The Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2016

[sixthson]

i fucking hate when i'm trying to focus on doing something and then somebody wants to talk to me at the same time while trying to focus on what i'm doing. now if i catch an attitude, then i'm fucked up or have no right to be annoyed. yet if i were doing the same shit to them, they'd get fucking mad or cop an attitude.

I think it depends on who is interrupting you. Some people are worth the interruption, even if they tend to do it often.
Others are nothing but time wasters wanting to talk about themselves.

Personally, I have been annoyed when an interruption threatened to keep me from doing what I planned but came away from it glad that I gave them the time. Have any of us never interrupted someone else?

 

[MakeDigitalLove]

I honestly can't believe the week I had and how hard it was for me to get medicine to live normally on a day to day basis. I need a new doctors office to go and a new doctor.

Apparently having to go to the Emergency Room on Sunday night wasn't urgent enough for my Doctors office or Doctor to show I needed this medicine.

 

[sixthson]

All humans have prejudices. Everyone. That means you, me and all God's children. The point is to confront them and not let them turn to fear and hate. When that happens, it spreads from fear of a person to an entire race or group. We see those prejudices expressed at JUB every day and not just toward races. We see it toward women, children, the religious and those whose politics are different from ours. We even see it toward other gays and bisexuals. It is expressed in downright contempt.

Refuji, as for NotHardUp knowing you are angry, surely you have to admit you have posted angry things here? We are judged by what we post here. Everyone of us. I see much of what you post as your frustration, others see it as anger. Maybe we are all wrong?

 

[MakeDigitalLove]

Sorry Refuj but you are clearly angry by the amount of cursing you do and animosity that carries in your posts. Your posts really just come off as if either we agree with you and it is cool, or if we don't we are against you and this and that.

You tell people to stop assuming and own up to their shit but I have never seen you do the same. If you don't like the way people perceive you, self reflection could help a lot. Otherwise if you keep posting the way you do don't get upset that people reply to you the way you do.

 

[refujiunderground]

Sorry Refuj but you are clearly angry by the amount of cursing you do and animosity that carries in your posts. Your posts really just come off as if either we agree with you and it is cool, or if we don't we are against you and this and that.

You tell people to stop assuming and own up to their shit but I have never seen you do the same. If you don't like the way people perceive you, self reflection could help a lot. Otherwise if you keep posting the way you do don't get upset that people reply to you the way you do.

Unless you see me in person or I say that I'm pissed off, it's only YOU making an assumption. Just because someone curses or doesn't approve of something doesn't mean that they are angry. That's your assumption. Some of you guys live on the internet and it shows. I guess life isn't all what it cracks up to be offline. Maybe that's why it's the thing to live on the web where people are all over instagram, taking pictures trying to convince everyone or prove something. I notice that this type of mentality of living on the web is too fond on gay internet spots which is usually a popularity or approval contest where you may be in an advantage or disadvantage over things that shouldnt matter such as skin color and ethnicity. I have nothing to prove nor am I begging for your acceptance as i dont need it. I don't even know you, breh.

 

[Charon]

The pretty boy who ran the food stand a few blocks away gave up. Just when I was getting used to seeing his cute face. I don't think he had that many costumers, how can nobody buy from someone who's as cute as he is? I guess having a pretty face won't get you everything you want anymore, unless you're a woman of course.

 

[Cormac135]

Sorry Refuj but you are clearly angry by the amount of cursing you do and animosity that carries in your posts. Your posts really just come off as if either we agree with you and it is cool, or if we don't we are against you and this and that.

You tell people to stop assuming and own up to their shit but I have never seen you do the same. If you don't like the way people perceive you, self reflection could help a lot. Otherwise if you keep posting the way you do don't get upset that people reply to you the way you do.

Agreed

You get what you give, if you send out good vibes to the world you'll get them back.

 

[Alistair]

Sorry Refuj but you are clearly angry by the amount of cursing you do and animosity that carries in your posts. Your posts really just come off as if either we agree with you and it is cool, or if we don't we are against you and this and that.

You tell people to stop assuming and own up to their shit but I have never seen you do the same. If you don't like the way people perceive you, self reflection could help a lot. Otherwise if you keep posting the way you do don't get upset that people reply to you the way you do.

If we disagree we are automatically labeled racist

 

[MakeDigitalLove]

Unless you see me in person or I say that I'm pissed off, it's only YOU making an assumption. Just because someone curses or doesn't approve of something doesn't mean that they are angry. That's your assumption. Some of you guys live on the internet and it shows. I guess life isn't all what it cracks up to be offline. Maybe that's why it's the thing to live on the web where people are all over instagram, taking pictures trying to convince everyone or prove something. I notice that this type of mentality of living on the web is too fond on gay internet spots which is usually a popularity or approval contest where you may be in an advantage or disadvantage over things that shouldnt matter such as skin color and ethnicity. I have nothing to prove nor am I begging for your acceptance as i dont need it. I don't even know you, breh.

