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So are you going to keep running away from him like that?

I cannot help but feel your feeling uncomfortable to talk to him, it's very easy, just pick up the phone, tell him stop calling once and for all, because his fucked up your life, you and him need to move on. There's nothing to salvage until he pays off what he owes you.
 
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LostVegas said:
He also had said he starts work tomorrow in a bank and is getting his GED very soon and then will start to become a cop in Vegas...
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:bartshock
 
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^ I hate to think about the types of people sometimes attracted by the law enforcement profession, and I think this may indeed be one of those scary examples - if he's even telling the truth at all.
 
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I have not posted in or read this thread for well over a year and just read the last page or two to catch up ... I know I said in my last post it would be my last post, but just wanted to say ...

Brian, glad you did not go to the wedding ... I'm actually happy to see that there is a semblance of hope that you, Brian, are finally done with this friendship ... it is time for you to move on, this time for real. I think there is just *one* thing left that you must do to break the cycle:

Please change your phone numbers.

All the best ... (*8*)
 
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Brian, I have been reading this post now and then for the last couple months to a year.
And I just wanted to say I am so proud of and how you have handled this so far.

I have fallen in love with a friend before, and Im not saying I know anything about what you went through...


But your a damn good person, I have such a great appreciation for you and I hope everything goes well. Now that I have made an account I can keep checking back.

Congradulations on everything you have done.
(*8*)
 
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whew, i spent the whole night reading this :S keep us updated mr. vegas and hopefully things get better, it looks like they are...
 
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Hey Brian, it's time for an update! How are things going?
 
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The soap opera's over, av. Nothing more to see here. And yes, that's a good thing. :)

Lex
 
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Well here goes nothing. Hey it's me Brian...rumors of my death have been greatly exaggerated.

I just figured, after so long away from this site and the internet in general, to come back on and update you about how things have gone down.

First and foremost, and what everyone who read this thread probably wants to know...

I have not spoken to Andrew since early August of 2008. We had a few brief phone calls prior to which I laid into him, and he listened and wanted to rebuild our friendship. He said his wife is pregnant and she is one month into the pregnancy.

I wished Andrew well. I told him I will cherish many memories but feel things would just get toxic again between us and it was better just to cut my losses and let it be.

I truly dont wish him harm. But I also dont want him in my life.

Yes he left messages for a few weeks when I didnt pick up his calls, but he soon got the hint. He rarely calls anymore and like I said I have not spoken to him since August.

And better yet, I rarely at all ever think of him that much. It's funny how much I have moved on since just a short time ago.

My WHOLE apt was rennovated and furnished to my liking. I have a good amount saved up...I have all the gadgets and stuff I could want for my apt...work is going great, as is my friendship with Latoya.

I actually hosted a party with people from work a month ago. Ask me a year or two ago, how I was in the middle of my depression and I could barely get up to answer the doorbell.

I plan on travelling soon and the car I talked so much about buying has still eluded me. But thats on me, as I am very finicky, and deciding on one is hard. But on my spring break Im getting the Ford I wanted.

I finally have 90% of my puzzle complete. I made a new friend on my block and look foward, now that I have my shit t ogether, to dating this spring and summer.

Life is really good right now. I figured I owed everyone who followed this a long overdue update.

Thanks!
 
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Thanks Brian! I've been hoping for quite a while that you'd give us an update.

So happy to hear Andrew is out of your life and you really have moved on.

Best of luck to you!
 
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So great to see an update from you, guy!

I had hoped that you'd come back by one of these days, to give us an update. I have NOT forgotten about this thread. I think I wondered as recently as Monday or Tuesday.

Your update could NOT have possibly been better, and more uplifting! For those of you who are familiar with the history of this thread, I think this should be taken as a sign of hope, for anybody, that if one asserts his own will, he can most likely turn his entire life around. Your thread also proves that only you (or somebody else in an undesirable situation) can turn his life around. There was a lot of advice for you in this thread, but in the end it was you who made the decision to move on.

Of course, this thread wasn't updated for such a long stretch of time (one-half year) that some people seeing this may be intrigued, and may be going back to look. Methinks they'll finally finishing reading it maybe around Tuesday, LOL.

I can't imagine an update of any kind that would have been better than what you gave us here, other than perhaps telling us that you were now completely in a mutual loving relationship, but I feel confident that it's only a matter of time for that as well.
 
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josher said:
Thanks Brian! I've been hoping for quite a while that you'd give us an update.

So happy to hear Andrew is out of your life and you really have moved on.

Best of luck to you!
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Thanks for the update, Brian. I wish you the best!
 
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I saw this thread on the main page, and thought "PLEASE be an update, because I can't take another random resurrection'." :D

Really happy to see you're back on track. Keep kicking ass. :)

Lex
 
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so Andrew still owes LostVegas money ?

i think both have move on.
Andrew will pay back the money if he got some.


My friend paid back my money after 10 years !!!:cool:
 
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Good for you man! You rock!
 
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Great to hear you've come through all this and reached a good point in your life.
 
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I've been wondering where you were! :)

That's a great update to hear, I'm glad you were finally able to move on. :D
 
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I hate to use a cliche, but it's often said no news is good news. I would come back to this thread occasionaly Brian, to see if there was any update, so it's great to see that things are going well for you and that you're still friends with Layoya. Best of Luck and thanks for letting us know you're doing well!:wave:
 
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As usual thanks for all the continued support JUBers!!
 
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