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Why do they have to be straight? (I NEED HELP PLZ)

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:help: Well I have this friend...... and he's so cute and hot! I mean everything about him just so HOT! *|* He has nice blue eyes the gansta attitude and he's so funny!!!!

But here is the problem... he's straight!!!! I mean he gave me so many signs! Like he talks so sweet to me, he hugs me and tells me he misses me! So like 1 month ago I decide to come out to him! (He'd be the 1st person I came out to) I knew it was risky cause if he's a homophobe I'm screwed!!!! So I told him that I was bi and he totally accepts me! The problem is that he isn't gay/bi! wHY DO STRAIGHT GUYS TEND TO PLAY SO GAY!? It confuses me! :confused: They can grab my dick and still be a straight! Well I can't stop thinking about him I mean I really really really like him!

He recently went to some girls house and he showed me the pictures of them making out! I seriously felt sick and I got jealous when I saw that. He doesn't know I like him but he knows I'm gay/bi. He just supports me! For the last 2 weekends we have been spending the night at each others house but nothin has happened cause all he thinks about about is his new chick and again he isn't bi/gay!

You can 't force anyone to like you but is there a way for me not to like him?
I want to stop hanging out with him but I can't! I love seeing him! I even wanted to kill myself because I can't control my feelings and he's always on my mind N theres nothin I can do!! :cry:

WHAT DO I DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! plz I really need help!!!!!!!!!
 
Re: Why do they have to be straight? (I NEED HELP

You need to stop see this guy---even as a friend. It's hurting you and you will never get over him if you keep him so close to you---have you tried asking another guy out?
 
Re: Why do they have to be straight? (I NEED HELP

no.... he knows the other guys I like but they're straight! :(
Every guy I basiclly I like is straight! I'm just into masculine guys I guess......
 
Re: Why do they have to be straight? (I NEED HELP

Well. You need to take this emotionally feelings and spend the energy elsewhere. Maybe join a food drive or something. I know it's hard but get out more and meet other people and sooner or later you meet a guy that likes you just as much as you like him. I know it's hard. Trust me, I fall for straight guys all the time. You don't want to lose the friendship unless you have no choice!
 
Re: Why do they have to be straight? (I NEED HELP

He says he's straight.
Believe it.
Stop holding on to a shred of hope that maybe if he knew how much it meant to you... Or that maybe, deep down inside, he really wants to...

No.

Stop fantasizing about him, stop jerking off thinking about him. None of that's gonna help. Minimize your time with him for a bit, and take time out to go find something else to occupy your time and mind. And no, not another straight guy.

Lex
 
Re: Why do they have to be straight? (I NEED HELP

You have to focus your energy and cultivate gay friendships/relationships outside of your straight friend bubble. Model after him! He's found a girl and she is all he thinks about. You need to do the same. Find a boy who is gay. Lower your "masculine" expectations a little and take an interest in someone in your area. Once you get attached to someone else, you can finally enjoy your friendship with your straight friend.
 
Re: Why do they have to be straight? (I NEED HELP

You really shouldn't suicide because of a guy. Or anything else.
 
Re: Why do they have to be straight? (I NEED HELP

You shouldn't get this twisted up over another person. He Isn't gay, so just leave it be and find a dude who shares your tastes in men
 
Re: Why do they have to be straight? (I NEED HELP

I see what all you guys mean.....
thanks! :) but honestly i see him everyday
cause I give him rides! but oh well time to move on right?
I mean like u guys said, I'm wasting my time crushing over a guy that isn't even attracted to my sex...... thanks


well the suicide thing is because I question myself why am I gay?
How did I turn out this way!
I was gay as far as I remember and that was when i was 4!!!! I kissed another guy! hahah

I mean I cant admit to myself that I am gay when I know I am!
 
Re: Why do they have to be straight? (I NEED HELP

>>>I question myself why am I gay? How did I turn out this way?

You're gay because that's the way you were built. The same reason you're the height you are, the skin color you are, and you're right- or left-handed. It's part of who you are.

So you have two options.

You can sit around and bemoan your fate, and feel that if only you were straight or 6' 6" or skinnier or had a much bigger dick, that your life would be one smooth ride.

Or you can say "OK, this is what I've got. What am I gonna do with it?"

The second option is a lot better on the psyche, and usually produces a lot better results, too. :)

Lex
 
Re: Why do they have to be straight? (I NEED HELP

I'm cursed with crushing on nothing but straight men - which includes all o' my best mates.

The best you can do is keep telling yourself that you're wasting time and energy, take the friendship for what it is and enjoy it, yet at the same time, occupy your time with other friends/interests. I've gotten over my feelings byjust telling yourself repeatedly that it'll never work - and LET GO.

Trust me - at some point, it works!
 
Re: Why do they have to be straight? (I NEED HELP

Man me & you share nearly everything in common: i feel kinda bad for being gay, I like 1 of my friends and told him and ive been abit "gay" as long as I can remember. I'm in no position to give you advise but I guess we could be friends and talk about our experiences
 
Re: Why do they have to be straight? (I NEED HELP

G-Lexington said:
>>>I question myself why am I gay? How did I turn out this way?

You're gay because that's the way you were built. The same reason you're the height you are, the skin color you are, and you're right- or left-handed. It's part of who you are.

So you have two options.

You can sit around and bemoan your fate, and feel that if only you were straight or 6' 6" or skinnier or had a much bigger dick, that your life would be one smooth ride.

Or you can say "OK, this is what I've got. What am I gonna do with it?"

The second option is a lot better on the psyche, and usually produces a lot better results, too. :)

Lex
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Lexington your so right!!!!! you know exactly what to say!

same to the others guys!
 
Re: Why do they have to be straight? (I NEED HELP

The statistics say that over 90% of guys are straight.

So, this is not going to be the last time that you will have a crush on a straight guys.

Lex's advise is dead-on. Accept what you feel and move on because the chances are that nothing good will ever come from what you feel.

What do you do?
Go find a gay guy who is into you. Don't waste your time obsessing about straight guys.
 
Re: Why do they have to be straight? (I NEED HELP

my best friend (who claims to be straight...) started playing those little gay games with me too and slowly I started to like him sexually...so much I confessed to him I "liked" him, he was so shocked lol we ain't spoken properly since which has just been over a week now
 
Re: Why do they have to be straight? (I NEED HELP

Dare I type this: get a guy and do him in front of your bf.
 
Re: Why do they have to be straight? (I NEED HELP

RomanHeartfan said:
Dare I type this: get a guy and do him in front of your bf.
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It ain't as easy for me to get a bf as it is for other guys 1. Nobody knows I'm gay 2. Im Still only 18 3. I'm still a virgin and very shy AND 4. That would probably only result in him getting a bf/gf
 
Re: Why do they have to be straight? (I NEED HELP

Sorry I am a whack job. Really. And you sound a lot like me. Not the whack job part.
 
Re: Why do they have to be straight? (I NEED HELP

I'm still a virgin and very shy

that
 
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