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On Topic Discussion Taralen's 2018 Random Musings About Life...

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Re: Why are straight people not interested in your personal life being gay?

Taralen said:
I'm not comfortable in this "dungeon." It's more like I'm in a living prison and an endless dream. Where nothing is right. I can't befriend gay or straight men, or whatever. Whatever I do is fail.

You don't know what it's like to want to go somewhere and do something and fucking can't.
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You're the only one stopping yourself from self-improvement.
 
Re: Why is it hard for gay men to network?

Taralen said:
The fact you mentioned you have to assimilate with mack thug types only proves my point.

If it wasn't an issue, why did you mention it?

So thanks for proving my point.
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....and you can't read for content, either, but we knew this. At no point was assimilation-the-verb in use in that manner.
 
Re: Why are straight people not interested in your personal life being gay?

luckynumbah7 said:
You're the only one stopping yourself from self-improvement.
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I feel I hate being black and gay and not being able to do and get what I want.

No I'm not. I ask guys (some of them gay or same gender loving) guys out I'm attracted to. They say no.

I try to befriend straight guys, I get jealous and want their dick and can't have it, because he's straight.

Apply to jobs I'm interested in. I'm told, thanks, but no thanks.

I'm in a gay forum and seek help, I'm told I'm crazy and I'm beyond repair.

Fuck it. You wonder why I'm depressed.

I just miss my mother and my twin brother a lot, and I feel a very depressive energy right now. Being alone. I just really want a boyfriend.

I feel people try to attack me with these topics.
 
Re: Why are straight people not interested in your personal life being gay?

Taralen said:
I'm not comfortable in this "dungeon." It's more like I'm in a living prison and an endless dream. Where nothing is right. I can't befriend gay or straight men, or whatever. Whatever I do is fail.

You don't know what it's like to want to go somewhere and do something and fucking can't.
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You mentioned in another thread that you would totally be there for any gay guy in need. That you would do what you could to help them out, and live a better life.

If that's actually true...then I know of one gay guy who needs help. Who feels locked into an unhappy and unfulfilling existence. Maybe you could start out by helping him.

Lex
 
Re: Why is it hard for gay men to network?

luckynumbah7 said:
....and you can't read for content, either, but we knew this. At no point was assimilation-the-verb in use in that manner.
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No he said he had no issues at his workplace, despite saying he was around hoodlum thug types and stuff like that, by archetype are usually homophobic.

So why did he only prove my point by bringing that up, as I have had to deal with homophobia in workplaces, from other guys.
 
Re: Why are straight people not interested in your personal life being gay?

G-Lexington said:
You mentioned in another thread that you would totally be there for any gay guy in need. That you would do what you could to help them out, and live a better life.

If that's actually true...then I know of one gay guy who needs help. Who feels locked into an unhappy and unfulfilling existence. Maybe you could start out by helping him.

Lex
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Who is that?
 
Re: Why are straight people not interested in your personal life being gay?

This puzzle is left as an exercise to the reader.

Lex
 
Re: Why is it hard for gay men to network?

Taralen said:
No he said he had no issues at his workplace, despite saying he was around hoodlum thug types and stuff like that, by archetype are usually homophobic.

So why did he only prove my point by bringing that up, as I have had to deal with homophobia in workplaces, from other guys.
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What he said, condensed, was "maybe try not judging other men by the groups they're placed in before they react to you, and here's yet another example where people like yourself got their candy and seats sans grievous bodily harm."

Or any imagined harm, feel I gotta add that considering that others' conception of neutrality is what you believe is really a show of hostility in action. Unhealthy, that.
 
Re: Why is it hard for gay men to network?

Taralen said:
No he said he had no issues at his workplace, despite saying he was around hoodlum thug types and stuff like that, by archetype are usually homophobic.

So why did he only prove my point by bringing that up, as I have had to deal with homophobia in workplaces, from other guys.
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OR...... Candice, I disproved your point that black men (and the world at large) are a bunch of homophobic ogres who will never tolerate a homosexual in the same space as them
 
Re: Why are straight people not interested in your personal life being gay?

Taralen said:
I still don't understand. Are you talking about myself?
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Lex
 
Re: Why is it hard for gay men to network?

fabulouslyghetto said:
OR...... Candice, I disproved your point that black men (and the world at large) are a bunch of homophobic ogres who will never tolerate a homosexual in the same space as them
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I'm also saying I've had different experiences. The fact you mentioned it shows you are aware of the problem.

I'm happy things went well for you though.
 
Re: Why is it hard for gay men to network?

If they let you back in, I'll reach out next time I'm headed to southern California.

Lex
 
Re: Should queer people be open at their workplace?

Taralen said:
It works just fine for me.

I'm not gonna be somewhere I'm not liked, and somewhere I'm uncomfortable.
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You are the strongest weakest person I've ever encountered. Quite the paradox.
 
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