How can you honestly say "unless you see me in person" when you make all sorts of judgments about people on here that you clearly haven't met? You literally are doing this in the very same post now.

I am not saying I know you or you have anything to prove or in need of my acceptance. That is coming from you not someone else. I am just tired of seeing you ranting and then when people don't agree with you, you blow up in their face like they are the one with the problem. Which generally can happen, but with you that is not the case, the other person is always the problem and your are always correct.

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[refujiunderground]

How can you honestly say "unless you see me in person" when you make all sorts of judgments about people on here that you clearly haven't met? You literally are doing this in the very same post now.

I am not saying I know you or you have anything to prove or in need of my acceptance. That is coming from you not someone else. I am just tired of seeing you ranting and then when people don't agree with you, you blow up in their face like they are the one with the problem. Which generally can happen, but with you that is not the case, the other person is always the problem and your are always correct.

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So basically this goes back to the other thread about slut shaming still that you're mad because you felt that you were being judged.

That's not my problem if you feel a certain way about what I said. At least I didn't try to force my opinion on you like how you're trying to do to me in your twisted attempted to still have the last word over something that happen 2 weeks ago. Talk about holding grudges. [Text: Removed]

 

[rareboy]

Unless you see me in person or I say that I'm pissed off, it's only YOU making an assumption. Just because someone curses or doesn't approve of something doesn't mean that they are angry. That's your assumption. Some of you guys live on the internet and it shows. I guess life isn't all what it cracks up to be offline. Maybe that's why it's the thing to live on the web where people are all over instagram, taking pictures trying to convince everyone or prove something. I notice that this type of mentality of living on the web is too fond on gay internet spots which is usually a popularity or approval contest where you may be in an advantage or disadvantage over things that shouldnt matter such as skin color and ethnicity. I have nothing to prove nor am I begging for your acceptance as i dont need it. I don't even know you, breh.

Let me take an educated guess....you write these rants after you've been smoking up, don't you?

They seem to obsessively return time and time again to a single theme and some of the phrasing is now even repetitive...like the post above. Look back a few weeks and you can find the same central theme and the same stuff about people spending their lives online and the beef with people taking instagram pics and popularity etc.

I said last week that you'd be back writing the same post all over again as though you had no memory of doing it before and I was pretty much right.

You are one of the few posters who has written something with such rage and threat in it on this forum that the post was fortunately removed...and I think that many of us have seen your anger boil over again and again in your posts over the years.

I honestly think you need to look back over the body of your posts and ask yourself why all of these issues remain so unresolved for you and why they seem to affect you so deeply that they are the narrative of your whole life here on this board?

 

[refujiunderground]

Let me take an educated guess....you write these rants after you've been smoking up, don't you?

They seem to obsessively return time and time again to a single theme and some of the phrasing is now even repetitive...like the post above. Look back a few weeks and you can find the same central theme and the same stuff about people spending their lives online and the beef with people taking instagram pics and popularity etc.

I said last week that you'd be back writing the same post all over again as though you had no memory of doing it before and I was pretty much right.

You are one of the few posters who has written something with such rage and threat in it on this forum that the post was fortunately removed...and I think that many of us have seen your anger boil over again and again in your posts over the years.

I honestly think you need to look back over the body of your posts and ask yourself why all of these issues remain so unresolved for you and why they seem to affect you so deeply that they are the narrative of your whole life here on this board?

You trying too hard, breh especially for someone who has seen me in action for the past 5 years. I think it's also ironic that you too do the same shit I do but yet you try to sugarcoat your shit for what it is but then when I do my little thing, you are the first one to talk shit and whatever else. Stop it, hypocrite.

 

[MakeDigitalLove]

So basically this goes back to the other thread about slut shaming still that you're mad because you felt that you were being judged.

That's not my problem if you feel a certain way about what I said. At least I didn't try to force my opinion on you like how you're trying to do to me in your twisted attempted to still have the last word over something that happen 2 weeks ago. Talk about holding grudges. [Text: Removed]

No I actually stated what my problem was and has nothing to do with that thread, you are the one that keeps bringing it up, not me.

It is funny how much of what you say seems to be much of a reflection of you. It is funny again how apparently I can't say you are angry because I don't know you personally but you can say that I am upset about an old thread and needing to have the last word over something. I'm not childish.

I will state my problem with you again, you need to rant and rave about a subject but get pissy when people disagree with you and acting like they are always the problem. Even with people who are just trying to understand or reach out. You have a problem and it is clear to quite a few people on here, one of those problems is that you don't like accepting the fact that you have to do something about it.

Oh, my bad I shouldn't be talking about someone I don't know again.

