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GOProud NOT invited to CPAC 2012

News flash: It's possible tpo be ideologically conservative and not be Republican. In point of fact, to define oneself as ideologically conservative it is pretty much mandatory NOT to identify as Republican these days, as the party has demonstrated time and again that it only pays lip service to even what it defines as conservative values whilst doing the exact opposite. Also, the Republican party has totally lost sight of what it means to be classically conservative, i.e., small government and fiscal independence. They will use the language, but every single thing they actually do and advocate demonstrates opposite, unless it functions with regards to who the party defines as its tribal enemies.

Similarly, one can be ideologically liberal and not be democrat. Again, the party has lost sight of what that term means thanks to some bizarre troibal crystallisation of those notions within American culture. Believe it or not, one can function politically and ideologically outside of the moronically polar proscriptions of pervasive cultural preconception: One does not haveto automatically define as "liberal" or "conservative;" one can merely be CONSIDERED, in essence, define one's politics based on a technical, nuts and bolts appraisal of WHAT IS REQUIRED. This is what politics should be for: maintaining the flow and function of society, maintaining the freedom and dignity of those of which society is comprised. All else is frippery and nonsense.

The notion that you are even surprised that a U.S. "conservative" group rejects homosexuals even when they are in ideological agreement is laughable, utterly laughable given how entrenched homophobica has become in what your culture defines as ideologically "conservative" (even when it clearly isn't). Newsflash: the (post) modern, self defined "conservatives" of America are, for all intents and purpose, tribal lunatics; they have demonstrated time and again the proclivity to throw some of their most rabid supporters under the bus (or sacrifice them on the altar) when it suits their agendas. As for "small government," yeah; small government for us and our financialy interests, MASSIVE, invasive, bed-room dwelling, sex obsessed, privacy-corroding government when it comes to those we've defined as our tribal enemies.

From the outside, the U.S. comes off as culturaly schizophrenic. The out and out lunatics, anti-intellectuals, tribal demagogues and hypocritical charlatans the Republicans in particular allow to speak for them would be out of work in a heartbeat here in the U.K. if they dared spout one breath of the nonsense they seem to on a daily basis, regardless of what political party they represented. Those of you who define yourselves as conservative, and I mean GENUINELY conservative, rather than the tribal, hypocritical nonsense that the term is currently saddled with, need to stand the fuck up and stop these lunatics speaking on your behalf, unless you want U.S. conservatism to become synonymous with lunacy, idiocy and obstinate self destruction.
 
Yeah, those hairy drag queen nuns are becoming a real nuisance in SF. :-)

You do realise that the VAST majority of San Francisco is straight, right? And that the vast majority of gays in San Francisco probably live in the outer suburbs of the city?

Much like "the Hollywood elite" and "hometown values", "San Francisco gays" is a stupid catchphrase that sounds good on Fox News, but doesn't much represent reality.
 
They really are fools. I know there are conservative gays but the problem is..the GOP party platform for the time being requires you to kiss up to the religious right.
That means the LGBT is hated..and no amount of kissing up to them will change that.

I wish there was a LGBT organization that was meant for libertarian & conservative gays, regardless of party affiliation.
 
Yeah, those hairy drag queen nuns are becoming a real nuisance in SF. :-)

You do realise that the VAST majority of San Francisco is straight, right? And that the vast majority of gays in San Francisco probably live in the outer suburbs of the city?

Much like "the Hollywood elite" and "hometown values", "San Francisco gays" is a stupid catchphrase that sounds good on Fox News, but doesn't much represent reality.

Heck yeah. Don't be dissing the Gayborhood JayQueer. Not all are the excess that many come to know and hate. In fact, many are quite homey and comfortable places. (I'm thinking Lakeview in Chicago, which is often defined as an 'older gay' area, but a lot of gays go there because its not Boystown insanity)
 
I'm actually surprised, usually much of the GOP jumps at the chance of having tokens around. Now they can't point to GOProud and say see we accept gay people in the party, sure we don't ever want them to have the same legal rights as us and it is a part of a platform to make sure they never do, but we are proud to take their money and have them vote for us.
 
At least we all don't have to go through the endless nonsense leading up to 2012 with the party trolls posting about how the Republicans love homos.

That dog don't hunt anymore.
 
I read about this on the Advocate's website yesterday. Really had a good chuckle about it in a pathetic, witnessing a train wreck sort of way. I just don't get how gay gay-haters who obviously put money above everything else, can expect to be embraced by a party that despises them for the very essence of who they are.

