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im beginning to really dislike JD, he's so arrogant and obnoxious, ya hes cute, but still..he just rubs me the wrong way
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WHY HASN'T ANY ONE HAD SEX YET?!

Waaait a minute, what's so innappropiate about asking someone if they're gay???? Would you think it would be innapporpiate to ask someone if they're str8? I don't think so. It seems innappropiate to you because you unconsciously or not, are not a 100% comfortable with the fact that you're gay and you think it might be wrong or embarassing so you wouldn't be comfortable with someone asking you that in public...which says a lot more about you than the person asking such question.
Same thing goes with Kaitlyn, I don't see why she would be uncomfortable if someone asked her that. It's the truth, she was born a man and is nice that someone would even be curious about knowing who she is and how she feels (I'm not defending Ryan, just commenting in general). Someone asking that kind of obvious question is just trying to connect to the pesron and trying to get to know them. In any case, as long as he asked in a polite manner, I don't see what's wrong about that.
Asking some if they are straight is not the same thing. We live in a society where it is assumed that everyone is straight. Gay people are an oppressed minority. It is completely different.
People are uncomfortable answering that not because they are personally uncomfortable with their sexuality but because many straight people put all kinds of stereotypes on you after they know. Most gay people want people to get to know them as a person before some idiotic straight guy puts them in a box full prejudices of their limited knowledge about homosexuality. Or they dont want to be made into some encyclopedia where it becomes their responsibility to educate all the straight people on all things gay.
Ryan isnt trying to get to know anybody. He wasnt asking in a way that someone who as any respect or genuine would ask. He was just being nosy so he could run back and tell the others. If you have any kind of common sense you wouldnt use that tone and you would ask them in private so they feel comfortable. Just like people dont yell across a common area if he has ptsd. He is such a fucking idiot and a hypocrite because he didnt want to tell people about Iraq because he wanted people to get to know him first but doesnt think maybe Katelynn wanted people to know her first.
Exactly! In the previews, he was laughing with Chet that she hasn't let the cat out of the bag yet. It's 100% just to be nosy. Also he's got plenty of time to get to know Kaitlyn but I've seen those two interact the least out of everyone in the house. The only times they're interacting are when other people are around or if Kaitlyn is just wandering around bugging people and enter Chet/Ryan's room or something.WHY HASN'T ANY ONE HAD SEX YET?!
Oh shut the hell up. Asking someone if they're straight isn't the same thing because there's no discrimination against straight people and they don't deal with being in the closet. You don't know anything about me so stop making stupid accusations. I'm 100% comfortable with myself being gay. If someone who's gay wants you to know, they'll tell you. You should respect people's decisions to come out when they're ready, not out people and talk behind their backs with other people about it.
You're just one of those people who's in love with Ryan and think everything he does is SOOOO COOOL and SOOO FUNNY so you're up his but because you want to be up his butt literally.
I have the feeling Ryan is at least partly homophobic. Just the way he did his impression of JD and everything. There are other reasons why I don't like him either. If he changes then I'll change my opinion on him but for now to me he's an ass.
Oh shut the hell up. Asking someone if they're straight isn't the same thing because there's no discrimination against straight people and they don't deal with being in the closet. You don't know anything about me so stop making stupid accusations. I'm 100% comfortable with myself being gay. If someone who's gay wants you to know, they'll tell you. You should respect people's decisions to come out when they're ready, not out people and talk behind their backs with other people about it.
You're just one of those people who's in love with Ryan and think everything he does is SOOOO COOOL and SOOO FUNNY so you're up his but because you want to be up his butt literally.
I have the feeling Ryan is at least partly homophobic. Just the way he did his impression of JD and everything. There are other reasons why I don't like him either. If he changes then I'll change my opinion on him but for now to me he's an ass.
Asking some if they are straight is not the same thing. We live in a society where it is assumed that everyone is straight. Gay people are an oppressed minority. It is completely different.
You know Devyn is hoping her and scott will be the first lol![]()
Asking some if they are straight is not the same thing. We live in a society where it is assumed that everyone is straight. Gay people are an oppressed minority. It is completely different.
