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Learn what Gender Dysphoria is. Caitlyn calls herself female. To me, it's she not he. It's the same way that I see and refer with Chaz Bono. He not she.
I've only 'slightly' known 2 transgendered people. Both were male to female. One I knew was on hormones. The other one was quite young and I lost contact over 20yrs ago.
I'll admit, I couldn't really wrap my head around the issue until I hit my 40's.
Pretty much this.
It is really sad to read some of the transphobic comments here. There is such staggering ignorance about what makes up a person's sexual identity. The idea that you define someone by whether they have a penis or vagina indicates that people haven't even taken the least bit of time or effort to understand the complexities of human chemistry and sexuality.
For homos to be bandying about terms like 'Freak' or Mentally Ill is pretty fucking arrogant given the number of straight people out there who think the same about us.
There's no doubt that Caitlyn Jenner is a media fame whore. None at all. And there's no doubt that Caitlyn has not proven to be the ideal model for other transexuals to look up to...shallow, spoiled, judgemental and disconnected from the real struggles that 90% of other transexuals go through because of the ET/Kardashian fame machine and money tree.
But I am more than happy to give any individual the respect for their choice to live as the gender they feel most comfortable and happy with. Whether they choose to maintain the external genitalia they were born with means nothing because it has been medically proven that sex organs alone do not define sexual identity.
I also have no trouble with the concept that transexuals may waver back and forth in their identity any more than I have trouble with the idea that bisexuals experience a spectrum of sexual attraction to males and females.
There are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio,
Than are dreamt of in your philosophy.
- Hamlet (1.5.167-8), Hamlet to Horatio

