i am not gay- but why do i like gay porn?

[eyesforu]

hehehe...gay thing has gotten to our heads...have u heard of the suppression/rebound effect? well this is a psychological phenomenon that occurs when we try to suppress certain thoughts/aspects of ourselves...but instead, all that happens is we rebound these thoughts/aspects into everything else we do...kinda like a latent racist...if u call a latent racist a racist he will reply with even more racist tinged language...call someone gay and he will accuse u of letting gayness get to ur head...

i did not understand anything you just said.... and i'd rather not know about it cause it's prob dumb

 

[KentuckyPython]

i know what you are saying dude.... but no, i don't like guys... i am not in denial, i know that... and getting over it? i have nothing to get over with.... i don't like guys lol, i am not living in denial.... and no one thinks i'm gay... i mean they don't know that i can't stop watching gay porn.... but when you know your not gay, your not... and in my opinion, that is the obvious truth. I'm not gay, no one in my family is gay....and i certainly ain't. And now don't think that cause my family aren't, i shouldn't be or that's what i should think.... no cause i seriously don't care, if i was gay... i'd fucking never be in denial about it.... and i'm serious. But i never thought of myself as gay.... i mean you guys are gay (probably you aren't, i really don't care) but i mean ofcourse if i ask you a question, that's the first thing that'll come to your mind

Okay, you a straight who likes to watch guys having sex. Hmmm, to top that off, you join a gay site to tell all the gay guys your straight, and then you accuse them of of being straight. No Babycakes, all posters on this thread are gay. You're in denial. As Soilwork said, when you're ready to talk about it, we're here.

 

[sentirpromesas]

lol...... but i get boners at everything... it pops out of nowhere... boners are never a way to actually find out if someone is arroused. Your situation relates exactly to me.... i mean you think it is disgusting right.... but you still watch it... maybe it's cause you see the same old same old, and new things interest you more (kinda like my situation) but i'm not gay. i'll never be

actually boners are a very good indicator of arousal...they even have psychological tests pertaining to arousal based on penis width/length change...but if u get a boner for everything (including fear factor on "cucaracha tacos week") then maybe ur just a sexual deviant...we always need some of those for diversity...

 

[KentuckyPython]

i did not understand anything you just said.... and i'd rather not know about it cause it's prob dumb

He's saying that by protesting so much, you're starting to sound gay. I'd also add that you're trying to convince yourself more than you are us.

 

[eyesforu]

actually boners are a very good indicator of arousal...they even have psychological tests pertaining to arousal based on penis width/length change...but if u get a boner for everything (including fear factor on "cucaracha tacos week") then maybe ur just a sexual deviant...we always need some of those for diversity...

yeah is that normal? i get borners when i'm reading a kid's book lol for you to get my idea

 

[eyesforu]

He's saying that by protesting so much, you're starting to sound gay. I'd also add that you're trying to convince yourself more than you are us.

really? by telling you that i like girls.... i'm proving to myself i'm gay?

 

[sentirpromesas]

my comment was more of a cock-in-cheek...ummm, i mean, tongue-in-cheek comment

 

[eyesforu]

Okay, you a straight who likes to watch guys having sex. Hmmm, to top that off, you join a gay site to tell all the gay guys your straight, and then you accuse them of of being straight. No Babycakes, all posters on this thread are gay. You're in denial. As Soilwork said, when you're ready to talk about it, we're here.

i joined this forum to get some advice from the gays, like i said i thought you'd actually understand my situation.... i mean if i give up gay porn........ that'll be it and i'll stick to straight porn, but i can't stop watching it.... i ask you guys if it is normal and all you say is that i'm gay

 

[eyesforu]

my comment was more of a cock-in-cheek...ummm, i mean, tongue-in-cheek comment

cock in cheek?

tongue in cheeK?

wow i seriously don't get your language

 

[sentirpromesas]

sweetie how old are u? u seem to not understand anything i say

 

[eyesforu]

well i have to be 18, or else i can't join the forum right?

anyways... i'm 18

 

[sentirpromesas]

...and the clouds of understanding open...and the world makes so much more sense...the nile isnt only a river in egypt my young friend...

 

[eyesforu]

...and the clouds of understanding open...and the world makes so much more sense...the nile isnt only a river in egypt my young friend...

huh?

 

[eyesforu]

I "knew" I was str8 all the way up to my teens - and then internet was made available and porn was so much more accessible. I found myself getting bored of str8 porn, and I started for some reason or another to look at gay porn. Like you - I discovered that it got me harder and off more easily and quickly than str8 porn - and for the first time, I began to collect it. I was still dating and fucking women, but would often jack off to gay stuff only, secretly and ashamedly. I would sometimes think about gay porn (not about fucking guys - just porn) while I was fucking these women.

Today - I'm gay. I don't think I can deny that - even though I've only had one long term boyfriend. I don't find women that sexually appealing anymore. And when I watch TV commercials and video clips - its the hot men that I notice - not the hot chicks.

But look dude, only you can answer the question about your sexuality. You might just be one of those str8 people that like watching gay porn - although to be honest - the only people I know who are like that tend to be women - its like how str8 guys like to watch girl on girl action. It's LIKELY that you are a latent homo sexual, but its POSSIBLE that you are just a str8 guy that likes looking at gay porn.

finally someone with real advice... thank you... that is exactly me, i know it....... i just do

 

[bayern20]

Its normal to sometimes just get a boner. I have a friend like that.

However, only watching gay porn..I'm sorry, but that suggests you are gay.

Now, eyesforu, if you dont mind me asking, how old are u?

 

[eyesforu]

Its normal to sometimes just get a boner. I have a friend like that.

However, only watching gay porn..I'm sorry, but that suggests you are gay.

Now, eyesforu, if you dont mind me asking, how old are u?

i'm 18.... i like straight porn, and i still watch it.... the fact is though i watch gay porn a lot

 

[Soilwork]

I'm starting to feel bad for this guy.. he's new, he's bargaining and he's making all sorts of ood statements like "Nobody else in my family is gay and everyone knows I'm straight".

Dude, when I was 18, I too said that there were no gay people in my family and everyone who knew me also knew I was straight. none of this means anything.

The only thing that we need to know is that by your own admission, all you watch is gay porn, and that makes you gay. Or at least bi. But probably gay.

And don't tell us that you just joined to ask us if we thought you were "normal". First, We're all normal here too. Second, you've been a member since late last year, and that means you've been scoring gay porn for a while.

It's cool. We all did it, we all INSISTED that we were straight, we KNEW we were straight and people who met us could TELL that we were straight.

But we weren't.

And neither are you.

I know it's hard for you to hear this and I know it's hard for you to accept this, but you're not straight. The sooner you come to grips with that, the sooner you'll be able to be happpier with who you are.

 

[eyesforu]

omg don't you get it? i just like gay porn... i fuck girls, i like straight porn... i like orgies. group sex all with girls, but the one thing that you have, the one fucking dumb reason is that i watch gay porn...

seriously quit it buddy.... it's going nowhere

 

[Soilwork]

seriously quit it buddy.... it's going nowhere

OK.

Well, neither are we.

when you're ready to come out, we'll be here to talk and we won't judge you or do the "I told you so" dance because we all have been exactly where you are.

Take your time.

 

[eyesforu]

OK.

Well, neither are we.

when you're ready to come out, we'll be here to talk and we won't judge you or do the "I told you so" dance because we all have been exactly where you are.

Take your time.

fine watch and see i'm not gay....