i am not gay- but why do i like gay porn?

[eyesforu]

Maybe you think gay porn is less slutty. Many of my straight friends think gay porn is much better than straight porn. It's all the screaming and dirty fucking that turns people off. Try looking at www.playgirltv.com. It's filmed much more tastefully. Most straight porn just sickens me not because of the idea of fucking a woman but it's just the way they act. It's like the man trying to rape the girl and make her scream. Well this is my opinion....

no i don't think that.... i just watch it, that's all... but according to your posts... you agree with me... if you watch gay porn it doesn't mean your gay

 

[bayern20]

What's the point of this thread?

You ask a question, we give you an honest answers, and this?

I dont think anyone has time for this shit.

You said lots of people have told you that you are straight. Well, you are on a gay forum, and about 10 people have told you that you are gay.

 

[Rockercub]

And lets face it, if you wanted to know if it was normal for a straight person to watch gay porn, you wouldn't be asking gay people. What the hell do we know about what's normal for a straight person? We're gay. Plus, if he were truly straight and pissed off, he wouldn't keep coming back. He's either gay or a troll.

 

[doctorsun]

No, watching gay porn does not mean you're gay. Being turned on by gay porn is what means you're gay. You say you're more aroused by gay porn than straight porn...that's not true of ANY truly straight guy. If you were truly straight, gay porn wouldn't turn you on at all. Strictly by the evidence you've given us, you are at least bisexual. If you don't want us to think you're gay or bisexual, offer us evidence that you're not, and repeating the words "I'm not gay, I'm straight, I KNOW it!" doesn't count. That's only going to make us think you're in denial.

You came here looking for advice and answers. People have been nothing but nice and understanding and trying to help you. You repay them by lashing out and calling them names and threatening them. You clearly have a lot of internal issues and anger to deal with, but don't take them out on the people you asked for advice from and willingly provided personal information to just because they're not telling you what you wanted to hear.

It's clear that you didn't come here for advice at all, you came looking for confirmation of what you've already convinced yourself: that it's normal for straight guys to watch and be turned on by gay porn. Well, it's not normal. At all. Not even a little bit. It doesn't happen. Sorry to burst your bubble, but it's time to face reality.

 

[thehayesman]

Ha. I love this thread! In my opinion its quite satirical. Eyesforyou is playing a game to get some attention. Young, sexually active, starting a fight, and posting back almost immediately. Screams some kind of personality disorder to me...I'll let everyone battle about which.

Probably, he is in a place of transition...assuming he's telling the truth. But yeah, I would say that being aroused by gay porn does not make him gay. People can be aroused by almost anything...including animals, pee, and coke bottles (scary but true).

If you are desiring an emotional bond and physical closeness with a guy, then you would be expressing a homosexual orientation. If you've only ever cared to be close to women, probably you are heterosexual. Relationships, not porn, should be the measure.

 

[closetkeis]

Wow...Tempers. I can't believe this went on and on. Soil makes a lot of good points. Eyes is just not ready yet. I wasn't when I was his age. The fact that his whole family is very homophobic I more reason to deny it.

 

[Soilwork]

Sorry, Hayesman, but I'm sure that the gay married men here would disagree with you.

As much as I personally think it's dysfuncational, fucked up and unhealthy in every way conceivable, there are gay men who fell in love with women, married them and are still gay.

Sorry, but being gay is about more than just relationships. It's about what makes your dick hard.

well, and love.. but this guy, if he's not just yanking our chains, is gay or possibly bi.. but I think gay. Not because I'm gay and want him to be gay, but because he's just fighting it so much without telling us that he gets hard with women.. he's just saying "I JUST KNOW I'm straight.".. like we all did.

 

[eyesforu]

Sorry, Hayesman, but I'm sure that the gay married men here would disagree with you.

As much as I personally think it's dysfuncational, fucked up and unhealthy in every way conceivable, there are gay men who fell in love with women, married them and are still gay.

Sorry, but being gay is about more than just relationships. It's about what makes your dick hard.

well, and love.. but this guy, if he's not just yanking our chains, is gay or possibly bi.. but I think gay. Not because I'm gay and want him to be gay, but because he's just fighting it so much without telling us that he gets hard with women.. he's just saying "I JUST KNOW I'm straight.".. like we all did.

fine my dick is hard when i'm with women

 

[empire_records]

I think you need a hug!

