braex27
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I'm not trying to pick on you, personally, Braex27.
I'm trying to poke holes in this virtual reality that you (and so many closeted gay men) construct.
Nobody believes in this "reality" except you. (See thread title)
Accepting that will make it much easier to accept yourself and come out.
I don't feel picked on Lube, personally, or otherwise. And I don't think it's a virtual reality, but that's just me. Just because people suspect does not mean they know. There is a big difference. I know that not everyone knows - how I know that is quite irrelevant. Maybe I am one of the exceptions to your thread?
I don't know what kind of friends I surround myself with - or what kind of friend I am - we just don't really talk about relationships really - if you asked me now, I couldn't name most of who my friends are seeing and the ones I can name are either married to each other, engaged or on the verge of becoming engaged. Maybe we just run with different crowds?
I know that my friends were there for me through several difficult periods - all of which were non-relationship related - and I was there to help them through several crises, the majority of which were non-relationship related. One or two were, but they're the exception and not the rule.
Anyway it's all much of a muchness really, isn't it?