Age Difference

[Luka]

Exactly that comment tells you why I don't go for guys my age even though I am only 19. However I am open-minded I am quite mature in the way I present myself , how I talk etc but I can have my childish moments lol but some older guys tend to appreciate diversity, are open-minded, they still kept that spark in them that can ignite real love while some have succumbed to the superficial and materlistic ways of the world - most young guys are just to damn superficial and the only discussions you can really have with them is about the latest trend and all other things that are of no merit. Also you have to look like a model, be skinny and just like that guy on magazines, on TV etc.

Sorry but I will only change my opinion and stance on that until I meet a decent enough guy of my own age who can look past that shit and hopefully we ca build a foundation together that can stand the test of this world

It really does not matter how old a guy is physically its his youthful heart that matters.. I'd rather cuddle up with a real man who lets his essence shine than with someone who is to insecure and confused to really share it but I will not exclude you because you human like everyone else, you were just made into a product by society but only until you fight against that oppression within yourself then I will just look the other way.

If you 30 and gay please stop thinking your life is over that is a turn-off - BABY everyday is a new day and you should live it to the fullest!! Don't matter if you have a tummy and you hairy. Have some self-respect for yourself and others and don't allow ignorance to fuck up your thinking! PEACE

See you one of those that doesnt get my point in the initial post I made. Hope ypu have fun with an old man.

 

[hotatlboi]

Ummmm I never said anything about looks at all, I dont care what you look like, you are probly really boring and suck at having sex.

That's not very nice, probably untrue and ridiculously unfounded.

You are just reinforcing the reasons why some younger guys aren't into other younger guys like yourself.

I'm generally into other young guys too but I have an older fuckbuddy (30s) and he's amazing at sex.

 

[jackry]

Ummmm I never said anything about looks at all, I dont care what you look like, you are probly really boring and suck at having sex.

WTF is that shit. Was that sarcasm cause it i didn't work. How the hell can you even go there ?

 

[jackry]

I may feel this way because My Mom is only 40 and my Dad 46, and have always had it drilled in my head that age difference is gross, But at the same time Its also casue I hate guys my age looking for older guys cause I want a ynger guy myself

huh my mom is a woman my dad is a dude and i have ha it drilled in my head gay sex was gross ..... get over it dude

as for you being jealous about not getting a young guy that might not be because all the old dude have'em. The winters are cold in Maine- don't be a hater.

 

[screwnutty]

Luka, with that attidude and personality. Your going to be alone for a long, long, time.

 

[looseliam]

And that's your taste, which is fine.
I do like older guys (as well as guys my own age), which is fine too.

Personally, I can't imagine myself having sex with an 18yo, 130lbs nelly twink. I'd be afraid something would break. Not saying that you're after that and I do know there are blokey 23yo's around (and I'm a big fan of them too!), but overall I find older guys (usually 30-35, up to 44 now) more attractive.

Aww, you can't?? I highly recommend it! =]

 

[treanir]

Thats sad.....we lost another one :-(

I didn't say I don't like guys my own age at all. It's just that the kind of guy I like is often in his thirties, sometimes over, sometimes under. And yes, there are 23yo's I really like. Quite a few.

For the record: I think you, for example, are a handsome guy. Some of the attitudes you've displayed towards guys who like 'em older are somewhat less than attractive, but you're still a good-looking young man and for all I know you're a good guy, too.

And look at it this way: with all the young guys going for older men, you'll have no problem getting laid when you reach a certain age.

Aww, you can't?? I highly recommend it! =]

Heehee, no. I don't think I'd be up for it. I'm just not attracted to boys who look pre-pubescent. I like blokes.

You can have them in my stead

 

[Ringfinger]

Luka, you just don't fucking get it.

I myself am not at all attracted to guys my own age. For a reason unknown to me, the only type of men I find attractive are those in their 40's and 50's. Why would I date someone my own age and be unhappy with that?

I think a lot of people here are assuming that every gay man wants to fuck any man they can. People have preferences. You could even consider orientation to be a preference; an extreme one. Age happens to be a preference for some people.

I don't get turned on by two gay guys in their 20's making out at all. Should I then call this disgusting and weird? No, I shouldn't, and you shouldn't call gay guys disgusting and weird for having a large age difference just because it isn't appealing to you. I accept that it makes others happy even if it is not for me.

 

[Luka]

OK attention people who hate me for my opinion:

1. I am very straight forward and dont care what you people think of me for voicing my opinions, yes they are harsh and mean and whatever you wanna call them, but thats how I feel.

2. I do actually view this as a numbers game, younger guys should not be hanging out with older guys at all, there is definetley something messed up in the younger guys heads who like older guys...must have been something that happened to them as a child?

3. If you fall in Love with someone much older, you must be trying to fill the oid of either not having a father, or having a father who disowns you becuase you are gay, thats ll I can think of as to why you would want someone from a completley different generation.

4. I am a critical person, but I'm also a nice guy in the real world, I am using this forum to express my feelings because I am not this straight forward in person and seeing everyones reactions makes me laugh.

5. I don't hate the younger guys who like older guys, but I will hound you about liking them. I don't hate older gays either but I would never hang out with them.