People are uncomfortable answering that not because they are personally uncomfortable with their sexuality but because many straight people put all kinds of stereotypes on you after they know. Most gay people want people to get to know them as a person before some idiotic straight guy puts them in a box full prejudices of their limited knowledge about homosexuality. Or they dont want to be made into some encyclopedia where it becomes their responsibility to educate all the straight people on all things gay.
Ryan isnt trying to get to know anybody. He wasnt asking in a way that someone who as any respect or genuine would ask. He was just being nosy so he could run back and tell the others. If you have any kind of common sense you wouldnt use that tone and you would ask them in private so they feel comfortable. Just like people dont yell across a common area if he has ptsd. He is such a fucking idiot and a hypocrite because he didnt want to tell people about Iraq because he wanted people to get to know him first but doesnt think maybe Katelynn wanted people to know her first.
What I object to (and I'm not necessarily including you in this, innocentbychoice; it just seems that it's what you implied) is the idea that someone feeling uncomfortable being asked if they are gay is proof-positive that they are self-hating. It's possible that they are, but there are also hundreds of other possible reasons for that reaction; I certainly don't know enough about a person by watching them on television to make that diagnosis.Asking someone if they are gay isn't the same but it should be and I feel that as long as we keep answering to those types of questions like we're "supposed" to answer (scared and afraid people are gonna judge us) then nothing's gonna change. I'm not saying we should be walking down the street with a gay flag painted over our foreheads, especially in situations that could be potentially dangerous for us, I just think questions like "are you gay?" should not be taboo anymore.
Asking someone if they are gay isn't the same but it should be and I feel that as long as we keep answering to those types of questions like we're "supposed" to answer (scared and afraid people are gonna judge us) then nothing's gonna change. I'm not saying we should be walking down the street with a gay flag painted over our foreheads, especially in situations that could be potentially dangerous for us, I just think questions like "are you gay?" should not be taboo anymore.
Ok first of all I didn't mean to say "It seems innappropiate to you because you unconsciously or not, are not a 100% comfortable with the fact that you're gay"... I meant to say that if anyone is actually offended by this type of question is because they could be insecure about their sexuality, I wasn't talking about your case per se, I just didn't explain myself. Sorry.
Second, I'M NOT WATCHING THE REAL WORLD, don't know Ryan, I don't know anything about him and I couldn't care less if he's hot or not. I just stumbled upon this thread and disagreed with your post, regarldless of who you're talking about (Ryan, Bob, Jason whatever). That's why I said "as long as he asked that in a nice way..." if he didn't, then my bad, you shouldn't be rude to people just because. There's other ways of answering.
I am so completely impressed with what you said here. What an insight. I agree that Kate wanted everyone to get to know her first before telling her story of being a transgender.
Yes, Ryan and Chester are as nosy as any snoopy old lady next door with the binoculars.
Chet did a good interview I thought and I would expect that he would score a job doing just that.
It is a good season so far and for the most part.
I don't like pranks so much, and Ryan and Chester seem to thrive on them, and yet turn the tables and they are a--holes. Ryan going off on J D for the shaving cream was childish, immature and scary. I don't know if I'd want to pull a prank on an Iraq vet in the middle of the night (he did deserve it) and Ryan's reaction to the prank got a little scary weird - and the 9-11 thing was also weird because the guy he went with had brain injuries. I worked downtown when the attacks occurred and it was horrifying for every single person south of Canal Street. I realize the rest of the country and the world was horrified, but if you had been stuck in an office, unable to leave because the dust and burning, flying debris were so thick you couldn't see across the street. By the time I got home I looked like a ghost is ashes. Living as close as I do there was the smell of shit burning for months after, and working during those months down there was either stay in your office, wear a mask out or choke of fumes every day and night.
If you havent even seen the show, how are you gonna come hereand make comments when you dont know what you are talking about?
Check out Scott's opinion on Devyn (romantically)...
http://www.realworlddailies.com/Video/Attracted-to-Devyn/092ECFFFF00A1312F001700AD8667