Let the jerk wads continue to give the GOP money. They will never see the light, they are dysfunctional, and while our economy goes to hell in a hand-basket, they will feel it like the rest of us.
 
This is bad. We won't gain nationwide acceptance if we don't make any headway within the Republican party. There is a stark divide between Democratic acceptance of gay rights and Republican acceptance of gay rights, with independents evenly divided. Would you rather have steady support from members of all political parties or uniform support from one party? Democrats are virtually uniform in their support of gay rights, with upwards of 75% supporting gay marriage. Support for lesser rights is even higher. I'm assuming that the remaining 25% is comprised of religious people with whom other Democratic policies happen to resonate. What I'm saying is, support for gay rights can't get much higher among Democrats, and even if it does, we should expect to see it plateau after a while. Regardless, Democrats do not make up more than half of the voting public, and we will need more than just Democratic support in order to really start seeing a difference in these state ballots referendums against gay marriage. We've hit the threshold, and we will need to pull off what happened in New York last month if we are going to get any further. We shouldn't dismiss GOProud as "sell-outs." We should commend them, even if we disagree with other Republican policies, for making inroads in a traditionally anti-gay group - one which, whether we'd like to admit it or not, is the last great barrier to gay acceptance. If we continue to disparage gay conservatives, we will hit a brick wall to progress. Not to mention, it is antithetical to everything we stand for.

(PS. I'm not saying we should vote Republican. They still need to know they can't flip us off and still win by a landslide every year. We need to change minds.)
 
What inroads?

At the end of the day, GOProud is handed an open rejection by the God's Own Party. What exactly did they accomplish except to make it very clear to the entire nation that their tent doesn't have room for homos and thereby legitimize the ongoing attacks against our civil rights?

The fact is, in the last election, starting around 2007, the wonks figured out that they needed every demo they could get. The trolls hit the forums talking about how great the Repubs really were and how their efforts at reaching out to the homos showed how much had changed.

When it was increasingly clear that they weren't going to capture this demographic and that pandering to it threatened the security of the trailer dwelliing T-Bagger christian fundie base, they returned to the old ways of using scare tactics about homo marriage and DADT repeal to gin up their congregation.

This election cycle, we already see it on the boards:

'Gee kids, what have the Dems actually done for you, er, I mean ...US? C'mon over to the Repubs where we will stand for all the other things you hate or are afraid of. '

There are the usual shibboleths about how sexuality shouldn't be the thing that defines you or who you support blah, blah, blah...but at the end of the day, most of us know that it is some joyless little creep going through reparative therapy or RNC housewife volunteers that are sitting there in the dark posting their siren song to get one vote away from the liberals.

What is different this time though is that the T-Baggers are not an unknown factor in 2012. We know them, We see them, We have to listen to them. It is clear that they are mostly far right christian fundamentalists with a strong desire to force social change that includes limiting or removing rights for homos. It won't matter a damn this time when they sidle up to us in the men's room at Sears and try to make us believe that their main interest is to keep government out of people's lives.
 
This is bad. We won't gain nationwide acceptance if we don't make any headway within the Republican party. There is a stark divide between Democratic acceptance of gay rights and Republican acceptance of gay rights, with independents evenly divided. Would you rather have steady support from members of all political parties or uniform support from one party? Democrats are virtually uniform in their support of gay rights, with upwards of 75% supporting gay marriage. Support for lesser rights is even higher. I'm assuming that the remaining 25% is comprised of religious people with whom other Democratic policies happen to resonate. What I'm saying is, support for gay rights can't get much higher among Democrats, and even if it does, we should expect to see it plateau after a while. Regardless, Democrats do not make up more than half of the voting public, and we will need more than just Democratic support in order to really start seeing a difference in these state ballots referendums against gay marriage. We've hit the threshold, and we will need to pull off what happened in New York last month if we are going to get any further. We shouldn't dismiss GOProud as "sell-outs." We should commend them, even if we disagree with other Republican policies, for making inroads in a traditionally anti-gay group - one which, whether we'd like to admit it or not, is the last great barrier to gay acceptance. If we continue to disparage gay conservatives, we will hit a brick wall to progress. Not to mention, it is antithetical to everything we stand for.

(PS. I'm not saying we should vote Republican. They still need to know they can't flip us off and still win by a landslide every year. We need to change minds.)

I completely agree with your assessment here.

However, let me add, that "gay conservatives" are NEVER going to gain acceptance within the Republican Party, or develop any inroads, until they start reaching out and educating those within their party of choice who hate them the most.

