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Reflections of a straight guy who started to bottom this year

str8guy28 said:
I am just trying to resign myself to it for this Saturday. I am not feeling so sure about it anymore and a feeling peer pressure from the swing group
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Tell them no and keep moving. They sound like they are using you for your hole.
 
str8guy28 said:
I have no idea in topping.
In fact I dont even get an erection from the thought of it
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I don't get a boner at the thought of topping
But I don't get one at the thought of bottoming, EITHER
But my dick - is not my primary sex organ
Am I correct in thinking it's not ours - either - when it comes to dude-on-dude sex ?

I'd be taking things back
- to when you took pleasure
- in giving up something special
- to a few dudes, that you really liked
 
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I went thru with it yesterday. I just shut down emotionally and got thru it. Feeling pretty lost and sore today.
 
I'm a bi guy who has enjoyed relationships with both guys and girls. Was in a relationship with a woman who enjoyed double penetration and so I joined up at a swingers club with her. It was quite hot having another man fuck her at the same time and she always had the most intense orgasms. I could feel the other cock inside her whether I was fucking her in the anus or pussy and that tuned me on even more.
 
str8guy28 said:
My wife is bi so she is ok with this. She does not watch however. I was just doing this for my friends benefit and didnt antipate others getting involved. I dont know much about the gay lifestyle or how common what is now going on. It just moved fast and now I am at a point where my ego and self esteem is being affected.
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Since this thread is about your mental health, take a close look at it. You're not "feeling the Love" when it starts being guys you have no emotional connection with. That's a sign from your heart that you should pull back. Re-examine this, and stick with the guys where you're feeling a reciprocal affection between the two of you. No wonder you're feeling "lost": some of these guys are just using you, and you're a babe in the woods. If you'd had a lot of experience before going into this, that would be one thing, but you jumped in to it out of curiosity and not your mind - AND heart - are flashing BIG red flags. Pay attention to that!!!! Never mind how "goodlooking you must be." Sheesh. This is emotionally troubling to you.
 
GayMan321 said:
Sounds like you had a good time
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He said he "shut down emotionally and got thru it." Doesn't sound like he had a good time to me at all. Sounds like he endured it, like it was a kind of assault.
 
mcbrion said:
Since this thread is about your mental health, take a close look at it. You're not "feeling the Love" when it starts being guys you have no emotional connection with. That's a sign from your heart that you should pull back. Re-examine this, and stick with the guys where you're feeling a reciprocal affection between the two of you. No wonder you're feeling "lost": some of these guys are just using you, and you're a babe in the woods. If you'd had a lot of experience before going into this, that would be one thing, but you jumped in to it out of curiosity and not your mind - AND heart - are flashing BIG red flags. Pay attention to that!!!! Never mind how "goodlooking you must be." Sheesh. This is emotionally troubling to you.
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I agree with you he doesn't sound like hes too happy doing this. I would cut everyone off and move on
 
I am doing this about every other weekend now. I just have found that if I shut down emotionally during it that it doesnt effect my ego and self esteem as much afterwards. Its not perfect but that is just the way things stand right now.
 
str8guy28 said:
I am doing this about every other weekend now. I just have found that if I shut down emotionally during it that it doesnt effect my ego and self esteem as much afterwards. Its not perfect but that is just the way things stand right now.
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You bottom for 7 to 11 guys a day? I know you want it
 
I am just trying to cope with it the best I can. The guys have pitched in to rent a hotel room tomorrow for it.
 
str8guy28 said:
I am just trying to cope with it the best I can. The guys have pitched in to rent a hotel room tomorrow for it.
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Do you just lay there while the guys take their turn on you? and you just try not to think about it?

Either you really low key like it or you're trying to make them happy leading to an emotional mess eventually it's going to get you at the end.
 
USEDCAR said:
Do you just lay there while the guys take their turn on you? and you just try not to think about it?

Either you really low key like it or you're trying to make them happy leading to an emotional mess eventually it's going to get you at the end.
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They have me lay face down over whats called a sex wedge. It has ankle and wrists cuffs which they use. I just ended up laying there as they take turns
 
How many guys did you see the most for a day? Did you guy wear protections? Same guys?
 
I would buy the video these guys take turn to fuck your hot A$$ for sure. Haaaa
 
No offense, but I'm having a Hard time believing this is a real story. I'm a straight married guy that absolutely loves anal. I have been desperately trying find a safe situation so I can have it regularly. I could see doing a lonely friend a favor and letting him pound you once and not like it, but letting 9 guys take you in one night on multiple occasions means you like it. being on the receiving end of a gang bang monthly and not be into it almost sounds self destructive. I would take your place if you don't enjoy it.
 
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