The Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2014

[travis82]

OMG...I am so happy for you. that's awesome news!

And very inspiring to others who are in similar spots.





I assure you...it was.






Just roll your eyes and continue scrolling. That, or just hide their posts.

Some people have kids and that literally becomes the be all end all of their lives.

I have a good number of high school acquaintances and relatives who are all about the "I'm a mommy/parent and PROUD" posts...look at the 113th photo of little Jayden, etc. etc. I just smile and keep it moving. Have fun with that.

I was just behind a couple at the supermarket with a pack of screaming rugrats...acting all extra and out of control. I don't understand how they do it, or enjoy it for that matter...but to each their own. What really pisses me off are the people who act like you're supposed to immediately find their kid and their actions "adorable" simply because they are a child. Nope. Not here...I don't care about your kid, nor do I want them around me.

I used to work as a teacher. And those little kids, they would run around, being naughty, rude and not listening to you.

Wow, I just don't have the patience or energy to deal with them. It really wears you out.


For me, I really can't stand it when parents bring their kids to the cinema. I'm a movie buff and it's so annoying when you just want to enjoy a movie but those kids are making a lot of noises.



There are so many children living in orphanages around the world, waiting for adoption, children born into poverty, suffering in third world countries.

Do you think it's fair to them? Some people just have kids without thinking about the consequences. They can't afford to raise a child and later choose to abandon the child. In the end, the child just suffers or even die from lack of food and water.

 

[Kulindahr]

A section of trail I had two inches of wood chips covering is back to being pretty much just sand, after five dozen fly-boys with full kits hoofed across it several times today.

I really need to get road access for this project.....

 

[cgymike]

Bad parking situation earlier and narrowly avoided a huge dent....

 

[G-Lexington]

There's a guy I know who has been quite supportive of me over the past few years. He comes to my events, and says nice things about me, and all that. But over the past several months, he's made several posts on Facebook about fat people. Some are just modest jokes - "do fat people walk slow because they're fat, or are they fat because they walk slow?" But others are more direct. He ended one tirade by saying he toldsome woman "go bury your face in a box of donuts to make up for the love you'll never get".

I finally called him out on it - "Mike, you know I'M fat. Is there something you're not telling me?" He responded "oh, Lex - you're not FAT fat. This doesn't mean you. You're cool." This is the closest I've gotten to "you're cool, Lex - you're not like those other faggots" in decades. And I'm not sure how to respond to it.

Lex

 

[borg69unimatrix]

There's a guy I know who has been quite supportive of me over the past few years. He comes to my events, and says nice things about me, and all that. But over the past several months, he's made several posts on Facebook about fat people. Some are just modest jokes - "do fat people walk slow because they're fat, or are they fat because they walk slow?" But others are more direct. He ended one tirade by saying he toldsome woman "go bury your face in a box of donuts to make up for the love you'll never get".

I finally called him out on it - "Mike, you know I'M fat. Is there something you're not telling me?" He responded "oh, Lex - you're not FAT fat. This doesn't mean you. You're cool." This is the closest I've gotten to "you're cool, Lex - you're not like those other faggots" in decades. And I'm not sure how to respond to it.

Lex

Send him a gift card to Voo Doo Doughnuts. Maybe he can find love too.

 

[jdcnow]

^ Agreed, reone.

@Lex - I wouldn't want people who tear down others in my life. Even if they're always nice and cool to me.

 

[Gentleheart]

btw, everyone...

I shouldn't have used the term "breeder" in my posts yesterday, as it's just as ignorant and offensive (even if it does not carry the same history) as when homophobes call us faggots. I apologize to anyone I may have offended. It was ugly, and I'm truly sorry. I have some issues from my past/bullying/etc. that I'm obviously not completely over.

 

[otters]

btw, everyone...

I wasn't mad at you. But thanks for clarifying

 

[JPGhost]

My sister finally pregnant! yay!
But what I dont like is how ..her husband; my brother in law explained their story.

He told me they try to make baby during their honey moon period in Bali but glad she wasn't pregnant because they still wanna enjoy alcohol and seafood so they try to breed after that, the night after and 2 months before numerously...

id really get his story because it's just disgusting to visualize my sister having sex and he's just soo tactful to explaining all to me
Am I being over sensitive? but I dont think I HAVE TO LISTEN how many times he bang my sisters to make a baby? Am I?

 

[DonQuixote]

JP,
He's either a proud papa, or is so new to the intimate experience that he feels the need to beat his chest and proclaim to whomever will listen that he's a MAN - with fully functioning parts. (Or, he's suffering from feelings of inadequacy and overcompensating.)

Try not to let him get to you. If he keeps it up too long, you could always start discussing your love life in detail - even if you have to make it up! J/K.

It's likely a bundle of nerves he has to work through. Be the bigger man.

