Working With Will

[looseliam]

Play it cool, sweetie. He seems to be the type for "let us let it happen."

Go with the flow, young grasshopper.

 

[amyleeisjesus]

^Yep. I think talking about it when he's given no indication that it bothered him (and actually quite the opposite, what with the grinning) is a bad idea. Just go with it and try not to obsess over what he's thinking.

Nice update. That's really sweet that he got you a souvenir. And in your favorite color, no less? Come on, so gay. You seem to be closing in on taming him .

 

[looseliam]

Who knows what he means. There is one way to find out. H wants to go out fishing after work, go ahead.

 

[JarodA]

Holy shit Superboy. On account of the wink in the text, either he's talking about something other than fishing or he's the biggest tease in the whole world.

 

[najfus]

Sorry for the long update, btw

Ha! Don't be!

 

[yeahman21]

Dude you are playing this perfectly. Im so obsessed with this story.

 

[cityboi]

Keep on Fuckin'

 

[blogthissucker]

I think we need a picture of the two of you together

Edit: obviously taken in such a way as to make it not creepy that you're posting it on the internet

 

[Swim69mer]

I started working in the produce section of a grocery store back in June. I quickly made several friends. One of them is a guy named Will. He's only 20 (21 on Nov 2). He's really cool and we get along really well. Actually, so well that we've become really good friends and have hung out a few times outside of work. For the last couple months, it was nothing but friendship. He maintains that he's straight and talks about girls and pussy/boobs and all the sex he's had. So, even though I thought he was cute, I didn't really think much about him in that way. Until a few weeks ago, that is.

He knows I'm gay. I was up front about that from the beginning, so he wouldn't find out some other way and freak out. He would constantly point out girls he thought was cute, so I finally had to tell him it was sorta lost on me. He was totally cool with it. My friends said that since he was so cool with it, he must be curious or maybe gay, too. Which I thought was stupid.

Then, a few weeks ago, he started this joke flirting thing. It started with little things like "hey there sexy" and calling me "baby." Then it sorta escalated. For instance, last week I messed something up and said "well, fuck me" and he said "ok, bend over." Then a few days ago we were in the produce cooler, unloading the morning truck and I bent over a stack of crates to grab something behind them and he grabbed my hips and started humping me. I've kept it cool and not reciprocated, but this time I told him to not start anything he's not willing to finish. He laughed and said he'd finish later.

So, is this normal for straight guys? I mean, that sounds stupid to ask. But I worked at a Pizza Hut a few years ago and one of the cooks, who was very masculine, really cute, and I had a big crush on, would grab my ass and spank me with the pizza peel (the board with the handle that they slide under the pizza pan when it's hot) but he ended up getting married and has a kid now. Is it because they know I'm gay and are making fun of me or something? Should I be offended or turned on? I don't know and I have no idea if this is going somewhere or if I should just brush it off.

You should be turned on dude! They don't know how to show their interest so want to hint to see your reaction. Don't be offended bro.

 

[JarodA]

Hurry up with an update Superboy. We're dying here.

 

[ShamWow]

Yes, daily updates are a MUST.

 

[ontheroad]

OMG, I'm checking this every night!!! hahaha.

 

[Ohiospeedo]

Seanhuang - Is that an actor in your pic? The guy from Boy Culture - Derek Magyar? Just curious because I think he is hot.

 

[Muscles4daze]

I know I will be thrown to the wolves for this but I have to be honest. Josh why is it that you always get in to these situations with these younger (supposedly) straight guys? From what I've read from your posts I take it that you are out, so why not pursue something with an openly gay man who does not play the whole cat and mouse game. You shouldn't have to persuade him or convince him to experiment with you. You are a very good looking guy and if Will wants to hide in the closet, I say let him. I feel a lot of people on this board aren't being honest with you because they are entertained by the sexcapades.

I think you need to back off from this guy sexually and just continue with the friendship, and if he wants more than that then wait for him to take it to the next level. You said you were willing to bottom for this guy (and you've never done that), but I think that is something you should save for a guy who is proud to be in a relationship with you and doesn't have to be boozed up or under the covers with the door closed and the curtains drawn to admit that, once a guy says he's straight I leave it alone.

