Non Experimenting Curious Straight Guys

[izziefan]

I am married for 5 years. Love to have sex with my wife. Occasional jerk to guy pics and fantasies. Regret not going further in a couple of guy encounters before I started dating girls. Now I fantasize about sucking a good clean and clean-shaven cock, if it is not too big then maybe taking it in from behind, doing a cock fight (love the feeling of rubbing cocks) and love to wear panties whenver I can.

 

[breatheH20]

A friend of mine is like this... what sucks is I have a major crush on him. He always asks about me and my boyfriend.. what a tease... but I think it's just cause he's a good guy.

 

[RRRalph]

I have no idea if I am bi... I know I'm bi... So when you say I'm not bi I would guess you are wrong.

You seem a bit contradictive, but i think i can assume that you are bisexual eventually.

 

[RRRalph]

I am married for 5 years. Love to have sex with my wife. Occasional jerk to guy pics and fantasies. Regret not going further in a couple of guy encounters before I started dating girls. Now I fantasize about sucking a good clean and clean-shaven cock, if it is not too big then maybe taking it in from behind, doing a cock fight.

That's the lesson we can learn about. If you are curious you should experiment. Avoid having regrets.

 

[SuperDodgy]

Interesting to read all this ... are there any figures on bi's?

Hehe, since it's already wellknow about 10% is gay, xx% is is bi and xx% is str8?

Just curious...

 

[Joe King Jay]

I'm here because I'm very open minded and I love the Fun & Games threads! I think I'm actually addicted to it!

I consider myself straight too. I have never been with a man in all my 24 years, although I did end up kissing two Jubbers at the last meet up (Spin the bottle)!

I have no problem saying a guy is good looking, but that's it. I don't wonder what it would like to have sex with him or what he looks like naked. It just doesn't cross my mind. I view girls differently. I like everything about them. Their long hair, smell, and breasts - small breats ftw !

It's hard to explain. I have gay friends and straight male friends who flirt with me, but we do it for laughs only.

I've been approaced several times by good looking guys who wanted sex, but I've always said no. Right now I have no desire to be with a man, even for a discrete sexual fling.

If my views on this change however, I would not fight them. I think everyone owes it to themselves to pursue their pleasures. If in time I decide I want to experiement with a guy I definitely would.

I don't know if any of the above makes any sense to you, but it works for me

I'm probably the gayest straight man alive

 

[RRRalph]

I consider myself straight. I'm here because I'm very open minded. I have no problem saying a guy is good looking, but that's it.

I don't wonder what it would like to have sex with him or what he looks like naked. It just doesn't cross my mind. I have no desire to be with a man, even for a discrete sexual fling.

I have never been with a man in all my 24 years, although I did end up kissing two Jubbers at the last meet up!

That sounds pretty straight. You have a legitimit reason not to experiment. You're not even curious. But ehh... i really like to know how you did end up snogging two jubbers and who were they!!

 

[gameboy 11]

Sorry to say it, but these so-called gay curious guys are all on the highway to Homoville. It only takes a flicker to ignite a flame. A true straight guy wouldn't have gone out of his way to find a website like this. You might as well come out now and stop repressing your true sexuality. When you're old and dried up, no other man will want to come close to you so you had better kick your way out of the closet right now. LOL!

To an extent, I agree with this post.

 

[Joe King Jay]

That sounds pretty straight. You have a legitimit reason not to experiment. You're not even curious. But ehh... i really like to know how you did end up snogging two jubbers and who were they!!

I never kiss and tell!

Just kidding . It was at the Toronto meet up. They had this game of spin the bottle going on. The bottle decided that it liked me that day and ended up on me twice. I ended up kissing Sheep and Baccihus (sp ).

I guess they what they say is true. How do you turn a straight boy gay? Give him 5 beers

 

[Joe King Jay]

My advice to you is not to open Pandora's box if you don't want to end up like me with a hot boyfriend.

Continue to repress any desire you may have for other men.

Personally, I wish I had never tried it the first time.

Don't do it, dudes. Don't you dare open up Pandora's box.

Why not open Pandora’s box?

You only get to live once. I would hate to be older and regret this decision. I would rather try it out then decide. I would rather know I don’t like it then to always wonder what it would have been like.

I believe you owe it to yourself to follow your desires.
I think you should definitely experiment if you’re curious. Don’t let society tell you you’re less of a man because of this.

You shouldn’t feel guilty afterwards either. Having sex with another man is not a shameful act. You should never suppress your desires unless their adulteries/ or endanger you.

This could be the best sex of your life that you're missing out on.

Why do that to yourself?

 

[fordsparks]

I fit into this catagory. I am married and will not jeopardize what I have. I have never touched another mans dick and not had mine touched by any non medically trained man.
I do not fantacise about getting having a dick stuck up my butt or down my throat or me doing that to anyone else. I would be interested in jacking a guy off and having him do the same to me. Maybe some form of restraint involved. The snag in all this is how do you find someone that would be interested and being safe. Asking the wrong guy could really screw things up

 

[Joe King Jay]

Dude, I think these curious "straight" guys got the point of my sarcasm.

