Lex. I don't want my problem solved. I want my problem listened to!"

I'm sorry the gargoyle is so dense, but it's finally clear to me that that's what's going on here. This isn't a "what should I do?" thread. This is a "OMG, guess what he did today!" thread.

I'm done giving advice here. I'm done making suggestions or saying you should make a move. Because that's not why you're posting here, is it? You don't want an agony aunt. You want a friend. You want someone to be happy for you. Someone to open their eyes wide and say "OMG, that's SO cool!"

Right?

Lex
 
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