sometimes, i wish i wasn't gay and that i could be straight

[attallaborn]

I'm sorry you feel this way

But its not something that you can just change, its who you are!

It might take some time, but I hope you can accept it someday

Wow, that was really encouraging!! Great post!!

 

[CowboyBob]

You don't want to be gay anymore? Here, Marcus will help.

http://www.bachmanncounseling.com/

His two offices are conveniently located in suburban Minneapolis/St Paul.

Just look how well it worked on him....

[ame]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ADMgWXBzPwQ[/ame]

He will pray away the gay.

........Or you can accept yourself for who you are and thank God you have arms, legs, eyes and aren't suffering in a North Korean internment camp.

 

[-Kane-]

Every time someone brave enough decides to vent about how "awful" and "fucked up" being a gay male is, the "establishment queens" flame the poor guy into oblivion.

I don't know which "establishment" is worse when it comes to oppressing gay liberty: the "establishment" in Congress or the "establishment" within the gay community. On one side you got closet cases in suites passing laws to suppress gays and on the other side, you have actual gay people bitching other gays in suppression.

Just because you suck it up, have stuck it out, don't wine about it and enjoy the "peasant" reality of gay life doesn't mean the rest of us will settle.l

These "establishment" queens you're referring to are known as the Gay Mafia. They're a bunch a sullen, jaded, dejected homosexuals who wants to control how everyone thinks on a message board. They're often intolerant of others and they don't do well in social circles outside of cyberspace or with straight people.

 

[MMMonsterBoy]

I haven't read the replies yet, but to the OP:

Why do you assume straight relationships do not face hardships? Do you honestly believe there is a majority of straight men not interested in getting into some lady's pants? Do straight people not get divorced? There are a lot of issues on either side.

The problem isn't your sexuality, it is You. Stop thinking you deserve to be happy and with someone just because you are alive. Work for your happiness, and whining does equate to working.

 

[MrRochesterNY]

after awhile, this gets irritating and boring because there's really nothing to gain from this shit at all besides fucking and sucking chicks. being in love with a girl might feel good but after awhile, zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz. only thing that is annoying about being gay is that you have to get a man. with being straight, you get a whole stockpile of problems and face a shitload of hardships. with that said, i don't even feel like going in or being bothered with this shit.

another thing that turns me off about this whole thing right here is the other straight guys that i have to encounter and deal with. not going to lie but some of you actually annoy me or piss me off to the point where i feel like hitting one of ya. i also find it annoying that i can't talk to another straight girl that just be fucking friendly with me. they're either trying to get into my damn pants or try to hit me up with this whole diva attitude where i feel like strangling them. sorry, i just had to rant real quick.

I read this a couple of times, but I couldn't understand your train of thought. Too many undefined uses of "this" for one thing. Can you tell us, without any "shits" or "this-es," what you are trying to say is the problem with being gay or with what has be?

 

[MrRochesterNY]

How do I delete this duplicate message?

 

[refujiunderground]

I haven't read the replies yet, but to the OP:

Why do you assume straight relationships do not face hardships? Do you honestly believe there is a majority of straight men not interested in getting into some lady's pants? Do straight people not get divorced? There are a lot of issues on either side.

The problem isn't your sexuality, it is You. Stop thinking you deserve to be happy and with someone just because you are alive. Work for your happiness, and whining does equate to working.

i know i'm the problem but when you say i don't deserve to be happy, let me ask you. do you deserve to be happy? if you answered yes, then you don't know what you're talking about.