 

[refujiunderground]

No I actually stated what my problem was and has nothing to do with that thread, you are the one that keeps bringing it up, not me.

It is funny how much of what you say seems to be much of a reflection of you. It is funny again how apparently I can't say you are angry because I don't know you personally but you can say that I am upset about an old thread and needing to have the last word over something. I'm not childish.

I will state my problem with you again, you need to rant and rave about a subject but get pissy when people disagree with you and acting like they are always the problem. Even with people who are just trying to understand or reach out. You have a problem and it is clear to quite a few people on here, one of those problems is that you don't like accepting the fact that you have to do something about it.

Oh, my bad I shouldn't be talking about someone I don't know again.

I've been here for 5 years and half of the forum has had an issue with what I've said here and there. Why is it that all of a sudden you have a problem with me simply because of a thread that you felt applied to you? All of a sudden, you got a problem with my whole entire post history and yet I came on your radar 2 weeks ago?

 

[MakeDigitalLove]

I actually have said stuff to you in the past beyond the 2 weeks you keep talking about. Just not as frequently as now because it seems to becoming more frequently in different threads rather it just being in the venting thread. And again because when people are generally try to understand or simply disagree with you on something you throw it in their face.

You keep assuming I have a problem with you because of that specific thread. I have a problem with anyone who has thrown around judgments around like that on that topic or any other. You're not the only person I ever came at for something like that. Followed by the fact that you consider yourself right and act like people are out to get you then claiming to be the victim of other users. It has been happening time and time again, I am clearly not the only one seeing it.

 

[refujiunderground]

I actually have said stuff to you in the past beyond the 2 weeks you keep talking about. Just not as frequently as now because it seems to becoming more frequently in different threads rather it just being in the venting thread. And again because when people are generally try to understand or simply disagree with you on something you throw it in their face.

You keep assuming I have a problem with you because of that specific thread. I have a problem with anyone who has thrown around judgments around like that on that topic or any other. You're not the only person I ever came at for something like that. Followed by the fact that you consider yourself right and act like people are out to get you then claiming to be the victim of other users. It has been happening time and time again, I am clearly not the only one seeing it.

The issue I have is folks basically holding certain people to certain standards where they can't say or do shit without folks having a fit while other folks like benderboy and etc can get away with whatever. It ain't about victimization. It's about being fair.

It ain't even about disagreeing and shit. Like for instance, I'm in a venting thread. Why is it that I can't express my disapproval for something without folks ready to go into things that are none of their business? Like I'm not like feeling some of these attention whores on social media and instagram. Can I feel that way and say so without folks like you ready to assume that Im jealous or have a serious issue in my life where it's as if I have to like them or cant say anything? It annoys me how rareboy pops up basically telling me to shut up when I say something simple like I can't say something. If it were another poster, folks wouldn't say shit. That's what my issue is. It's well known that I'm opinionated and have issues but damn... I don't need to feel like I can't say whatever I want to say without folks on some shit trying to make me feel like I'm under a microscope when there's posters in here saying far worse than what Im saying and nobody is saying shit to them.

 

[Alistair]

The issue I have is folks basically holding certain people to certain standards where they can't say or do shit without folks having a fit while other folks like benderboy and etc can get away with whatever. It ain't about victimization. It's about being fair.

You keep throwing peoples names into the ring and blame them but you never give quoted examples of what you claim they're doing. What folks are holding who to what standards? Who's standards? You keep repeating that complaint over and over but never go further than Him Them You This and That.

Now, it's your turn. Let me say it for you "Yo Alister Breh, thats such a racist thing to say, you don't know me. you and your friends do everything wrong and nobody says anything to you but they jump on my ass and question me. It's not fair waa waa waa" (slams door and stomps off)

Life's not fair. Get over yourself.

 

[Cormac135]

I don't know why i'm getting dragged into this thing, i've hardly said a word apart from agreeing with some other posters and trying to help you.

"insert nonsense gif"

 

[refujiunderground]

You keep throwing peoples names into the ring and blame them but you never give quoted examples of what you claim they're doing. What folks are holding who to what standards? Who's standards? You keep repeating that complaint over and over but never go further than Him Them You This and That.

Now, it's your turn. Let me say it for you "Yo Alister Breh, thats such a racist thing to say, you don't know me. you and your friends do everything wrong and nobody says anything to you but they jump on my ass and question me. It's not fair waa waa waa" (slams door and stomps off)

Life's not fair. Get over yourself.

I made my point about racism before and I guess you felt guilty talking about "you're not racist because you got a black friend and etc." You never once argued against the point I was making about systematic racism but you made it about yourself, why you aren't racist and m undermined what I was saying. So you need to get over yourself.

I wouldn't expect you to understand though.

 

[TheLoveableLoner]

I was dumped this week. Without even being in a relationship to begin with. Lol. First time for everything, I suppose.