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Undying love for my best friend...please read(long

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Dont have extra money CG..August cannot come quick enough...My heart is aching for him in everyway....hurting too much tonight. Bri
 
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Bri,

I know I said that August will be here before you know it but it's still awhile off and you're going to drive yourself crazy if you keep thinking this way. Talk to Andy every day. Make the conversation positive. If he says that you should come to Vegas now for a visit, tell him you can't the same way he can't go to NYC right now for a visit. You guys are making each other depressed, and some of us too. Like I said, call him every day. Keep the conversation upbeat. Talk about what you're going to do when you get to Vegas. Ask him to start looking for neat things to do and send you the info on it.

Keep your head up and don't get so depressed. Things will work out fine.

Joe.
 
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I think we should start a Paypal account for Brian and make contributions so that he can go see Andy. Then, once enough money is in there, he can transfer it to his bank account and use it that way :)

I sound crazy, but what the hell! :)

strangelittleboy
 
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LostVegas said:
Dont have extra money CG..August cannot come quick enough...My heart is aching for him in everyway....hurting too much tonight. Bri
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It would be so funny if you guys just kissed when you finally see each other. I mean, like w/out even thinking about you hug and kiss. lol you'd both be like whoa. lol. That just came to my head for some reason.
 
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I would contribute...I'm afraid we'd get up to like $20 or something tho'...you know if I had the money I'd just lay it down for the cause of true love for sure!

I have sympathy Bri, I'm sooooooo broke right now. Lestat's advice is spot on though, if you can't get there sooner, might as well put the anticipation to good use.

Start entering any contest where the prize is a trip to Vegas ;)
 
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We're already above twenty -- I kicked that much in and so did someone else, who's sending it to me. If we can establish some other center of operations, kool, but at the moment, Brian, I'm gathering bucks for a ticket for you. Anyone wants to contribute by sending it for me to hold for Brian, PM me.
Any more pledges?
 
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I say it should be a Paypal account. Brian is the only one that can set it up if he wants to. I think it's a good idea. I think a lot of people would try to help if he would let us...

strangelittleboy
 
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I'm broke right this second, but if this takes long enough that my next set of checks get here I'll put in $20...I will contribute to this if I can.
 
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First ... CG ... THANK YOU! for the update on lil_c_boy! Very much appreciated, as have been Your amazing contributions here!! :D ..|

Second ... CG ... if you might be so kind as to PM me lil_c's email address, since his homepage is disabled, I'd like to send him a note of encouragement. O:)

Third ... but maybe most important ... Brian ... if you have the Time, and sincerely wish, to fly to Vegas, PM me some possible dates! I don't have bunches of "free" cash right now, but what I DO have are enough "Miles", with Midwest Airlines, to get you there! Seriously!! You may end up flying the "Redeye", or making some "odd" connections, but it is Definitely a possibility!! (And, besides, they have Great Chocolate Chip Cookies!) :D ..|

Fourth ... I think the "Pay Pal" account is a Fantastic idea! I'm sure "We" would all like to help out, as best we can, with the "other" travel expences! Seriously, Bri, set it up and let us know!!

All that said ... I need to run off to bed, but should be able to be "back" tomorrow night. Guys ... let's make this happen! Yes?? (group) :hurray: (!w!)

Keep smilin'!! :kiss: (*8*)
Ky ;)
 
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Brian, pledges for getting you to Vegas are approaching $100 bucks.
If you want to set up a paypal thing, holler, and I'll re-route. Otherwise, I'm still collecting!
Three of us have gone twenty bucks -- anyone wanna match that? or beat it?
 
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Ky, you posted while I was writing!

Okay, Brian, it looks like Ky can set you up with miles. That means the contributions I'm collecting just became expense money.

Your move, bud!
 
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Count me in, too! I can still see the keyboard after the tears...of joy. This is such a magical and wonderful thread. I will be very happy to throw in $20 or so as well. What-the-heck, reading this thread has meant more to me than going to two or three movies. Well worth the price of admission I'll say! And, Brian, you are SUCH an eloquent writer!

I JUST found this thread, after seeing another thread talking about the "quick links" which I NEVER looked at before. I've always hung around in hot topics and sometimes fun and games, and never looked at the coming-out-and-relationships before. In the "quick links" it showed a recent posting to this "undying love" thread and there were like MORE THAN FIVE HUNDRED posts to it...WHAT???? I couldn't resist. I started reading it, and I was TRAPPED. In a good way, definitely. I haven't looked at #101 through #550 yet, that's to come. I think that I'll even make a posting in the HOT TOPICS that this is a great thread.

