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Saying No to Dating a Bi Guy ?

Mikami said:
Lucky already explained stereotypes so I will just answer your further.

I'm not saying your experiences are wrong, or suggesting that they are the minority. I can't say that because I don't know you and haven't experienced what you experienced. We're saying it's poor judgement to label bi-sexuals that as a whole.

No one is dismissing your experiences. People are just saying your experiences are your experiences but just because you had a bad(or many) experience(s) that doesn't mean a whole group of people are the same way.
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Agreed. But were also comparing experiences and the statistics are adding up.
 
altlover85 said:
I'm not dismissing your experiences or saying that they are a minority, I believe quite the opposite actually. However, I still think there are decent bi guys out there.
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True.

I believe gambling is bad but i dont stop anyone from playing the lottery either.
 
Anyways, i think we've covered all the bases at least twice, maybe we should consider thread closure?
 
It doesn't take a degree to figure out that claiming to "love" one gender while wanting to fuck the other is a clear case of denial. Go read the Coming Out forums, there are plenty of such closet cases.
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Once again, you are highlighting a few cases to give your prejudice a foundation. I'm not emotionally attracted to men, yet I'm not in denial (though I hardly think you'll believe me). Bisexuality means you are sexually attracted to men and women. It has nothing to do with emotions. If asexuals can be emotionally attracted to people but not sexually attracted to them, then why can't bisexuals be the opposite (DISCLAIMER: I AM NOT SAYING THAT ALL, A MAJORITY OR EVEN A SIZABLE MINORITY OF BISEXUALS ARE NOT EMOTIONALLY ATTRACTED TO MEN).
 
^Technically, they fuck me ;P. But to answer your question, 4 years (since I was 15) to everyone literally since the first day I figured it out. It's just the way I am I see no reason to hide it. To clarify something, I won't put the possibility of one day being emotionally attracted to men behind me; I mean the sexual part just happened one day so I don't see a reason why the same couldn't happen emotionally. Being in a relationship with another man isn't something I see as a stigma and should deny, it's just not how my brain works.
 
^Of course I agree but I don't lead guys on when we hook up. I make it quite clear a relationship isn't what I'm after (currently it's the same thing with girls).
 
altlover85 said:
Are we on this again? I've been with some people where there was no romance before. These situations were called hookups.
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Oh christ ive hooked up more times this summer than i care to count lol. But i remain open to the possibility of a relationship should the right one come along. Though i wouldn't fuck a guy who thinks men are good enough to fuck but not good enough to date (if it's just me yeah, i dont care, but if it's all men, serious question marks). Thats not a good premise for me.
 
Though i wouldn't fuck a guy who thinks men are good enough to fuck but not good enough to date
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When did I say that? It has nothing to do with them not being "good enough", I'm just not attracted to men that way. Do you not date girls because they're not good enough for you? No, you don't date them because you're not attracted to them.
 
jasoncrew03 said:
When did I say that? It has nothing to do with them not being "good enough", I'm just not attracted to men that way. Do you not date girls because they're not good enough for you? No, you don't date them because you're not attracted to them.
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Well the fact that you can fuck men and not feel a thing for a single one doesn't quite compute for me.
 
huntneo said:
But in respect to dating someone who you may want a relationship with...emotional connection is an important factor.
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I've said before that if you don't have an emotional connection with one gender then you shouldn't date them. To me, it doesn't make you not bisexual.

Purplebic said:
Well the fact that you can fuck men and not feel a thing for a single one doesn't quite compute for me.
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Just because it doesn't compute with you doesn't mean it's not a valid way of being.
 
huntneo said:
But in respect to dating someone who you may want a relationship with...emotional connection is an important factor.
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To date someone you have to be able to love them and fuck them. Just loving them isn't enough, no one will put up with it. Just fucking them is called being fuckfriends, not a relationship.

jasoncrew03 said:
^Sorry you don't get it but that's how I am.
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And that's why i don't bother.
 
altlover85 said:
Just because it doesn't compute with you doesn't mean it's not a valid way of being.
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I know. Just dont go calling me bigoted because i wont put up with it in my relationships (or my lays). I like to know where i stand emotionally and sexually with a man.
 
yeah, well when a bi guy can treat another man with all the emotion of his latest fleshjack, then of course i wouldn't have anything to do with him.

mind you there are a lot of gay guys with that kind of limitation too. my point in this thread is its the guy, not the orientation.
 
Purplebic said:
I know. Just dont go calling me bigoted because i wont put up with it in my relationships (or my lays). I like to know where i stand emotionally and sexually with a man.
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So you don't assume that all bi guys are like that? If so we are in agreement.
 
bankside said:
yeah, well when a bi guy can treat another man with all the emotion of his latest fleshjack, then of course i wouldn't have anything to do with him.

mind you there are a lot of gay guys with that kind of limitation too. my point in this thread is its the guy, not the orientation.
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Yeah but it's easier to put up with coming from gay men because at least you can relate on the fact that youll both end up in same sex relationships. With bi guys like jasoncrew03, you know that yourself and every other man will only be a plaything to him while he looks for the perfect woman.
 
altlover85 said:
So you don't assume that all bi guys are like that? If so we are in agreement.
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They can do whatever they want and be whatever they want, they dont need anyone's blessing for that. Im just sick of seeing them piss and moan about being shot down by gay men when there are obvious fundamental differences between our interpretations of love and sex.
 
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