They need to stop trying to appeal to the fiscal conservatives that they appear to most agree with, and start developing in roads with the "social conservative/less government" types.

If THAT faction of the GOP is truly who they say that they are, how can they advocate for MORE government legislation against two consenting adults of the same gender, within their own bedrooms?

Free will, free association.

Until Gay Conservatives effectively win that debate within the GOP, Republicans will always use our rights as a "wedge issue" for the GOP Evangelical base, and a reason to continue to exclude them from the Big Tent.

Personally?

I'd rather continue to poke their butts with my "conservative fat democratic cock," and make fun of them for being some of the best bottom boys that I've ever fucked, while I send them off to their Log Cabin Party meetings. :p

I'm sorry I was just[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wV1FrqwZyKw&ob=av2e"] Born This Way[/ame]. ;)

It's more fun, and after I can go out for burgers, fries and beer with my Democrat friends, still be a "conservative democrat" and focus on reeling in the liberal nut jobs within the Democratic Party. ..|

:gogirl:

I'm just saying! :kiss:
 
I would think they uninvited gays this year, not like last convention, is because of the Tea Party wacktivists™. They joined the GOP and have taken over the whole affair. Just like what is going on in the House.
 
success in politics depends on success at the polls - which means voter turnout

turnout is often delivered by emotional appeals

the GOP has used the homophobia of christain groups and others to get out the vote

the GOP is happy to take gay money and votes,

but they have to play the "gay agenda" card to rally the troops
 
I would think they uninvited gays this year, not like last convention, is because of the Tea Party wacktivists™. They joined the GOP and have taken over the whole affair. Just like what is going on in the House.

I'm sure that they're counting on Texas Governor Rick Perry being there, and they wouldn't want to give him any cause to jump their bones in a back alley, or hallway of the convention center. :p
 
^ I have to think that Perry is a deeply closeted self-hating homosexual, the likes we haven't seen since the last one.
 
This rumor had to be before 2006? Why am I just now hearing about it.
Oh, I know. I didn't figure out the comments so why should I know this?
 
Perry believes in nothing other than his own political career. He was elected first as a Democrat, and also was Al Gore's campaign manager as well as endorser, in 1988.
 
I'm just disheartened right now. This is a major blow.....

I'm just a really traditional kind of person. I want to marry a man & raise a family in the suburbs.

You can be assured that today's Republican Party will do their DAMNDEST to assure that you will be forbidden from ever fulfilling that dream.

No marriage for gay couples! And most CERTAINLY no way do they want any gay couples to raise children into a horrible life of faggotry, misery and depravity.

Your dream is pure anathema to them.
 
This is bad. We won't gain nationwide acceptance if we don't make any headway within the Republican party. There is a stark divide between Democratic acceptance of gay rights and Republican acceptance of gay rights, with independents evenly divided.

Independents are NOT evenly divided. Their support is basically identical to Democrats.

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You can be assured that today's Republican Party will do their DAMNDEST to assure that you will be forbidden from ever fulfilling that dream.

No marriage for gay couples! And most CERTAINLY no way do they want any gay couples to raise children into a horrible life of faggotry, misery and depravity.

Your dream is pure anathema to them.

JayQueer, ^^ this...1,000x this.

I can respect that you like the more conservative ideas, but the GOP doesn't want you at their party. No matter how many times you say "cut taxes."

Granted, if the GOP was following their beliefs, they wouldn't give a crap about gay marriage because attempting to forbid said marriage would require the government to grow larger and more invasive. In theory, the opposite of what they want.

Disconnect "conservative" from "Republican" and I bet you will feel much better about the whole thing!
 
I have been to San Francisco several times. It's not my cup of tea. Too crowded & too urban for my taste. I was chased by a hairy drag queen dressed as a nun (apparently that's normal !?!) when I visited the Castro.

The only neighborhood I really liked in San Francisco was St. Francis Wood. It was the only part of the city of San Francisco that felt suburban, quiet, & safe. Of course, you have to have $$$$ to afford one of those mansions.

Did you ever stop to realize that the lifestyle you want so desperately is the very thing that has given you the life you hate so much? Your suburban existence has made you fat, which has caused or added to your depression, in addition to the loneliness you hate so much. When is the last time you walked for an hour, surfed at the beach, rode your bike 20 miles, played neighborhood soccer or basketball, or played water polo at the local Y?

As the USA has subsidized the suburban welfare lifestyle Americans have gained scores of lbs. Living in a gated community all safe and sound apart from both nature and your neighbors has created this major sense of aloneness so many Americans have.
 
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