I picked up on the sarcasm . I thought it was funny too . I do agree with your post.

I’m only saying based on people’s replies in general, they should open Pandora’s Box.

Not to feel shamed or to hide their desires.

 

[Joe King Jay]

I fit into this catagory. I am married and will not jeopardize what I have. I have never touched another mans dick and not had mine touched by any non medically trained man.
I do not fantacise about getting having a dick stuck up my butt or down my throat or me doing that to anyone else. I would be interested in jacking a guy off and having him do the same to me. Maybe some form of restraint involved. The snag in all this is how do you find someone that would be interested and being safe. Asking the wrong guy could really screw things up

As for the married/gf guys, who are curious, have you talked to your wives/gf's about this?

I know a few guys and one woman who stayed together because they did not want to jeopardize what they had. The lack of communication regarding this matter caused all the relationships to turn sour in the end.

Fordsparks, I’m not saying the above applies to you at all. I’m just saying maybe you should disclose these feelings to your wife. It sounds crazy, but what other choices do you have?

A) Suppress your feeling indefinitely?
B) Go behind her back?
C) Tell her and see what happens?
D) A mix of above

It’s a tough call. You know her best, how do you think she will react.

Kam

 

[Joe King Jay]

I agree. However, at the same time, I can totally relate to all of their apprehension. There was so much holding me back from experimenting as well. What if I liked it? Does it mean I'm gay or bi? What will my family, girlfriend, or wife think if they knew? Will I contract HIV? The list just goes on and on. Honestly, I suspect that many of these guys may be afraid of gay men. It's the fear of the unknown. That's why I insisted on doing it with a "straight" or bi guy the first time, because I assumed I could relate to them better.

I totally agree with this. These are legit fears or questions that first timers may have.

I look at this issue like purchasing a truck for the first time. I wouldn't go into any random truck lot and take one home. I’d research first and see what truck model fit my tastes. I’d go to the lot and inspect the truck. Do I like what I see? If I did, I'd ask for a test drive, see if it felt right . After the test drive I would know for sure if I really

Like trucks
Like trucks, but prefer cars
Need another test drive to tell
Dislike trucks …etc

I think guys should stop wondering if they like trucks or not. If you’re interested in buying a truck for the first time, give it a test drive .

 

[Charmander]

Don't you like the idea of having a cock up your arse?

That's just too funny

 

[mrkansas]

I am curious but as yet the opportunity has not yet presented itself. Also, I'm married, and while the wife is supportive, I am very apprehensive about messing with that.

Same here. Right now it's just too scary.

 

[itsaigt]

Hey I consider myself bisexual I want to eventually be in a relationship with awoman and start a traditional family but at 21 I just want to make the most out of life I am open to fooling around w/ men but have no desire to have a serious relationship w/ them I "get off" to both male and femail porn. I dont however enjoy being fucked up the ass giving it up the ass ok with that sucking a guy off awsome but just not into the cock up my ass.

 

[RRRalph]

Hey I consider myself bisexual I want to eventually be in a relationship with awoman and start a traditional family but at 21 I just want to make the most out of life I am open to fooling around w/ men but have no desire to have a serious relationship w/ them I "get off" to both male and female porn. I dont however enjoy being fucked up the ass giving it up the ass ok with that sucking a guy off awsome but just not into the cock up my ass.

Welcome to jub my man! My opinion is that you should at least experiment when you're young. I read too many posts of older guys who regret for not experimenting and therefor sneak behind his wifes back to fool around with guys. Maybe you should try at least once to slide a cock in your arse. You could like it!

 

[wanderer]

well like i get turned on by seeing hot guys naked but the only thing i would do to them is suck them off.. i wouldn;t kiss or anal them.... and they could only suck me off... but im very picky

im the same way. but if i really like the guy i will kiss. but nothing in the back door....his or mine.

 

[roundpegina]

I have not read all this thread yet but in response to RRRalph first post
After reading this thread about a curious straight guy i wanna know if there's more curious straight guys who refuse to get sexually involved with a guy?

I have not had sex with a man.

Do you just jerk off by seeing gay pics and vids or in a cam2cam action?

Yes, also did that to straight movies, usually turned the sound off on both – wait that’s another thread about how fake straight movies are.

Don't you like the idea of having a cock up your arse?

I my 20’s I had experimented with inserting some things in my arse and it did not do much for me. It was more an oral fixation this also applied to girls and why I like penthouse magazine. Years later watching some gay movies I did become more curious as to why some guy seem to really enjoy being bottoms

What's the thing you are curious about then?

I think it was the taboo allure– maybe similar to drinking which lost some of its appeal when I turned 21. I also seem to have a quirky streak – I read some cuckold stories I did find it exiting that some guys like to be belittled, humiliated, and cuckolded. While I tend to be passive, I do not like being belittled and know I would be long gone before it went anywhere near what these stories describe.
Another question is what would have happened if I had the internet in my 20’s, of course the sticks and rocks were ok in the warm cave hummmm DAMN GEIKO. If there had been more support and information Like JUB provides maybe I would not have felt so isolated.