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Time to remove T&B from LGBT?

Time to remove T&B from LGBT?

  • We should have done it years ago

    Votes: 16 15.1%

  • Yes

    Votes: 9 8.5%

  • No

    Votes: 30 28.3%

  • This is bullshit

    Votes: 51 48.1%
  • Total voters
    106
I don't know really. I think it's good how all us minorities have a single group to be stuck into, but at the same time, I don't like the fact that I myself am lumped into a group I don't want to be part of.

I'm gay, I don't have a problem with gays, I love being gay, but I don't want to be in the same group as transsexuals, lesbians and bisexuals...I don't reeally have a reason for it other than selfishness or some other evil feeling it seems. It doesn't really make sense, but I just don't like it.
And with transsexuals, in a similar vain to the way heterosexuals think about gays, "It's ok as long as they're not all in my face about it"... I just can't get to grips with transseexuality. I know they're normal people like you and I, but if I met one I would just feel really awkward.

I'm not trying to bash anyone or start a war, it's just how I feel.
 
godson112 said:
I don't know really. I think it's good how all us minorities have a single group to be stuck into, but at the same time, I don't like the fact that I myself am lumped into a group I don't want to be part of.

I'm gay, I don't have a problem with gays, I love being gay, but I don't want to be in the same group as transsexuals, lesbians and bisexuals...I don't reeally have a reason for it other than selfishness or some other evil feeling it seems. It doesn't really make sense, but I just don't like it.
And with transsexuals, in a similar vain to the way heterosexuals think about gays, "It's ok as long as they're not all in my face about it"... I just can't get to grips with transseexuality. I know they're normal people like you and I, but if I met one I would just feel really awkward.

I'm not trying to bash anyone or start a war, it's just how I feel.
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Wow, that's totally fucked up. Replace lesbians/bisexuals/transexuals with "Black people", then read your post. Does "just how I feel" still sound like a valid reason?
 
saymyname said:
Wow, that's totally fucked up. Replace lesbians/bisexuals/transexuals with "Black people", then read your post. Does "just how I feel" still sound like a valid reason?
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No, I know it's weird.

But like I said, it's good that we have the big LGBT group, that is the righht thing, we shouldn't change it. But I don't understand transsexuals, I can't help feeling awkward around them. It's their choice what they do, I don't condemn them for it, if someone feels so strongly that they're born in the wrong body and want to change, hell yeah, go for it. Power to the people! But I would just feel awkward and nervous if I was face to face with one and thats one of my own shortcomings.
So no, the fact I just feel that way doesn't cut it, but I can't help feeling the way I feel, can I?

Apart from that I have no problem with lesbians and bisexuals (and by using the word 'problem', I don't mean to suggest transsexuals are a 'problem'), apart from the fact that they both like vagina, which, being gay, I can't understand :rolleyes:
And the reason I don't like the LGBT thing personally is because I just don't like the label, maybe I care too much of what people think and I know when a lot of people think of transsexuals or bisexuals they don't see them positively, and I don't like how when people see the acronym LGBT they think of gays too, and might stereotype me. I really don't know what it is or how to explain it, and like I said, I don't want to be controversial, make people hate me or seem like I'm bashing anyone.
 
^Everyone has some sort of tendency towards bias. You're just admitting yours. Thanks for sharing!
 
It must be the week of resurrecting dead threads.
 
JasunStrikesBack said:
To be honest, I don't know if I know a single bisexual person who considers themselves part of the community at all.
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So much for all of us that spend time on the site, go to protests, give speeches. etc.


On the other hand how you have talked about bi guys, I doubt you would know many, if at all.
 
Thynight said:
So much for all of us that spend time on the site, go to protests, give speeches. etc.


On the other hand how you have talked about bi guys, I doubt you would know many, if at all.
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There's a bit of self-selection there, isn't there?
 
My answer was this is Bullshit! If you are not straight then you are in the LGBT PERIOD!
 
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