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Re: How do I retaliate against betrayl, backstabbing, and hurtfulness from fake friends?

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GET PROFESSIONAL HELP! ... Please.
 
Re: How do I retaliate against betrayl, backstabbing, and hurtfulness from fake friends?

How do you deal with it? By letting it go.

What you're doing is comparable to trying to swim while having a 200 pound anchor strapped to your back. Eventually you're going to tire, and the anchor will push you under. If that's what you want, then do it. Stop fighting against the weight and let it push you under the waves. If that's not what you want, and you'd like your life back from those that control it at present, then you'd better explore the alternatives to what you're currently doing, because you're not being successful.

You forgive him/them, not for himself/themselves, but for you. You stop consenting to be a continual victim, and you let go of your continuing anger. For one thing, by doing what you're doing, you are letting anyone who may have harmed you in the past win. They remain in control of your life, your actions, your reactions, and your emotions. The only person your anger is harming is you.

If you aren't able to do this on your own, professional help, as has been suggested by numerous people up-thread, is the way to go.

One final point: your whole 'persona' seems strikingly similar to one or two others who have wandered through here as of late.
 
Re: How do I retaliate against betrayl, backstabbing, and hurtfulness from fake friends?

STOP with these childish pseudo-help-me threads. You do nothing but ignore and refuse advice given to you.
 
Re: How do I retaliate against betrayl, backstabbing, and hurtfulness from fake friends?

^ but he died bankrupt and alone :(

I'm more in the Stalin camp. Disagreeing with me? To the gulag, da? :twisted:




btw. im totally kinda kidding.
 
Re: How do I retaliate against betrayl, backstabbing, and hurtfulness from fake friends?

You either need some serious time in a mental health facility or you are very good at trolling.

WHICH ONE IS IT?!?!?!?!?
 
Re: How do I retaliate against betrayl, backstabbing, and hurtfulness from fake friends?

STOP with these childish pseudo-help-me threads. You do nothing but ignore and refuse advice given to you.



^^^^
This. ..|
 
Re: How do I retaliate against betrayl, backstabbing, and hurtfulness from fake friends?

go get laid

Why so he can start a thread:

"How can I get revenge on my penis for cumming to early as I lost my virginity at age 43?"
 
Re: How do I retaliate against betrayl, backstabbing, and hurtfulness from fake friends?

Hi. It's me again. You know,
You must be wretched like every other human being. Dishonest, self-focused and vapid.
yep. You don't seem all that worried about traumatising ME with your petty name-calling. What if I'm terminally emotionally damaged now? Should I retaliate?
Do you have any idea why I can't make you say nicer things about me?
 
Re: How do I retaliate against betrayl, backstabbing, and hurtfulness from fake friends?

When you attack me i must defend myself. People who comment in the way you did usually comment in that regard because they embody everything that was facing oposition in my previous posing. Tough luck. I'm the one people attacked here, not you.


Hi. It's me again. You know,
yep. You don't seem all that worried about traumatising ME with your petty name-calling. What if I'm terminally emotionally damaged now? Should I retaliate?
Do you have any idea why I can't make you say nicer things about me?
 
Re: How do I retaliate against betrayl, backstabbing, and hurtfulness from fake friends?

Snore.

Really, it took you a 1/2 month to get back to this trolling thread? Too busy doing what exactly?
 
Re: How do I retaliate against betrayl, backstabbing, and hurtfulness from fake friends?

They aren't childish and the help needed is legitimate. You may have a problem with it for whatever reason ....perhaps you're a little emphathy less ....or who knows what else

But if you have nothing insightful to say perhaps you should keep all comments to yourself.

You seem to be just as attacking as i've described. Bizzaredly bitter, outspoken, and innapropriate. You act the part but obviously have a problem with seeing it.


STOP with these childish pseudo-help-me threads. You do nothing but ignore and refuse advice given to you.
 
Re: How do I retaliate against betrayl, backstabbing, and hurtfulness from fake friends?

Neither....i need help but not of that kind. Again, that anger in your response is a little odd, I don't know where that comes from but perhaps you need a little help with that.


You either need some serious time in a mental health facility or you are very good at trolling.

WHICH ONE IS IT?!?!?!?!?
 
Re: How do I retaliate against betrayl, backstabbing, and hurtfulness from fake friends?

I'm sure I'm attacked just as often. The difference is I don't care. Or really even notice. So far, this obliviousness has contributed to my success in life.

I recommend it.
 
Re: How do I retaliate against betrayl, backstabbing, and hurtfulness from fake friends?

Stikes? This isn't a baseball game. Nothing is whoring. Help is needed. Period.

*yawn*

We've already told you the same thing. Even your own username is an admission that you need to seek help.

Attention-whoring much? This was your third chance. I'm calling you out on strikes.
 
Re: How do I retaliate against betrayl, backstabbing, and hurtfulness from fake friends?

just exactly what type of help do you think we can gi..


..forget it; thread not worth responding to

but since I opened it...might as well post

Congratulations to you!

And another post for me. :lol:
 
Re: How do I retaliate against betrayl, backstabbing, and hurtfulness from fake friends?

The time of incident isn't a talking point. Pain is pain and lasts forever if not probably dealt with. That is why i've gone to certain lengths to seek the help i need. (ie- go online and talk about my problems such as i've done here).

And as for my age:

How dare you?

You are seemingly of the same nature of the creep who did that to me...completely disassociated with reality and only wanting to back himself up no matter what he's done. The age isn't the focus. The betrayl, backstabbing, leaking of information with the intent to ruin is. That is the mind of an antagonist and villian...not someone who was given the "go ahead" by staff at the school whose merit was 5 stars and praised by many.

As for me allegedly posting the same topic in many different ways to get answers...i don't know what it is you mean by that but in a free forum in a free world i can post whatever i please as long as it isn't menacing and the like.

Put on your big boy panties and grow up. This was a long time ago and you still want to get even for something that you were doing wrong to begin with. YOU LIED about your age. This is what ALL POLITICIANS do is LIE dont you read/see the news.

So seeking professional help would be good for you
. As it looks like your repost the same topic different ways to get answers.
 
Re: How do I retaliate against betrayl, backstabbing, and hurtfulness from fake friends?

On the contrary the feeling of not allowing someone to stomp all over you by defending yourself effectively and causing them harm can be the most fullfilling and mind easing, releasing thing in the world.

Honestly im not trying to sound rude by any means! But just move on! Yeah it was a dick move by your buddy....but how exactly is getting back at him going to change anything that happened? ITS NOT!! seriously don't try and give me the eye for an eye speech its a bunch of BS dont waste your energy on someone for revenge cause honestly it doesnt work or make you feel better. Just let it go and move on and away from the person. Be the bigger man. Hope it works out for ya good luck! =D
 
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