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Undying love for my best friend...please read(long

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To Brian,

Well, how do I start this off...

Two days ago, I knew nothing about this website, these forums, or anything.

I was searching for 'message boards' and stumbled onto this site, and had a laugh at some of the other funny posts, and after a while I saw

"Undying love for my best friend"

and I thought 'Oh well, this shouldn't take that long to get through...'

SEVEN HOURS went by yesterday skipping and speed-reading as quick as I could every page of your story. And I can't really believe the emotional turmoil that you had to go through, particularly in 2006/2007. It's a level of suffering that no human being should have to endure for such a long period of time.

Sadly, I know something of your pain, because I was madly in love with my best and only friend for four years in the 1990s. I would cry myself to sleep back then about 2 or 3 times a week. I was so naive and stupid to do that to myself. And even worse than in your case, my friend was -

Completely and absolutely straight.
Never had, ever, any feelings for me like that at all.
And I never. ever, mentioned or spoke my feelings to him, or anyone else.
I suffered in silence.

Things only got better after he moved away, by which time the worst of what I felt had gone in any case. He is now working overseas and I e-mail him about once a year.

So, ten years on, you would think I would have learned my lesson. But do you know what was going through my mind at the beginning of your story?

'What a sweet guy Andy is' 'I would love Andy in a minute' 'I would go to Vegas with Andy' 'I don't care about his girlfriend' 'I would spend my life with Andy'

](*,)

This time, luckily, it took just the time to read your whole story to see what a stupid idiot I would have made of myself. What mistake did I make? I assumed that someone who SHOWED those feelings towards me HAD to be sincere. I also assumed that no-one would ever be so emotionally manipulating :rolleyes:

THIS TIME I WILL NOT FORGET.

So, don't beat yourself up mate, I've been through it all. It is a shame that feelings like yours and mine get ignored and/or manipulated. We live and learn.

So there we go, I registered and signed up on here just to share all this with you.

All that's left for me to say is to wish you every happiness and love for the future.

You deserve it.

ChickenGuy
 
Chickenguy, thanks so much for all the kind words, I really appreciate it......Im glad those days are behind me...Im also glad you found the message boards, they can be a fun place to be sometimes, especially when you need a pick me up...anyway, glad to meet you and thanks again!!! Brian xoxoxoxoxxo
 
Hey guys, back with a quick update for now...will update in greater detail later on...

My boyfriend Stevin just left yesterday evening and it is very odd waking up to an empty apartment. He came here to Brooklyn on the 3rd and I cant imagine living a second without him. I am going to see him in mid November in Texas and our goal is to have him move up here after the holidays.

I never in my wildest dreams pictured a man so perfect coming into my life. I always knew I had a lot of love to give someone...but to not only be able to give that love, but also get it back unconditionally...feels so surreal. I had to pinch myself several times to make sure everything I was feeling was real.

We just grew closer and closer ever since he came up here. He met my friends, all of my family and we hung out in the city a lot...Just having him here and with me on my birthday meant the world to me. My heart aches for him so badly right now, but I also feel very good knowing I will see him shortly and soon after that we will be together for good....anyway just thought I'd quickly share that on here...I'm in the middle of having a horror movie day...I watched Last House on the Left...now onto The Descent, Saw V and VI....hope all is well with you guys, xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
 
What a great update, Brian!

Reading it sent a "rush" through me that you wouldn't believe, it was a happiness rush...a lot of us (including me) felt that you would someday find love in the right place. I'm not sure we all thought it would happen this quickly, though. All the better!

Have you had any chances to hang with Latoya lately?
 
FrankFrank, thanks for the kind words...and yes Latoya and I talk all the time and see each other at work, she also hung with me and Stevin a few times while he was here...
 
Just swooping by for a quick update....this is my favorite time of year...the holidays...On December 2-6th I am going down to Austin, Texas to see my guy...I cannot wait...we are going strong and love each other very much....sometimes I have to pinch myself to really believe that this is all real....I feel happier and more complete in my life than ever...anyway hope all is well with you guys and if I dont update before, have a Happy Thanksgiving!!!

~~~~Brian~~~xoxoxoxoxo
 
Hey guys...my trip down to Austin Texas went so very well...it even snowed there!! Weather was nice and Christmasy and all of Austin was nicely decorated...they get an A for effort...I met his mom and some of his family and we hit it off well...

It looks as though he will be coming down to live with me in February and he is planning as we speak of joining the US Air Force...which I am 100% behind him on and supportive of...I think it would be a great and exciting time for him...anyway I hope your holiday season is going well...just stopped by for the small update! xoxoxoxo BRIAN
 
Excellent.

Season's Best and here's to 2010.
 
I'm beginning to think I'm psychic. As I was about to click on this forum, I thought, "We haven't heard from LostVegas for awhile. I hope things are going well for him and the boyfriend."

Glad to hear the good news, but what about Don't Ask Don't Tell? Hopefully it'll get repealed, but until it is, you'll have to keep your relationship very quiet.

Brian, have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.
 
Excellent update, Bri! ..|

Feeling really Good for You!! (group) (!w!)

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz :luv:
 
Brian - been wondering bout how you've been! It's great to hear the door that has opened for you when the last one got shut.
 
Been away for a while, but the thought has crossed my mind to update so here goes...My love, my man, my partner in life and in crime is coming up the day before Valentine's Day to OFFICIALLY become a New Yawwwker and live with me for good...this is a big change for the both of us, and challenges lie ahead, but we gladly and happily are taking it on....my world has changed since we met and I cant wait to start to grow old with him...he is the love of my life :-)

The whole family now knows about him...and I cant wait to have him meet my friends and to start making a life, especially traveling together and making memories...

I hope all is well in JUB land....XOXOXOXOXOXOXO BRIAN
 
Brian - words can't describe how happy I am for you!
You've been able to find something that I am still in search of.
 
Brian! :wave:

Pardon my "French" ... but that is just Fucking AWESOME!!! (!w!)

You have NO idea how Happy I am for You!! (group)

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz :luv:
 
Brian, that's wonderful news.

So glad there's such a happy ending to your story.

Best of luck to both of you.
 
It's always good to read your updates and this one is especially terrific! Congratulations--and best to you both! ..|:=D::wave:
 
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