6. This is one reason people don't like gay's becasue older guys are trying to get younger ones and the parents end up hating their children becasue of it and tell everyone else about it which spreads the hate. So yes it is partially old/younger relationships which casue the hate towards gays.

 

[3nipples]

6. This is one reason people don't like gay's becasue older guys are trying to get younger ones and the parents end up hating their children becasue of it and tell everyone else about it which spreads the hate. So yes it is partially old/younger relationships which casue the hate towards gays.

This has to be the funniest bit of "reasoning" yet, LOL.

 

[Willie Boy]

OK attention people who hate me for my opinion:

1. I am very straight forward and dont care what you people think of me for voicing my opinions, yes they are harsh and mean and whatever you wanna call them, but thats how I feel.

2. I do actually view this as a numbers game, younger guys should not be hanging out with older guys at all, there is definetley something messed up in the younger guys heads who like older guys...must have been something that happened to them as a child?

3. If you fall in Love with someone much older, you must be trying to fill the oid of either not having a father, or having a father who disowns you becuase you are gay, thats ll I can think of as to why you would want someone from a completley different generation.

4. I am a critical person, but I'm also a nice guy in the real world, I am using this forum to express my feelings because I am not this straight forward in person and seeing everyones reactions makes me laugh.

5. I don't hate the younger guys who like older guys, but I will hound you about liking them. I don't hate older gays either but I would never hang out with them.

6. This is one reason people don't like gay's becasue older guys are trying to get younger ones and the parents end up hating their children becasue of it and tell everyone else about it which spreads the hate. So yes it is partially old/younger relationships which casue the hate towards gays.

Who the fuck are you to decide what other people should do with their lives? What are you, some straight guy who voted to ban gay marriage? What is with this unrelenting prejudice you have? Next you'll insist white guys and black guys can't have sex with each other! Maybe Mexicans won't be allowed to have sex with anyone! Don't you realize you are defining yourself as an agist bigot?

Personally I don't care what you think. But when you try to state an opinion so judgmental as yours as a valid fact, you make all of us on this website look like hypocritical fools.

 

[snoopydog]

I'm 41, and have been celebate since I was 19, but that's another topic. My sister always tells me 'find a nice guy and just be happy'. Well, I'm the only gay guy in the nursing department at work, but there's this guy in housekeeping that is 28. The first thing that caught my eye was his size. I love bigger guys. You can have the skinny twinks, they're eye candy to be sure, but big guys just do something to me. I dunno. A safety and security feeling, I guess. The next thing was 'oh, doesn't he have a lovely smile'. Anyhoo, he's coming over this weekend for dinner. My first date in decades. I'll fix a nice chicken and vegetables. My sister is worried because he comes from a rougher part of town. I keep my place very nice. My brother calls my apartment 'the dollhouse'. I think that this fella at work will be very comfortable in my home.

In short, age doesn't matter. What matters is how you feel and how he feels. Love will blind you to everything but love.

 

[jawswho]

I'm 44 and I'm going out with a 27 year old this weekend. Sorry we stole another!

 

[Luka]

you make all of us on this website look like hypocritical fools.

Yea you pretty much are.....

I'm 41, but there's this guy in housekeeping that is 28. Anyhoo, he's coming over this weekend for dinner. My first date in decades.

In short, age doesn't matter. What matters is how you feel and how he feels. Love will blind you to everything but love.

OK well he probly is going out with you becasue he is bigger and cant find anyone his own age attracted to him.

I'm 44 and I'm going out with a 27 year old this weekend. Sorry we stole another!

Thanks for apologizing, tell the 27 year old i say hes gross, thnx.

 

[Luka]

Sweet this is the biggest thread ive ever started, MUAHAHAHA

 

[Luka]

Women are better? I'm bi, but I don't believe if that's got any truth to it. If it were true, many of us would probably pretend to be straight.

Oh your bi...so you opinion doesnt matter anyway, good to know!

 

[snoopydog]

OK well he probly is going out with you becasue he is bigger and cant find anyone his own age attracted to him.

When the info under your avatar changes from 'single' to 'partnered', I'll be more inclined to take relationship advice from you, but thanks for your opinion.

 

[Luka]

When the info under your avatar changes from 'single' to 'partnered', I'll be more inclined to take relationship advice from you, but thanks for your opinion.

Partnered is a very lame term, I hate it so you will never see that under my Avatar, lol

 

[snoopydog]

Partnered is a very lame term, I hate it so you will never see that under my Avatar, lol

Well, me being an old fuddy duddy, 'partnered' sounds lovely.

Nontheless, you understand.

 

[Luka]

Well, me being an old fuddy duddy, 'partnered' sounds lovely.

Nontheless, you understand.

The term partner is just a term us gay people stole to name our relationships so they could appear different from straight people, If we didnt make such a big deal about everything maybe they wouldnt see us as so different. See this goes right back to my feelings that younger/old relationships give us a bad name, right along with prancing around like little ferries, and shoving our gayness down everyones throats, having a gay flag, and Gay pride festivals. Thats is why they hate us becasue we need to be the center of attention.

I am listing these things, I do partake in some of them, but I'm just saying thats why they hate us so much and dont was us to have rights.