The only thing I can see is a young (dare say younger then 18 judging by reactions and misunderstanding of adult sarcasm) guy sitting at a computer, scared as hell, hoping one person, just one, will justify his claim to being straight and liking gay porn.

Unfortunately no one can validate this and no one will because its just not a happening thing.

So here is your hug

 

[CoolBlue71]

i understand how from (what i said) that you think i'm gay. But i'm seriously not.... i just love gay porn... that's it...

it's like i like beer, girls and gay porn

but if it's not normail in your opinions, than i guess i may be few of them.... i'm not gay... i have always known that, i like girls and there is no reason for me to be in denial. I'm not bi cause i seriously do not like guys. Like if i see a hot guy in the streets, i don't think of fucking his brains out...if i see a girl though, i do. Completely different. And then like in the showers.... i don't look at dicks and my dick is flat (flacid) but i stilll love gay porn. Probably it's a habit.... and then another thing.... thinking of giving a guy a blow job disgusts me, i mean sucking a dick cause i find dicks so disgusting and i'll never understand the whole reason between the gays and how much they love the cock.... i love the pussy, but i also love gay porn.... not dicks lol, gay porn

I think what you may be saying is that you're getting off on the fucking aspect. The way the males communicate sexually with each other. That they don't have to kowtow to the pressures of respecting the diversities that distinguish apart the two genders during sexual activity with an individual of the opposing sex. And that there is, in your mind, no inclinations of romantic overtures between the men -- via such depictions -- and it's hot, no-holds-barred, unapologetic fucking, baby!

If you're into checking out Kristen Bjorn stuff, then I know what you mean. It's fascinating in a way, just like with how lesbian sex depictions are to the heterosexual male constituency.

No matter what people here tell you about your sexuality, it is always up to the person walking in those shoes -- in this case, you.

I am, frankly, unable to qualify myself as heterosexual because of what I actually think and do. More importantly, in my own private thoughts. Anyway, I find myself very aroused by some of the gay porn. Some of the depictions I am not comfortable with. Now I still like looking at heterosexual porn. And in looking at that, I am not comfortable with all of that, neither. Watching women-only do it, well that doesn't really do it too much for me -- unless the context is there.

I'm going to be forward here: I'm thinking you're either going through a phase -- or you're actually bisexual. That's what I am thinking. Reason is because of what you don't say. For example, you don't say whether, while not viewing gay porn, you conjure up some of your own sexual fantasies that involve men-only. You don't say if you find some of these male performers -- and who, specifically -- very attractive and get off to the imagery of them in action. I'd also like to know if, while watching gay porn, you've come more than usual -- or about as equally -- by comparison to watching women-only or heteros doing it. But, hey, this is all okay. Not knowing your position, I can say that you don't have to declare right here, right now, whether you're heterosexual, bisexual, or homosexual. In reality, it's really up to … you!

 

[CoolBlue71]

eyesforu and everyone else,

I am in the habit of posting replies to the original poster before looking at others' responses. When doing this I can miss out on what transpires in between.

What I lost out on witnessing was a long ping-pong match between eyesforu and all who had responded.

No matter, it's clear that eyesforu wants attention.

As for why that is: Well, only eyesforu can say.

Eyesforu, I wish you well. Please keep one fact in mind: it was you who had originated this thread. Respondents here were simply willing to offer honest perspectives.

 

[cumluv]

Dude maybe your Bi but more on the straight side. It might be that you have a interest in gay sex but only subconsciously.

 

[biravatch]

i don't know what i like about it.... i just do and i find it disgusting at the same time.... i like watch 5 mins per day.... and i try not to, but i simply don't know why i still do

and that could very well be what you like about it... that it's 'disgusting'. There are a lot of straight guys into D/s who get into what's known as forced bi. Granted many of them are latent homos, but there are others who are straight and only get off on fucking guys because it's humiliating or disgusting, and carried out at the direction of a woman. Those rare individuals would be classified as straight (possibly bisexual, at least kinky as hell ... but call yourself straight if you want to, i don't give a f***) and would never even think of engaging in these acts if the female were removed from the scenario. So yes, you could be a straight guy that gets off on gay porn, but most likely you're just a queer like the rest of us.

Have a good day.

