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The Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2016

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Well.....tomorrow is going to be a very interesting day. I know last week's drama is going to resolve it for sure. You damn well know that I'm not gonna give that shit a pass especially the way it was handled. If they loved and respected themselves enough, they would approach me to my face and speak it out like an adult instead of being a coward being passive aggressive and not making any fucking sense. Like tell me wtf is going on and stop with this horse shit. Don't hit me up with some surprise shit and dip especially when your ass was all saying you had someone play your ass out the same way. I told you that shit was wack and that's what cowards do.


I'm still puzzled at that shit and do expect much better from that person where they should see that what they did was wrong. That's not what mature and real people do. Cowards run and hide. If you had that much courage in you, you can also have the courage to speak to me like a man. Like don't make me have to be the one to call you where you make up excuses or fucking have to approach you. That's some immature kiddie shit.
 
refujiunderground said:
Right now, I'm feeling very sad over some shit that I don't feel like talking about. Also very angry too. Really angry. I doubt that I could forgive whoever for that shit too because personally, the more I think about it. The more I really want to punch that motherfucker in the face.

There's some things that really would make me hate someone forever to the point where I will never deal with them under any circumstances.

Constantly disrespecting me

Lying to me in my face

Playing me out

Hurting me

If anybody does all four, then you know I'm going to get even with them regardless if it's now or until I die. I don't play that shit. Even if they try to apologize, there's nothing they can do that will make me change the hate that I have for them. It really takes a lot for me to really not like someone. Especially if I fucking showed you nothing but love and you think shits a joke. I will throw someone down the stairs or even try to kill them for that becuase that's just disrespect. I am not to be fucked with or to really piss off. I do hold grudges and believe me, I hope that person doesn't run into me because I'm doing my best to avoid them. I've already have taken the proper steps and they haven't said shit to me since.

A part of me wants to be forgiving and say cool. Another side really wants me to make that motherfucker feel all the anger and shit that they caused through fucking idiocy. Like don't get me caught up in some fucking bullshit, completely blame me, not take any responsibility for it and then think I'ma let you slide without me letting you feel some pain too. Fuck that coward ass bitch btw. They get no respect and no sympathy either.

They should apologize though even though I'm still not going to forgive or forget that shit as long as i live.
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You can spend your whole life being angry and wanting to punch someone. And you seem angry at everyone all the time. It isn't the way to live a full and happy life.
 
Today I learnt that my employer made a stupid decision without asking anyone's advice. Now I guess I'll be the one who has to fix it. I hate this situation.:mad:
 
I really need a few hours in Greenough. A couple hours there calms my mind and removes all my anger. There's no place like that here. I've looked for 30yrs. Nowhere here can compare. Every time I head that way (Missoula), I always stop and spend at least an hour.
 
My job is beyond stressful. The money is good but I'm beginning to realize it's not worth the stress.......but my bills are so high, I cannot accept a lower paying job. Happy for the weekends when I can relax.
 
Rubber Rat said:
My job is beyond stressful. The money is good but I'm beginning to realize it's not worth the stress.......but my bills are so high, I cannot accept a lower paying job. Happy for the weekends when I can relax.
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Preach!

I love that I help people, but my job is mentally draining. Hoping to transfer into something soon that offers that same opportunity to help others, while also giving me some rest upstairs.
 
It's so strange how you think some people that come into your life will be around forever...and they leave. And then there are people that seem like they will be inconsequential to you that somehow manage to hold on.
 
reone said:
It's so strange how you think some people that come into your life will be around forever...and they leave. And then there are people that seem like they will be inconsequential to you that somehow manage to hold on.
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so fucking true. (*8*)


and honestly, i've been depressed for years that regardless of whatever good or bad that has happened over time, i feel indifferent towards it all. it's like something bad will happen and i'll be feeling the same sadness that i'm way too used to dealing with for years. to make sure of i guess "being depressed" if that's what it is though i dunno, i tried to justify the reasons for feeling that way by the wrongs that have occurred in my life even though i don't think that shit would make much of a difference if those wrongs didn't happen or if everything went right. in a way, it's helped me become stronger because it pretty much makes me keep me going regardless though i will say that i don't really get easily happy or excited like that. in fact, i'll be negative as fuck without any hesitation and won't even realize that i'm being that way. they say that's "walking depression". the more things make sense as age moves on.

people will come and go sadly whether it's just because there's nothing else left to keep them around where they go their own way and you go yours or through death. life goes on. they say don't be sad that it's over. just be glad that it happened. for me, that's a bit hard to remember since i'm a person that doesn't like to lose people around me that i'm already close to or grow close to especially already being a lone wolf that is only close to a selective few. not much of a people person where i need a whole group of folks, prefer one on ones and likes to lay low in seclusion away from everybody or at least be by myself which allows me to feel a certain amount of freedom that i do not often get because i'm often around people where i can't simply be myself because folks are quick to point shit out. it's annoying.
 
reone said:
It's so strange how you think some people that come into your life will be around forever...and they leave. And then there are people that seem like they will be inconsequential to you that somehow manage to hold on.
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Wise thoughts....
“Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans.”― Allen Saunders
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Rubber Rat said:
My job is beyond stressful. The money is good but I'm beginning to realize it's not worth the stress.......but my bills are so high, I cannot accept a lower paying job. Happy for the weekends when I can relax.
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Can you lower your expenses somehow?

I find ways to save on fuel, telephone, eating, entertainment, etc, and the savings add up.
 
One of my co-worker's performance has been in serious decline lately. Tardy, sloppy, distracted. I've relied on him for years because of his excellent past habits. But now I'm glad he's accepted a job elsewhere.

Apparently he's doing coke daily. He showed up with his skin broken because a punch to his face pushed a tooth right through his lower lip.

Poor guy. I wish him well. I know what a good person he is, what a kind person he is, underneath the trouble. :(
 
about the video above.

there's a few things i disagree with him on. think that the more you get comfortable with yourself where you own your power, the less hurtful others are when they try to hurt you. you start to feel sorry for the homophobes or the other gay guys who feel the need to bring other gay guys down because it comes from a place of weakness. like i don't have to let other people's pain become mine. that is an opinion that i choose to use. the more that i come out, the more that i spend time with myself, the older that i get, the more confident that i become where i realize that it does get better. i may not be the same person back in 2011 after everything is said and done but i feel that i can carry myself on now on my own. i don't need approval from others to feel good about myself. let them love me or hate me. i love me and that's all that matters. i love you too but make sure you love yourself. this is a matter of you basically owning your own happiness as no one but YOU are responsible for your own happiness.
 
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