Race and gay guys.

[Lukeee]

Eh, I don't know. Maybe because they prefer white guys? There are a lot of us who love all races, me for one.

 

[JUB]

I think brazilian guys are very sexy their sun kissed skin and tight beach bodies. *sigh*

 

[Lukeee]

I think brazilian guys are very sexy their sun kissed skin and tight beach bodies. *sigh*

thanlss for the lovely image

 

[frankfrank]

Certainly not true of me.

I cannot think of even one ethnic group or race that I find to be "ugly" and would generally ignore. If I were more sexually active, I wouldn't even WANT "nothing but Caucasian guys."

There are two people I occasionally hire for sex (i.e. around once a year or thereabouts), and the skin color between the two is not at all similar.

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

why do gay guys bitch about absolutely everything?

It's called a discussion. People with doctorates have these same talks, though they usually handle it better than JUBers.

 

[gdude30]

Why does it seem the someone just assumes that one race or something else is better or more common than the other and claims it to be truth?

 

[EwanSF]

That's why I said aside from preference. It's the most anyone will admit to.

Again, there's that dirty little inferrance that there is some darker, ulterior motive other than preference.

Anyway, my tastes as far as ethnicity goes has always swung all over the place. Used to have a big thing for asian and middle-eastern guys, then it was spanish and italian, I'm on white guys at the moment, no doubt it will change again.

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

Why do people bitch about JUB and continually come on it?

Good question.

 

[MisterMajestic]

"Why does it seem that most gay guys are always trying to get a white guy instead of other races?"

There's some Truth to this..Hispanics,Blacks and Asians do go after white guys probably more than their own race of men..

I don't have a preference but the SAD part is in my area most of the Black Gay/Bi guys that I know want White dudes. So if i wanted to be with a Black dude the chances of that happening are LOW, so I have to follow the crowd and hit on White guys..

There's nothing wrong with having a racial-preference but you can't help but notice that White Tops & Bottoms are in highest Demand by Gay/Bi men...

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

There's nothing wrong with having a racial-preference but you can't help but notice that White Tops & Bottoms are in highest Demand by Gay/Bi men...

It's worthy of inspection. Race is a shitty construct, it's like dividing a grocery store into two aisles; seedless fruits and laundry detergent. The entire concept of race was created to distinguish master from slave, human from property.

As much as people defend "racial preferences" they can never explain them. They usually fail, citing things that they claim to be race-specific that actually aren't. There would be more understanding if people were actually forthcoming. You don't wake up with a racial preference, there's a thought process, order of elimination. What's the thought process? What warrants elimination? Those are the questions that are eluded like the plague.

 

[asian87]

No preference about races and colours because personality is much more important. However since I'm a chaser and do like chubs, I will have a slight bias for white chubs because their curves are different from chubs of other races. I mean their shape although it differs from individual to individual.

So here nothing about colour but it's just a preference for some physical features and this will be likely effect the 'at first sight'. Every body has a chance with me.

 

[kingkhan]

It's worthy of inspection. Race is a shitty construct, it's like dividing a grocery store into two aisles; seedless fruits and laundry detergent. The entire concept of race was created to distinguish master from slave, human from property.

As much as people defend "racial preferences" they can never explain them. They usually fail, citing things that they claim to be race-specific that actually aren't. There would be more understanding if people were actually forthcoming. You don't wake up with a racial preference, there's a thought process, order of elimination. What's the thought process? What warrants elimination? Those are the questions that are eluded like the plague.

I won't elude the questions. For me I am not sure if I would be that comfortable with a black guy. It's like I might as well say "I want to do things with guys because, I did not have a father figure. " And I know its a dumb rationale but, it is something I have stuck in my head. Anyway just the fact that I could go both ways makes me more open minded then most.
But, then again my preference is for women and I don't really have that much of a racial preference more of a hair and eye color preference.

 

[EwanSF]

Because it's true in some cases. It's not just a "dirty little inference", it's a fact. I'm not saying it applies to everybody. If it doesn't apply to you, let it fly. No need to get defensive. It wasn't directed at anyone in particular.

Sorry man, thought you were generalising. My bad.

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

I won't elude the questions. For me I am not sure if I would be that comfortable with a black guy.

We don't bite.

It's like I might as well say "I want to do things with guys because, I did not have a father figure."

Huh?

And I know its a dumb rationale

Yet it has stuck in your head?

but, it is something I have stuck in my head.

A good rule for life, don't let dumb rationales stick in your head.

Anyway just the fact that I could go both ways makes me more open minded then most.

Apparently not.

 

[BabiGayPimp]

Because they have more body hair, which many associate with being more masculine.

 

[MisterMajestic]

"For me I am not sure if I would be that comfortable with a black guy."

I've talked to white guys over the years and there are those that feel the same as you. A few white guys have stated that one of the reason they have no attraction to Black guys is because of our "Body hair"...Odd statement to say if you've never been with a Black person physically...

But we all know stereotyping plays a MAJOR role...And we all do it..

I've dated White Men and Women and not even 30-minutes into the date the FIRST thing that comes out of some of their mouths is "How Big is your Cock?"...Talk about a MAJOR turn-off especially if i'm into the individual..This happened mainly with white men and only a few white women..

One thing I've noticed about some Gay/Bi white guys is that they see Black guys just for the size of our Dicks and getting Fucked by us...Don't read me wrong I'm not comparing Black & White Fuck Buddies that know from the start what they want from each other. I'm talking about when Blacks and whites date each other and how the date goes SOUR because the white person is more concerned about what's in the Black mans Boxer-briefs VS what's in his head.

Black guys & Black women that I've gone out with never asked about the size of my Dick at the dinner table...

I don't know if other gay/Bi Black guys on this site have noticed the same thing about white guys, but I've chatted with a few Black guys that experience the same thing..

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

^You're not the only one who's seen it.

 

[SwingBoy]

I have a preferrance for caucasian guys. I'm black. I think to a large extent, it has to do with the power 'white' men socially represent: technological ingenuity and military prowess. I grew up in Apartheid South Africa and the power of the white man to subjugate and control a much larger African constituancy is doubtless a reason (though since I've realised, this is all to do with culture and nothing more).

Apart from that, I find men and women from most ethnic/demographic representations attractive. I prefer darker skinned ladies to fairer-skinned ones. Particularly Black or Latin American. Curiously, but maybe not so surprisingly judging from what I've already mentioned, with men its the opposite. The physical features on a white man; such as hair, skin tone and eye colour have an unexplainable appeal for me.

 

[BabiGayPimp]

^And you know, white boys taste like vanilla ice cream too. That turns some people on, I've heard.

 

[martin6]

Why does it seem that most gay guys are always trying to get a white guy instead of other races?

I would SO rather go the races than hang out with a white guy. Or any guy for that matter.

GO MARK!

















Sorry, I had to say it.