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Why are you single?

ShadowCancer

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I lurk on this site a lot and I can tell there are an ass load of single guys on this site, and a lot of them seem like they shouldn't be single...... Soooo why?

Do you just choose to be single? Maybe your standards are too high and you haven't met that "dream" guy? Personality isn't enough?
 
I am so happy being single. I am going thru my selfish phase, and I don't want to devote my time or energy to anyone but ME.

Nice screen name btw.
 
I'm single because I've finally began my coming out process, and I can't expect any guy to want to deal with that while I am. I dunno, maybe I'm wrong.
 
I was married to the love of my life, a woman :eek: who walked out on me and I have never trusted anyone again. Plus, I was hiding in the closet and now that I am out to my friends after so many years, I just feel more comfortable alone. :(
 
i engaged my therm-optic camouflage when i came out and now i can't switch the frakkin' thing off.

thus i am invisible to gay men all together.



that and my geek scares people away.
 
I don't really put myself out there in the scene...

...So I guess I have no one to blame but me.

And there's the trust issues...
 
I am single because people don’t find me attractive enough and not worth enough to give a chance too, so I could show them I am better than they think.

The other reason is the only person to have had interest to me couldn’t deal with what society would think of us. Its more complicated than that, but too long of a story.
 
I'm single because Transpogue is a lesbian.


(Wow, I'm bringing her up a lot in my posts tonight. Maybe this is true on a subconscious level? I'll speak with a therapist.)
 
im single cuz i want what i cant have- unrealistic tastes. and i want a bf when im single, but want to be single when i get a bf. very indecisive
 
I am single, why...have no freaking clue.

The guys that I like (and who I would like to spend more time with) just want to have sex with me once in a while never call unless they have a hard-on.
 
How do u know ??
STALKER !!!

LOL
 
After my ex and I broke up, I've seen a couple of people, but nobody really brings that spark to me. I guess I just compare everyone to my first love (not first boyfriend, but he was the first man I fell in love with). I'm so busy with getting back in school right now, that I just don't even want to devote my time to getting to know someone new at the moment. Plus I'm tired of going on dates with guys and constantly getting sex pushed for, when I've made it clear that if anything is going to happen, it's going to be naturally and not, "Oh we're boyfriends," after 2 days.
 
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