 

[eyesforu]

I think what you may be saying is that you're getting off on the fucking aspect. The way the males communicate sexually with each other. That they don't have to kowtow to the pressures of respecting the diversities that distinguish apart the two genders during sexual activity with an individual of the opposing sex. And that there is, in your mind, no inclinations of romantic overtures between the men -- via such depictions -- and it's hot, no-holds-barred, unapologetic fucking, baby!

If you're into checking out Kristen Bjorn stuff, then I know what you mean. It's fascinating in a way, just like with how lesbian sex depictions are to the heterosexual male constituency.

No matter what people here tell you about your sexuality, it is always up to the person walking in those shoes -- in this case, you.

I am, frankly, unable to qualify myself as heterosexual because of what I actually think and do. More importantly, in my own private thoughts. Anyway, I find myself very aroused by some of the gay porn. Some of the depictions I am not comfortable with. Now I still like looking at heterosexual porn. And in looking at that, I am not comfortable with all of that, neither. Watching women-only do it, well that doesn't really do it too much for me -- unless the context is there.

I'm going to be forward here: I'm thinking you're either going through a phase -- or you're actually bisexual. That's what I am thinking. Reason is because of what you don't say. For example, you don't say whether, while not viewing gay porn, you conjure up some of your own sexual fantasies that involve men-only. You don't say if you find some of these male performers -- and who, specifically -- very attractive and get off to the imagery of them in action. I'd also like to know if, while watching gay porn, you've come more than usual -- or about as equally -- by comparison to watching women-only or heteros doing it. But, hey, this is all okay. Not knowing your position, I can say that you don't have to declare right here, right now, whether you're heterosexual, bisexual, or homosexual. In reality, it's really up to … you!

thank you for that.... finally advice i can actually read and respect. I'm not bisexual, i like girls, not guys. Like i said, i get turned on by gay porn, straight porn...... but again, i made this topic to ask, why not just straight porn? why even though it makes my dick hard and i love it and watch it a lot, i also like gay porn. Now the simple answer and the most dumb answer based on everyone or almost everyone here is that i'm in denial, i'm gay, etc. However, i feel that isn't the case.... again, i'm just a straight guy who likes gay porn... that's it!

 

[bayern20]

If you had that answer..why ask us?

 

[eyesforu]

Dude maybe your Bi but more on the straight side. It might be that you have a interest in gay sex but only subconsciously.

but i don't like it lol, i just watch it, and can't stop watching it... you know what i mean? I'm not interested in gay sex, nor guys and i don't know what subconsiously means, but i'm guessing that i only think about it, not actually wanna do it, and no i don't .... i don't fantasize about gay porn, nor men. It's all women, women, women.... how many times do i have to repeat myself. Again, i just watch it.... that's it

 

[eyesforu]

and that could very well be what you like about it... that it's 'disgusting'. There are a lot of straight guys into D/s who get into what's known as forced bi. Granted many of them are latent homos, but there are others who are straight and only get off on fucking guys because it's humiliating or disgusting, and carried out at the direction of a woman. Those rare individuals would be classified as straight (possibly bisexual, at least kinky as hell ... but call yourself straight if you want to, i don't give a f***) and would never even think of engaging in these acts if the female were removed from the scenario. So yes, you could be a straight guy that gets off on gay porn, but most likely you're just a queer like the rest of us.

Have a good day.

thanks

 

[eyesforu]

If you had that answer..why ask us?

I know i'm straight, again that's not the point of the topic...lol, i was just wondering if it's normal.... but i didn't want you guys to fucking lash at me and call me gay or bi

 

[closetkeis]

What ever dude. This is getting boring!

 

[CoolBlue71]

eyesforu,

I was concerned that you were being disrespectful to those who had responded to your posts -- so maybe, maybe not.

I believe folks here will help others despite whether there's any doubts.

My concern with you is that you may have just wanted attention and set up a thread with a message that came across to some as a mixed message. Mixed, because it's rough for folks who are not heterosexual.

As for your personal position, it's been said already -- you are the one who has to march forward in your shoes. Now I've taken a guess as to your true sexual identity. Supposing I'm right, the only thing I would encourage you to do is have brains, be smart about how you conduct yourself, and take care. Whether you're heterosexual, bisexual, or homosexual, this latest thing about checking out, and being aroused by, gay porn -- well, it may be telling you that, from a sexual standpoint, you owe it to yourself to ... explore.

Good luck!