Thank you SO much for sharing your feelings with us Brian. Your life, your pain, your love, your wishes, your coming out to a better friend than even most of us in relationships will ever have, your tears, your happiness, and your longing. I often put emoticons into my posts nowadays, but doing so here would be redundant. I promise to read this entire thread more carefully and intently, though it will take a while. I am TWICE YOUR AGE, Brian, but I strongly feel that I will learn some very important life-lessons as I read onward. Not only from your narrations, but from the wonderful and sage advice you have gotten from so many along the way.

If I ever had a doubt before that I LOVE JUB, that has been completely erased now.

Please somebody give me a hug, as I start to cry again, and thank you Brian and everyone else for sharing so well.
 
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I've been reading over this thread for the past hour and a half, and here's what I think.

Andy is definitely bi, just not ready to admit it yet. It's amazing to me how some people can be in such self-denial. I was never in self-denial -- I always knew and accepted it. I just denied it to others. Anyway, yeah, he's definitely bi. I mean, without a doubt. Some of the things he's said makes me think he wants to have his cake and eat it too -- have a loving relationship/friendship with you without ever having to come right out and say "I'm bi."

Now, the money situation. He acts like you're a damn bank. I mean, "I'm gonna need 500 bucks for this, and a little more for this... by the way, I'm sorry." It's as if he just expects it without a second thought. He could get by -- we ALL do. It seems that the only reason he confessed to using you for money all that time ago was to make you go "awww," love him for the confession and gain even more of your trust so that he could continue to mooch. At least that's how I see it. He seems to mention money alot. It's a bit peculiar. You NEED to stop letting him use you, because whether it's being done in a deceptive way or not, that IS what he's doing, whether you both realize it or not. I wonder what he'd say if you stopped wiring him money? If he got pissed, maybe you'd see how deep your friendship REALLY goes, you'd see him for what he really was and you'd realize you're too good for him. However, if he fully understands... even more reason to love him. Either way, you're helping yourself out. So, stop sending so much damn money! This really irks the hell out of me. All the extra money you'll be making with your masters will just be used to replenish your savings accounts from where you depleted them all for him!

Anyway, despite the money thing, I think it's obvious that he does have genuine feelings for you, in a romantic way. Don't push it, though. These things take time, and they only come to light when said person is ready to admit it in their own time. A trip to Vegas really might be a good idea, though. I see it resembling something out of Brokeback Mountain, where you see each other, hug... then passion of all passions erupts everywhere, tears flow and a choir sings from heaven.

Don't expect anything, though. That's more for your own good than his. It's a little mind trick. If you don't expect anything, he'll sense that you don't expect anything, so he won't feel pressured in any way... and it might ease him out of the closet a little more swiftly.
 
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O.K., Guys ... maybe we should all dial this down a little?

Brian ... I'm pretty sure "We" don't mean to be Pressuring You! It's just that "We" have come to care So Much about what You are going through! And ... of course ... We're ALL Hoping for the Very Best for YOU, for Andy, and through some sort of "Cyber Assimilation", for "Us", too! Yeah! ... "We" may be Relating a bit on the Strong side!

So ... for whatever reasons ... if You may not feel "Right", taking "Us" up on these offers ... that's "kewl"! Just let "Us" know, and we'll back off.

But ... also please know ... that should You wish to do so, a trip to Vegas IS doable for You! "We" would sincerely like to help make that happen, should You decide to let "Us".

In any case ... looking forward to hearing from You! (group)

And ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!! :kiss: (*8*)
Ky ;)
 
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Yes Brian, where are you? I hope we're not freakin you out...but it looks like you might be able to make it to Vegas after all...I'm sure hopin'
 
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O.K., Guys ... maybe we should all dial this down a little?
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I thought about that today, Kyanimal. I mean, it was my idea to start the money donations. I realized that from afar, it might come off as a bit strong, but it was just a genuine idea. Just think, if everyone sent $5 or $10 max - it would add up so quickly and he would be able to go.

Then again, it might look a bit obsessive to him. I was just trying to come up with a creative way to help. Then, I realized that it might be scaring him a bit, which could be the reason he isn't posting.

In the end, Brian, it is up to you. I'm sure Kulindahr will return any money to the original owners should you decide not to accept it.

If you're upset by my idea, please PM me and we can discuss it there. If I have offended you with this idea, I am sorry.

I just want to see it end on a peaceful note because it's not really over until you see him face to face. But, it's all up to you.

strangelittleboy
 
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Hey, strange ...

I really liked your idea! And I know it came from your Heart! And I'm sure Brian knows that, too! Awesome thought! ..| The response has been Tremendous!! :D

Just thought I'd let Bri know that it's O.K. to say, "Thanks! But, no thanks." Or ... to go ahead and take "Us" all up on it. Whatever is in His "Comfort Zone" will be All Right.

Either way ... It's all Good! (group) :hurray: (!w!)

Keep smilin'!! :kiss: (*8*)
Ky ;)
 
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