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How many sexual partners have you had?

I wouldn't do that if I were a multi millionaire. Buying is for material things, not people. If nobody wants to be with me for who I am, then buying such a situation with money, would not make it real. Not even close. Therefore, I wll not do that...

I've no problems with your position as to the overall point of your post, but the one reason you gave, the highlighted, is rather weak.

One doesn't purchase a 'people' when one pays for the service of a hooker any more than one purchases a doctor/surgeon who lances a boil, or a restaurateur/cook who prepares one's meals.

You don't have full title/certificate of ownership to your hairstylist/barber, do you? ;)
 
I've no problems with your position as to the overall point of your post, but the one reason you gave, the highlighted, is rather weak.

One doesn't purchase a 'people' when one pays for the service of a hooker any more than one purchases a doctor/surgeon who lances a boil, or a restaurateur/cook who prepares one's meals.

You don't have full title/certificate of ownership to your hairstylist/barber, do you? ;)

I feel like I need to add the disclaimer that I've never hired a prostitute/escort myself (though I did give it serious thought about 6-7 years ago in my mid-20's, during a particularly rough patch of dating... not that I couldn't have gotten sex for free, I was just tired of the bullshit games), but yeah... I don't understand why trading sex for money is different than selling any other kind of labor trade.
 
I wouldn't do that if I were a multi millionaire. Buying is for material things, not people. If nobody wants to be with me for who I am, then buying such a situation with money, would not make it real. Not even close. Therefore, I wll not do that...

When have you ever given them the chance to like you? You dismiss them all without even giving them the same respect of a first chance.
 
You don't have full title/certificate of ownership to your hairstylist/barber, do you?

I cut my own hair. Barbers cost money, and aggravation...
 
I feel like I need to add the disclaimer that I've never hired a prostitute/escort myself (though I did give it serious thought about 6-7 years ago in my mid-20's, during a particularly rough patch of dating... not that I couldn't have gotten sex for free, I was just tired of the bullshit games), but yeah... I don't understand why trading sex for money is different than selling any other kind of labor trade.

I view sex, and relationships as being different from hiring a plumber, or mechanic. I won't pay for something I think should be with desire, and feelings, between two people...
 
^Bollocks!
In my single days, i enjoyed some great knee-tremblers, at the back of the clubs, with some great fellas, without even knowing their name's I know. What a tart, eh.
 
Its no big deal really.Our Cessna went down over a little island.I survived,and after a few weeks of not being rescued,I started to get a little lonely/horny....enough said. :eek: :lol:

I guess sixthson was right afterall! :lol:

I really DON'T want any more details about 1/2 (or less)! :eek: :help: :-< [-X

SO ... How about telling us about holes in the sandy beach, palm fronds, jelly fish, Blue Lagoons ( *|* ), and other possible "Island Pleasures"? (!) (!w!) :badgrin: (group)

And, all the Other reasons to ... No Matter What ...

Keep Smilin'!! :kiss: (*8*)
Chaz :luv:
 
Don't really know.. If I had to guess... in the high hundreds to 1500.

And that is being conservative.
 
^Bollocks!
In my single days, i enjoyed some great knee-tremblers, at the back of the clubs, with some great fellas, without even knowing their name's I know. What a tart, eh.

Yeah....me too. I always feel like I have to speak up in favor of great sex with a stranger....it rocks!
 
Eh. Relationships require sex and desire. Sucking my dick does NOT.

Wouldn't someone have to desire you or at least desire your dick before they sucked it? And if they did suck it, wouldn't that be sex?
 
I wasn't going to answer this question, but since others did, I will. I am 68 and have had 0 partners. Even though I came of age in the sixties and seventies, I was afraid of being rejected and/or caught and getting beaten up, catching a disease, embarrassing my family, losing my job, and eventually going to hell.

This is so unbelieveably sad to me. To let these reasons keep you from enjoying the love and companionship of another man is heartbreaking. I certainly didn't. I feel in love when I was 17 in 1975 and nothing was going to keep me from spending the rest of our lives together, well, at least until he passed on but not after 34 yrs. I personally didn't give a shit what my family thought but they loved him just the same and treated him like my spouse. It's not too late, get out there and find a guy to spend some time with. I'm younger than you, but not by much, and who gives a shit anymore.
 
I think it requires living in the different areas of the country to understand Rickrock. I don't find it surprising at all, but I do agree with Ibill that it is never too late.

Working on it myself.

I can understand, but am not all that Sure, about how living in different areas of the country might have been Rick's driving factors as much as, perhaps, "social standing".

I've traveled, and lived, all over the country. What followed me Everywhere was growing up as a Preacher's Kid. I was raised under a small spot light. Everyone KNEW who I was, no matter Where I was. I never Knew just who might be watching, and later gossiping about, what I might be up to. I had to be Cautious ALL of the time! It was not by accident that I chose a college 500mi. away from "Home". And, even then, it wasn't always far enough away from my family's Public.

My grandparents, uncles, and cousins, were all Ministers, too. SO ... My surname was TOO well known! And, then there was that whole thing about being raised "behind" the altar, Religion-wise.

Had it not been for those circumstances, I would have had a LOT more FUN than I actually managed to.

Are you, by any chance, Rick, a P.K., too?

Though I've managed to get beyond most of it, at 63, I still have "gut reactions" to pulling in my horns, and looking over my shoulders. That ingrained Insecurity can definitely have a "dampening" effect on being able to Let Loose, and Enjoy all the opportunities that still might cum my way!

I do agree, though, that it's still Never too late! (group)

All the more reasons to ... No Matter What ...

Keep Smilin'!! :kiss: (*8*)
Chaz :luv:
 
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