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Discrimination against the older gay man

NineOfClubs said:
This is just about what I wanted to say, Puka!

If you're older, and keep in shape, are clean, open-minded, friendly, care about your looks and clothing, etc.. Then you stand a pretty good chance getting laid.

If you've become an out of shape, slovenly, old gossip/barfly/troll--well then, no surprises huh?
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In other words, old isn't the issue. "Out of shape, slovenly, YOUNG gossip/barfly/trolls" don't get laid much either I'd imagine. Older guys can be desirable...Pushy, trashy and desperate only appeals to guys with serious self-esteem issues or those employed in the oldest profession in the world. No?
 
tbonez said:
In other words, old isn't the issue. "Out of shape, slovenly, YOUNG gossip/barfly/trolls" don't get laid much either I'd imagine. Older guys can be desirable...Pushy, trashy and desperate only appeals to guys with serious self-esteem issues or those employed in the oldest profession in the world. No?
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Yes, I think that's it exactly.
 
age dont matter, they can be older, but they can't feel like an old person. if they just sit there and wait, of course nothing much is going to happen.
 
the old guys in gay bars scare me. they sit and stare, it;s like go home!

I've seen more old ppl in gay clubs/bars than in str8 ones.

If u ain't got anyone by that age, u should re-evalute yourself and your lifestyle.
 
I find older gay men more attractive than guys my own age. But yes I do seem to see that happen a lot lately anywhere.
 
taccky said:
age dont matter, they can be older, but they can't feel like an old person.
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I know what you mean about when people "feel like an old person" A bit leathery on the outside and a touch mushy in the middle. Just like an overripe pear.

They shouldn't smell like an old person either...That combination of mothballs and Lilley of the valley just screams "coffin dodger".
 
The_Pianist said:
Oh. Hello.

I'm drinking the usual; Tetley loose leaf orange pekoe.

I also have some loose leaf Chai and Earl Grey, plus a few herbal blends.

Would you like any?
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Yes please, orange pekoe sounds great.

aww good tea and a interesting thread. :rolleyes:
 
I find it a bit amusing, really, that the gay world seems to consider "older" to be anything over 30. Especially in porn.

I know people in their 70s who still ski 30 days a year, run marathons, take 7 day bicycle trips across the Rockies. I know people who are 40 and are done-for beer-swilling cigarette-smoking wrecks. Genetics has a lot to do with how you age, but so do lifestyle choices.

I knew one woman who, at age 89, decided she was bored with her life and joined the Peace Corps. I've met Frank Lloyd Wright's granddaughter, who -- now in her 80s -- works full time with her own architectural practice, designing environmentally low-impact buildings.

Personally, given a choice between spending time with interesting people like that and a gorgeous but airheaded 21-year old guy who's only interested in me for sex, I'd take the sex. :lol:

No, actually, I'd take the interesting people. (Thought I was taking myself a bit too seriously there.) ;)
 
Old....let themselves go. Gee, you swear that this was a hollywood film where nobody is ever over the age of 25 and we all look like we haven't eaten a meal since colour tv was invented.

Hey you won't mind if I had a cup of tea (like Earl Grey myself) but there now would you? I've brought some :corn: for us!
 
screwnutty said:
Old....let themselves go. Gee, you swear that this was a hollywood film where nobody is ever over the age of 25 and we all look like we haven't eaten a meal since colour tv was invented.

Hey you won't mind if I had a cup of tea (like Earl Grey myself) but there now would you? I've brought some :corn: for us!
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So true...

I find the whole twink infatuation that a lot of gay men have, detrimental to the community. I mean, a high school looking "guy" shouldn't be something that many men (over 18 ) should lust after, because as we get older, we can't look like a teenager. So wrongfully, a premium seems to be on teenagers looking "guys".
 
I tried to not sound so judgmental, but I think I didn't do a good job. I think my criticism can be taken as constructive rather than negative.

I hope my comments weren't taken as a slight, but more just an observation rather than a criticism.
 
Well bottom boys do have a shorter shelf life than their top counterparts - do your best to remain versatile; eventually all the aging bottoms will be knocking at your door... :)

craigs list is littered with desperate aging bottoms just begging for anything stiff - pop a few viagra and take your pick.
 
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