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No matter how hot you are, if you're black or Asian, you're just not as desireable...

ClockStrikes9 said:
I agree. From what I've noticed, the main non-white gay men who complain and get their feelings so hurt about how "undesirable" they're treated by white gay men are the one's who have this unhealthy obsession with them, while having little to no interest in their own. So maybe they should look inward and ask themselves why they don't find other men who look like them especially attractive. I bet the answer will be sadly similar to why some white guys feel the same way. I almost never hear Black/Asian/Latin gay men who're into other Black/Asian/Latin men and are comfortable in their own SKIN (pun intended) whine about White rejection. I don't think they notice it as much, and when they do they don't seem especially shattered by it. It's because they aren't out seeking "White" acceptance.

I'm White and am generally attracted to all types of men. When I come across some who aren't into White guys, I didn't feel devalued or inflated or even all that disheartened. I just roll my eyes, dismiss THEM as the one's with issues and move on until I eventually find someone who doesn't have any racial hangups. On the flipside, if I do meet say a Black guy who responds to me and it becomes obvious that he has some kind of "White guy" fetish, it becomes a huge turnoff because most of the time it seems like they have self-loathing issues and are looking at me like I validate them or something. Which is pathetic. I think if people were comfortable in their own skin [color], they wouldn't be so rocked by rejection from bigots. They'd just move on until they eventually meet someone who didn't have those kinds of hangups.
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I'm not whining about white rejection. I'm comfortable with who I am, and don't have racial preferences. I'm just hurt by anyone of any race who immediately labels me undesirable because of my skin color and not my personality or body type or something I have control over. Thats how you feel, and thats fine. You can't equate your experiences and feelings and expect me to even feel the same way(good or bad) about being rejected because of race.
 
Liam84215 said:
I'm not whining about white rejection. I'm comfortable with who I am, and don't have racial preferences. I'm just hurt by anyone of any race who immediately labels me undesirable because of my skin color and not my personality or body type or something I have control over.
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I think you have some self-esteem issues. You need some pride.

I_Just_Blew_My_Load86 said:
And no, the interest wasn't just confined to other white men either, the white profiles were more popular among blacks, Asians, and Latinos as well.
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How do you know this?

[Black man speaking] Really, I could care less if some white people or some any kind of people don't find black men attractive. That's their insane view. Black men are the fucking sexist. I prefer black men definitely.
 
Sequencellariot said:
How do you know this?
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Well nevermind. I went back and read that you allegedly did some experiment on dating websites. Still, I'm wondering if the white experimental profiles got more attention from blacks exclusively than the black experimental profiles did from blacks. I wouldn't imagine so, and I'd be surprised if it was. I always thought that gay black men were primarily into each other. When you talked about this in your post, you grouped blacks, Asians, and Latinos together, so the answer to my wonder isn't clear.
 
I think you have some self-esteem issues. You need some pride.


I don't understand how you came up with that conclusion. Because I don't like racism, that means I have self esteem issues? :confused:
 
No. Because how someone who doesn't desire you because of your race hurts your feelings.
 
OP is basically right. It's the ugly truth. Having said that, there is more interracial, intergenerational, and interclass mixing among gays than anyone else. Go out to a gay bar and you'll see guys of different ages, races, body types, and backgrounds all hanging out together. Gays have their racism, but it's less, go to any straifght place and it's not as much!
 
I'm white and the men I'm usually attracted to most are asians. I also had a huge crush on a black man. I think the only reason why in general white people are getting more response from what you are seeing, is because usually white people are attracted to white people, and in the usa it's mostly white people out there. It's just mathematics IMO.
 
Sequencellariot said:
No. Because how someone who doesn't desire you because of your race hurts your feelings.
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That doesn't make sense to me. Yes it hurts, but I get over it and move on. I'm not bawling my eyes out. I'm not seeking revenge. Are you telling me your so "Bulletproof" that it doesn't get you down when someone immediately finds you undesirable because of your skin color, not because of your personality, body type, etc etc? I was just expressing how I feel on the matter when it has happened to me. You are not my Dr. Phil buddy:=D::wave::gogirl:
 
^ I promise you it's not that serious. I read your post and had a thought. If I was wrong, then that's fine.

Liam84215 said:
Are you telling me your so "Bulletproof" that it doesn't get you down when someone immediately finds you undesirable because of your skin color, not because of your personality, body type, etc etc?
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Yep.
 
I didn't read this whole thread but take a step back, a big step back. There are more Asians on the planet than there are whites. In China, I'm sure the most desirable guy is Chinese so in the U.S. I'm sure the most desirable guy is white.

That said, does it matter what statistics you follow? How many people do you want interested in you anyway? For me, I only want one important person interested in me.

Being a minority does not make you ugly or disadvantaged. I don't get that.

If you read posts on here about guys with actual problems or disabilities, they have lovers too. Does that mean that they are top on the most desirable list? Probably not. Does that mean they can't find love or hookups? Absolutely not.
 
Going in roughly the same boat as Spencer, I think part of it is media censorship. In the US, how many pics like these do you see everyday?

(Honestly. Check out these guy's humoungus muscular tits. Do you know many times I've jo'ed and blasted to the site of them?! *|*)

I have more to say regarding the neurological part of my explanation, but I'm too tired to go into it now. When I'm more awake and am still interested in this subject, I will come back to type it.

p.s. The guy in fourth pic looks like the Chinese version of the US p-star, Cody Cummings. Wouldn't you agree? My only question now is, who has the thicker, larger pair of muscular tits? Cody or this guy? (I say tits instead of pecs because pecs is very bland. "Tits", on the other hand, add an erotic, slutty component to it, making them more enjoyable to the mind. :) This is simply for clarification)
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Liam84215 said:
That doesn't make sense to me. Yes it hurts, but I get over it and move on. I'm not bawling my eyes out. I'm not seeking revenge. Are you telling me your so "Bulletproof" that it doesn't get you down when someone immediately finds you undesirable because of your skin color, not because of your personality, body type, etc etc? I was just expressing how I feel on the matter when it has happened to me. You are not my Dr. Phil buddy:=D::wave::gogirl:
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Liam. You make an interesting point, which I understand. I also lack a "bulletproof heart." But what I tend to find discouraging and frustrating is when other minorities proudly espouse a "whites only" dating preference. That really gets under my skin (pardon the pun), and I still find it hurtful and disappointing. This is the voice of experience talking here.
 
Final verdict.

post 1 is very accurate. Good luck for all you guys ... :wave:
 
Just saw this profile on manhunt:
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We are couple 52 GWM Top/Ver and 30 GAM Bttm/Ver


So the OP is correct again LOL
 
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