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Working With Will

Oh yay!!!

*does happy school girl dance*

Stuff like this warms my cold heart!
 
superboy83 said:
I'm so excited. I really hope we maybe start dating or something.
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Hey, James!

I've been "lurking" more than anything, "here", recently. Wanting to give everyone else more of a chance to "chime in" ... not wanting to "sway" their thinking with my ramblings! :slap:

With the ways Will has been responding to You ... I'm pretty "excited", too! Don't get me wrong! It's not ALL about the sexual "stuff"! It's more about the fantastic Bond that the two of you seem to be building. It truly is a Very Beautiful, and some would say "Rare", thing that is happening! (group)

I would, however, like to caution You, again, about building those "Expectations"! DO NOT go looking for the dating "thing" ... just yet! I don't think Will is anywhere near taking it to THAT level! [-X

Does he LIKE You? Is he more Curious?? Yes! But ... is he ready to "ramp it up"? No! DO NOT go thinking "Relationship"! He doesn't seem to fully "understand" that Level quite yet! I can understand why he might be feeling "scared"!!

And, who can blame him? He's not used to what he is feeling for You! This Guy/Guy thing is still NEW to him!

Give him Time! Give him the space to come to terms with himself, and You! I'm not saying that you should hold back! I'm just saying take it all one small step at a time! Grant him as much "room" as he may need. Hold him close with Open arms! Know what I mean?

It does warm my "old" Heart to keep up with what You, and Will, are exploring, "here"! Please don't "get ahead" of Yourself ... or Him! Yes?

Of course ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz :luv2:
 
Muscles you need to pump the brakes bro. That wasnt meant as an attack. Maybe we can grab a protein shake and talk about it?

James this guy is a few hangouts away from stickin it to ya.
 
bluepheonix said:
*Braces for collective "awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww"*
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Totally did it. lol. So sweet.

I'm really happy for you, James, and glad that the corner in this whole thing has been turned with him finally admitting his feelings for you. You deserve a stable boy who won't screw you over and treats you right. He seems like a great guy.

Tamed at last!
 
yeahman21 said:
Muscles you need to pump the brakes bro. That wasnt meant as an attack. Maybe we can grab a protein shake and talk about it?

James this guy is a few hangouts away from stickin it to ya.
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maybe only if your treating, let me think about this for a minute:rolleyes:...okay deal
 
superboy83 said:
Haha Muscles I was laughing my ass off when I saw that youtube thing. Hilarious. Thanks for the concern, but I also appreciate Yeahman too, so I really hope you guys can get along. If for no other reason, be nice for me. Please.

I turned off the computer after I finished my post and got in the shower and started thinking about all of you guys and how nice you guys are for being so interested in all of this. Rooting for me and looking after me in a sense. So I just wanted to say thank you. I really appreciate it. I really hope that someday I find that person who just fits and in the meantime, I'm glad that I have you guys there to listen to me when I just need to vent. So thank you. (*8*)
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No problem man, I will be checking for updates..|
 
I just started reading this and i am so happy for you. That whole Josh thing got me upset but I am glad to see you moving on, and even though it took awhile, Will has finally admitted his feelings for you. What a great start to the new year!
 
Awesome update!!! Things are definitely looking up.

He seems to be dealing with everything pretty well. My guess is that he has probably thought about being with a guy for a long time, but was too afraid to act. Don't forget, this is all new to him and he may be struggling with his emotions. Don't be surprised if he pulls back a little at some point (hopefully not). Just understand that if he does, it's about his struggles and not a reflection on you or his feelings for you. Good luck!
 
superboy83 said:
I really hope we maybe start dating or something.
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Question: why would you want to start dating? It seems to me like that is the kind of change that could freak someone out. Formalizing things into a """relationship""" and whatnot. You've got all the fun of a best friend and seem to be working up to all the sex of a lover... so what's the point of dating?
 
Hellz yeah on pictures.

...shirtless...?

Edit: I jest. But a pic would be cool. Good for the mental picture that the fans are no doubt all building up
 
Wow James, that was the most promising update yet!

I just leaned over and kissed him. No tongue, just a slow peck, but then I felt his mouth open and we started making out. Eventually, he started rubbing up against me, in a humping motion. We never did any more than that because we both fell asleep.
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When I read this, I was so happy for you that my heart was pounding so hard that it kept me awake!! HA!!

While Will was away from you, he obviously thought about you a lot. It is good that he admitted to you that he is scared, but it is even better that he admitted to himself that he wants to go further with you. He has now told you that he wants to learn from you and that he want to do things with you . . . in short, he has admitted that he wants YOU !

As I said earlier, he is scared of these new feelings, and will be reluctant to make the first move. I know you have held back in relationships, trying not to be too pushy or forward, but I think you will have to take the initiative with Will. The next time he stays over, before going to bed, tell him that you are going to take a shower and invite him to join you. Soaping up each other will be a great way for him to have his first "touching" contact, and may make it easier when you get into bed. If he is still unsure, you can direct his hand where you want. His nervousness is about taking that first step, but if you take that step for him, believe me, he will know what to do!

BTW . . . I know there are some that feel you should back away so that you will not get hurt, but I disagree. Since the beginning of your relationship with Will, I think you have approached this with your eyes open. Whether this develops into a dating relationship or is only a sexual exploration for Will, your friendship with him is very special and you have to follow your heart. If you don't, you might look back with regrets in the future.

Things are definitely looking good now and you should run with it! Keep us posted!
 
I don't really remember if you did this already but can you give a brief description of what Will looks like? Does he look like you? Look nothing like you? Hair color, skin shade, eye color, short? Tall? It doesn't have to be detailed or long. Not that it matters much since I like all types of guys, just curious.
 
What kind of reward is there without a little risk? Follow your heart
 
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