 

[yeahman21]

First of all his name is James, and he is young himself. There arent a trmendous amount of open gay guys that are in the 18-23 year old range. And the ones that are might not be his type. Not everyone likes the fem type. The point is no one he has pursued has turned out to be straight.

 

[Muscles4daze]

First of all his name is James, and he is young himself. There arent a trmendous amount of open gay guys that are in the 18-23 year old range. And the ones that are might not be his type. Not everyone likes the fem type. The point is no one he has pursued has turned out to be straight.

My apologies James, I meant to type James but I got confused with the guy in your other story, but as for you Yeahman shut your mouth, my comment was addressed to James not you, and furthermore I gave my opinion on this situation like everyone else in this thread and if you don't agree with it that's your problem, deal with it. Your entire post exudes ignorance, apparently you don't get out much, and no the point is no one he has pursued has admitted to being gay. You are taking this forum a little to serious, calm down

 

[justusboysfan_1234]

Now, now, boys. Let's play nice. My two cents--if James enjoys pursuing closeted "straight" guys, then why couldn't he? It's a free country, after all. We're all entitled to our likes and dislikes. Besides, who's to say that he pursues them on purpose? After all, we're just talking about two people, for goodness' sake! I think I'm speaking for a lot of people here when I say that I do enjoy following this thread and am living vicariously through his experiences, to a point.
James, where's our update?!? Haha.

 

[Muscles4daze]

Now, now, boys. Let's play nice. My two cents--if James enjoys pursuing closeted "straight" guys, then why couldn't he? It's a free country, after all. We're all entitled to our likes and dislikes. Besides, who's to say that he pursues them on purpose? After all, we're just talking about two people, for goodness' sake! I think I'm speaking for a lot of people here when I say that I do enjoy following this thread and am living vicariously through his experiences, to a point.
James, where's our update?!? Haha.

My thing is this, I often wonder when people ask for advice on public forums are they really seeking advice or do they want people to tell them what they want to hear, I mean I must admit James experiences are very entertaining, but at the same time we all know how some of these situations with these closeted straight guys end up turning out and I'm just being honest.

The problem with some of the people on this board is that they can't respect other people's views and opinions. There was no need for the "Yesman" to get all bent out of shape about my feelings on someone else's situation, you would think he got a $100.00 bill every time James gave this guy a blow job. Do me a favor "Yeahman" instead of attempting to put me in my place, go watch gossip girl or something, that's more your speed. James I hope you don't think I was trying to attack you I was just giving my honest opinion, I personally think you are a great guy who deserves more than a few blowjobs here and there.

 

[Muscles4daze]

Wow. Okay boys settle down. Haha. Thanks everyone for posting. I love that there's always someone on here who's willing to keep me in line. So where do I begin?

Muscles, I completely understand your perspective here. I haven't ever really gone into detail about my life outside of these two instances. Not much anyway. It's easy to think that these two situations (Josh and now Will) are the only experiences in my life, based on my posts in the forums. But there's a lot more going on. I have dated a few other guys, I've had a few flings, and before anything ever happened with Josh I was in a very serious relationship. I don't only go for these closet cases. I just post about them because I either have a situation where I need some advice (whether I take it or not is another story altogether) or I just kinda want to brag, to put it brashly. How it is that I've now come across two guys who are willing to push the boundaries of their sexuality is beyond me. I think it may help that I'm a very masculine guy and possibly they feel comfortable around me. I don't know. Luck? Probably. And you're right, it is my choice to keep pushing the limits. But I think they both have needed to experiment and I can't say it's easy to say no to that.

Exactly James! I don't know much about you except for what you post. I think Will does have some feelings for you, but like he said he's scared, and what guys like that tend to do is "dip their feet in the water and once they see it's cold, they run away", and when they do that someone usually ends up getting hurt. Like I said earlier this is just my opinion on the situation and you know what they say about opinions. I think you should take little pieces of everyone's advice here, but in the end do what your heart tells you, I will definitely continue reading and hope that I was wrong about Will, Hopefully this will be you and him at the job...
[ame]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tjWZGa-k9z8[/ame]

 

[ginjoint]

that was the best update ever (for now)