 

[JPGhost]

^
I guess so. Even my mom and sister had reprimand me before that my b.i.law is rude and has zero social skill, he often embarrassing my sister so I guess he's just being tactless but this guy is a family man at heart and he's very welcome to me/ want to be friend.
I said to him in mean time when he explaining his story; "hmm, excuse me I dont really understand what you saying...that's totally straight thing I dont want to know" to make him paused.

 

[borg69unimatrix]

My sister finally pregnant! yay!
But what I dont like is how ..her husband; my brother in law explained their story.

He told me they try to make baby during their honey moon period in Bali but glad she wasn't pregnant because they still wanna enjoy alcohol and seafood so they try to breed after that, the night after and 2 months before numerously...

id really get his story because it's just disgusting to visualize my sister having sex and he's just soo tactful to explaining all to me
Am I being over sensitive? but I dont think I HAVE TO LISTEN how many times he bang my sisters to make a baby? Am I?

I understand alcohol... what's sea food got to do with pregnancy? Mercury?

 

[Essex Boy]

Once upon a time in some parts of the world it was the custom for the bride's mother to run through the streets on the morning after the wedding holding up the bloodstained nightie from the night before to show the whole town that the groom had done the deed. You're lucky!

"Uncle Joe" sounds good.

 

[JPGhost]

I understand alcohol... what's sea food got to do with pregnancy? Mercury?

I dont know what's on their mind, probably straight thing..

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Once upon a time in some parts of the world it was the custom for the bride's mother to run through the streets on the morning after the wedding holding up the bloodstained nightie from the night before to show the whole town that the groom had done the deed. You're lucky!

"Uncle Joe" sounds good.

Thank you to remind me of my sister vagina, I really need to see gay porn asap

 

[xbuzzerx]

I understand alcohol... what's sea food got to do with pregnancy? Mercury?

Yes, mercury.

Depending on where you live, expectant mothers shouldn't eat fish more than once a week, if that. It depends on the type and where it is caught.

 

[jdcnow]

Try not to let him get to you. If he keeps it up too long, you could always start discussing your love life in detail - even if you have to make it up! J/K.

This. Start talking about your boyfriend's 9x6er, and the first time you saw it to him. Return the favor - if your brother in law can dish it out, he better be able to take it.

 

[borg69unimatrix]

Yes, mercury.

Depending on where you live, expectant mothers shouldn't eat fish more than once a week, if that. It depends on the type and where it is caught.

I remember seeing a chart on line once telling how often you should eat a can of tuna depending on your weight because of the mercury content. I think I was like once every 4-6 weeks?

Being an over protective parent I significantly reduced the fish Flavored cat foods I bought for my cat. He wasn't happy about it either.

 

[DonQuixote]

We don't eat much tuna anymore.
Salmon, Steelhead and/or Rainbow trout.

Yes, I know Steelhead and Rainbow are the same fish - sort of.

They are both healthier species.

 

[Taz]

Speaking of sisters and brothers in law, my sister is tying the knot next month.

She seems really happy which is what is most important i suppose, and her fiance is a genuinely nice guy. You can feel it coming cant you?

BUT This guy is an absolute drop kick. He lives out in the styx, where generations of his family reside. He struggles with English (exaggerating, but I know he would fail a basic literacy test). There is no way she will ever get him out of that place. That sucks because there is nothing there for her or her kids, no opportunity, nothing. He doesn't have a job, he never has, and clearly has no intention in getting one. I'm afraid for the kids because if they grow up out there they will just turn into him, and they deserve better.

 

[DonQuixote]

This is the first I've heard you speak of your sister. Sorry to hear that the bro-in-law to be's aspirations are not very high.

It's too bad that she doesn't see it.

We can hope things turn out OK for them. In the final analysis, it is their life, though.

Having a fairly large extended family and in-law situation, I've seen a wide range of personal accountability.
There are family members I'd love to be able to help, and have extended what I could when severe needs arose - I think you may remember my talking about a nephew who jumped out the second story window of a house that was on fired - I spent several nights at the hospital so his mom could try and get them situated in a new place - she never graduated from high school, and their lives haven't been the easiest. The guy she's with doesn't make a lot, but he tries to be a fairly stabilizing force - but he's not the kids' dad(s). It's not a great situation, and the oldest has two kids, the middle just had a baby. The youngest is still in high school - I'm told the HS he's in now has a program for kids in need and he's doing a lot better in school now. I hope so. I hope he sees that there is a way out.

On my side - on the much more conservative (can you say Red Neck) side - a cousin in-law posted on Facebook that The Sandy Hook Massacre and the Boston Marathon Bombing didn't really happen - they are made up by the government with the express purpose of "taking away our Second Amendment (Right to Keep and Bear Arms) rights". Oh, they home school their children.

Remember Jimmy Jones and his "Kool-Aid"? Yeah - scary. This is the same person/family who won't have anything to do with our gay cousin who just got married on the one day he could in Indiana, but who cheated on his own wife several years ago w/ a co-worker, then had to go through counseling with church elders and get his wife's forgiveness.

Yeah, a real gem.

I do understand your concerns.