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Why do I have to apologize for being Vanilla?

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*shrugs*

Looks like rimming, and I'm sticking to it. :lol:

do they use soap in ancient times? LOL
 
The Babylonians and ancient Greeks actually did use olive oil based 'soaps' and certainly by Roman Times, most people also cleaned their asses after shitting with wet sponges...I believe in some cases dipped in water scented with roses or other flowers.

I love when this thread gets resurrected though.

It is always fun to see the repressed and prudish squirm.
 
The Babylonians and ancient Greeks actually did use olive oil based 'soaps' and certainly by Roman Times, most people also cleaned their asses after shitting with wet sponges...I believe in some cases dipped in water scented with roses or other flowers.

I love when this thread gets resurrected though.

It is always fun to see the repressed and prudish squirm.

I think much of the prudishness is from many living a life of masturbatory solace of porn / fantasy for decades whereby their "sex" has a routine, almost OCD quality, to the way of getting turned on, pulling their pud, and the ultimate "cleanup" of their cock snot. The rinse, repeat, ritual is played out again in the same exact way ___ hours or ___ days later. For these people the "sudden" introduction of another real life person with all their quirks, kinks, and unpredictability becomes a near anathema to their routine.

As for the oil, you are quite correct as well, and why I had recommend using oil to clean an intact penis with instead of scrubbing their dick 2x daily with harsh deodorant soaps which have obviously upset the natural Ph level, as well as killing off the natural healthy bacteria he had obviously done.
 
Why do so many guys thinks it's 'cool' or 'hip' to follow the latest kinky fad?

The AIDS Bug slowed things down a bit but so many guys obsessively chase the new fads.

I'd never think about fisting. It seems rimming is normal now.
Uh, how is it possible for you to MENTION fisting, if you'd "never think about" it? (No, you didn't say you'd never think about DOING or RECEIVING it, lol)

My exceedingly-vanilla tastes don't go much beyond SIXTYNINE, and really involving nothing in any anal form that turns me on. I am very much a frottage aficionado unlike MitchyMo, and my logical mind considers that probably even more vanilla than blow jobs.

Pat, I don't find it even the least bit strange or weird that you consider yourself vanilla - as far as I'm concerned, that's where it's at.
 
I hooked up with a guy a few days ago. I informed him that I was pretty "vanilla" when it comes to sex. I even list on my profile the things I enjoy; snuggling, kissing, rimming, sucking, and fucking.

Well, this guy was rimming my ass when all of a sudden he starts biting my ass with his TEETH! WTF! To be clear, I felt PAIN!

I told him to stop which seems to have put a damper on the session. He ended up jacking off on my ass then made some excuse to leave early.

I won't apologize for being vanilla either.
 
"Vanilla" is fine. In fact I consider my sex life to be "vanilla". Until I saw that by many's standards here is anything more than mutual masturbation. :eek:

The difference is, I've never had problems finding guys that fit my "vanilla" streak of sexuality at all. Nor do I find the need to repeat like an idiot savant, rainman, about how I dislike something. If I don't want to do something, I simply don't, and then never think about it again, unless someone else mentions it.

A little biting is all of a sudden "kink"? An expectation of anal sex is suddenly "a kink"? Anything north of "frottage" is "a kink"? Come on! Sorry, no. When "vanilla" has become something entirely yours and in fact is your FETISH, it is no longer "vanilla" but rather.... a FETISH, ie.... not vanilla.

See, the thing is.... when you're continually single, and are having problems repeatedly finding other "vanilla" partners, the problem is yours and yours alone to get mental help with.
 
I think much of the prudishness is from many living a life of masturbatory solace of porn / fantasy for decades whereby their "sex" has a routine, almost OCD quality, to the way of getting turned on, pulling their pud, and the ultimate "cleanup" of their cock snot. The rinse, repeat, ritual is played out again in the same exact way ___ hours or ___ days later. For these people the "sudden" introduction of another real life person with all their quirks, kinks, and unpredictability becomes a near anathema to their routine.

As for the oil, you are quite correct as well, and why I had recommend using oil to clean an intact penis with instead of scrubbing their dick 2x daily with harsh deodorant soaps which have obviously upset the natural Ph level, as well as killing off the natural healthy bacteria he had obviously done.

So from now on,
you are not allow to use soap but olive oil alone. OK.
 
So glad i'm dark chocolate then.

Some of you, I see, have far too many hangups and far too many "must do"s and "must not"s in the bedroom. Do you at least enjoy vanilla or are you too stubborn to toss a few sprinkles on that shit every once in awhile?

Christmas for the business, and virgin white for the bride. How very droll.
 
"Vanilla" is fine. In fact I consider my sex life to be "vanilla". Until I saw that by many's standards here is anything more than mutual masturbation. :eek:

The difference is, I've never had problems finding guys that fit my "vanilla" streak of sexuality at all. Nor do I find the need to repeat like an idiot savant, rainman, about how I dislike something. If I don't want to do something, I simply don't, and then never think about it again, unless someone else mentions it.

A little biting is all of a sudden "kink"? An expectation of anal sex is suddenly "a kink"? Anything north of "frottage" is "a kink"? Come on! Sorry, no. When "vanilla" has become something entirely yours and in fact is your FETISH, it is no longer "vanilla" but rather.... a FETISH, ie.... not vanilla.

See, the thing is.... when you're continually single, and are having problems repeatedly finding other "vanilla" partners, the problem is yours and yours alone to get mental help with.

Quoted for truth.
 
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