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So I got called a "NIGGER" after rejecting a White guy.

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refujiunderground said:
why do PEOPLE feel the need to state their "preferences" as if people asked them or care? damn, there's NO harm in keeping your personal views to yourself especially if you know that you're going to offend somebody with those views. all that shit comes off like is someone trying to make themselves seem extra special as if the world wants them or whatever. not everybody wants to date you, breh so save all that love connection, i want this and that in a guy as if you KNOW what your options are or like you have any to begin with. cut it out. just WAIT til you find someone who's interested in you to start rejecting them OR to search for that guy you want to date instead of waiting for them to step up to you and boost your low self esteem having ass up.
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All of this. But it really turns me off to see "not into (long list)" because when on a dating site/app you should state what you want. That alone looks more attractive. You have the ability to filter out what you don't like, so just state what you'd like in a man. I definitely agree that people who add in ther list of nots make it seem as though everyone is just dying to talk to them.
 
And now that the open, self-avoved racist contingent has joined the thread, probability of reasonable conversation drops dramatically.
 
pat grimshaw said:
"Offensiveness" isn't objective. It's in the eye of the beholder. Last year Criostoir was catatonically offended at some unknown symbol marked on the chest of some porn star. And I bet his grandfather would be equally catatonically offended that there's another porn star with the Communist symbol marked on his chest.
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OK, this I agree with 100%. Thanks :D
 
-Kane- said:
Why do some white guys do this?

I was logged onto one of the known dating/hook up sites when I got a message from this guy who seemed nice at first, but quickly got angry when I rejected him.

He was 32 yrs old. Average looking.

He said "man you are Hot! How are you?". Even though I was not attracted to him, I always try to respond to people by atleast saying thank you once I recieve a compliment.

After saying thanks, I will no longer respond after the first message with the hope that the other person will catch the hint that I'm not interested and move on.

So after not responding to his subsequent messages, he writes "what's wrong? you're not into White guys?" I write back: Yes, I'm into White guys, I'm just not into "You"...

He responds: " cool, I'm not into stuck up arrogant niggers anyway"

Is this the defense some white men use when they are rejected by a person of color? That shit is so lame!
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And as of today 6/26/2013 this bothers you or has ANY affect on your life of today?
If it does there are other problems here that supercede name calling. I hope this is not the case.
 
cgymike said:
And as of today 6/26/2013 this bothers you or has ANY affect on your life of today?
If it does there are other problems here that supercede name calling. I hope this is not the case.
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^^ Another racist trying to tell someone how to react to bigotry...

Thanks for displaying your ignorance.
 
MMMonsterBoy said:
All of this. But it really turns me off to see "not into (long list)" because when on a dating site/app you should state what you want. That alone looks more attractive. You have the ability to filter out what you don't like, so just state what you'd like in a man. I definitely agree that people who add in ther list of nots make it seem as though everyone is just dying to talk to them.
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exactly, it's annoying to see how some dudes have to make themselves look desirable @ someone elses expense. they act as if they have a long list of followers or guys pursuing them where they feel they HAVE to make a list of who should be running up to them and who shouldn't. they think that everyone is checking them out from men to women and it would hurt them to know that most people aren't paying attention to them or have their eyes on someone else. it's ONLY them and their mind that has them thinking that everyone wants them.

i guess it's a way of coping with being gay for some people i guess. they're upset that they're being rejected from society so they basically are looking for someway to be accepted or fit in despite them NEVER going to fit in as long as society is affected by homophobia. i just wish some folks just realized that they have an issue going on where they're projecting their feelings of wanting to be loved and accepted by others and trying to make themselves to be models or everyone wanting to be with them is really them crying for help.
 
It has less to do with race and more to do with the guy being an asshole. I've experienced similar situations where I've rejected a guy, and they take some kind of physical trait or aspect that they can gleam from my pictures or profile information to throw back at me in a derogatory manner. Since you're black, it was the most obvious trait for this guy to bully. He's a sad, scared man filled with insecurities of being rejected. There's nothing else to say.
 
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