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Just got disowned by my parents

I am sorry to hear it. You should just be strong and remember all those who do support you here.
 
Smart. Just stay out of her way a while, though I'd still change the locks. Believe me, if she finds anything incriminating, she will take it and share it with family to win them to her side. Just wait a while then try to talk to her about how you really feel. Whether it be nature or nurture, your parents are the reason you are the way you are :D.
 
Telstra said:
Send her hot monthly magazine with hot naked men in it.
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Actually, it's already happened by accident. I once ordered a gay themed movie from this gay website. Then I went back to college. Unknown to me, the sons of bitches from that website started sending to my address those gay mags for gay porn. This was back in the 2000s.
 
mikey3000 said:
Smart. Just stay out of her way a while, though I'd still change the locks. Believe me, if she finds anything incriminating, she will take it and share it with family to win them to her side. Just wait a while then try to talk to her about how you really feel. Whether it be nature or nurture, your parents are the reason you are the way you are :D.
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Haha I just told my partner and he said he wants me to change the locks as soon as I get home for the holidays.
 
zombiekiller said:
Actually, it's already happened by accident. I once ordered a gay themed movie from this gay website. Then I went back to college. Unknown to me, the sons of bitches from that website started sending to my address those gay mags for gay porn. This was back in the 2000s.
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But this time,
send to her on purpose under her name.
 
zombiekiller said:
Hey, easy there, man. She's still my mom.
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Your mom who disowned you. She forfeited all rights to respect and love when she disowned you. She deserves your hate. I mean I hate many people in my family including my father.

Also you should go to war with your parents. I would utterly demolish them with vengeance. You should go to these family events with people who are supportive. They want you there and not going means that she is winning to separate you from your family. You should embrace your hatred of her. Trust me you will feel much better by being petty and vindictive it has always served me well. Hatred is one of my favorite emotions. You can't have love without hatred.
 
Mariatenebre said:
Your mom who disowned you. She forfeited all rights to respect and love when she disowned you. She deserves your hate. I mean I hate many people in my family including my father.

Also you should go to war with your parents. I would utterly demolish them with vengeance. You should go to these family events with people who are supportive. They want you there and not going means that she is winning to separate you from your family. You should embrace your hatred of her. Trust me you will feel much better by being petty and vindictive it has always served me well. Hatred is one of my favorite emotions. You can't have love without hatred.
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Very funny, dude.
 
As she is devoutly religious, just try to think of her as suffering from a mental illness. That way you may find it easier to forgive her hateful bigotry.
 
HoodedRat said:
As she is devoutly religious, just try to think of her as suffering from a mental illness. That way you may find it easier to forgive her hateful bigotry.
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I actually don't hate her or hold any ill will toward her. I know her more than she knows herself. She can't help it.
 
zombiekiller said:
Very funny, dude.
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Oh I am serious. Also I am not a dude I am a lady. Embrace Dark Wisdom it will never fail you. I wouldn't let anyone in my family separate me from the ones that support me. Luckily even though my dad is an asshole my mother supports me as does my brother and stepdad. Ultimately you should have no loyalty to your mother. She clearly doesn't have any for you and has declared herself your enemy. The only way to love your enemy is to hate yourself.
 
Mariatenebre said:
Oh I am serious. Also I am not a dude I am a lady. Embrace Dark Wisdom it will never fail you. I wouldn't let anyone in my family separate me from the ones that support me. Luckily even though my dad is an asshole my mother supports me as does my brother and stepdad. Ultimately you should have no loyalty to your mother. She clearly doesn't have any for you and has declared herself your enemy. The only way to love your enemy is to hate yourself.
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Haha, the answer is still no.
 
star-warrior said:
WRT to her lawyer, she may even [prevent]...you from having a say in her elderly care, or decisions if she becomes incapacitated, ill, dying
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Perhaps she will NEED your care someday in her later years...and you won't be there.

Literally, she made her own bed...and she would have to lie in it.
 
frankfrank said:
Perhaps she will NEED your care someday in her later years...and you won't be there.

Literally, she made her own bed...and she would have to lie in it.
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Yes, and I'll be there.

I am not going to be bitter about this. My folks are ever unchanging. I accepted this a long time ago. They can't help feeling this way.
 
lol what a snoopy bitch. If I was you I wouldn't even play it off like you're upset. Just be like "ok whatever lol" and she will come crawling back a year or so later.
 
zombiekiller said:
Yes, and I'll be there.

I am not going to be bitter about this. My folks are ever unchanging. I accepted this a long time ago. They can't help feeling this way.
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That is a great way to go, take the high road.
 
I'm not clear, either - WHY and HOW was she in your stuff (with you being an adult) and snooping around? I mean, don't you live in a separate place with your guy? Does that also mean that she snooped through all his stuff as well?

I find that even more unforgivable than disowning you. It's such an invasion of privacy, I think of it tantamount to rape.
 
Mariatenebre said:
Your mom who disowned you. She forfeited all rights to respect and love when she disowned you. She deserves your hate. I mean I hate many people in my family including my father.

Also you should go to war with your parents. I would utterly demolish them with vengeance. You should go to these family events with people who are supportive. They want you there and not going means that she is winning to separate you from your family. You should embrace your hatred of her. Trust me you will feel much better by being petty and vindictive it has always served me well. Hatred is one of my favorite emotions. You can't have love without hatred.
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loool you motha fuckin cold hearted :rotflmao:
 
frankfrank said:
I'm not clear, either - WHY and HOW was she in your stuff (with you being an adult) and snooping around? I mean, don't you live in a separate place with your guy? Does that also mean that she snooped through all his stuff as well?
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We live in a different house than they do. She snoops around because... that's what she does. The culture where I came from there's no such thing as privacy. I tried to explain this to her before. I kinda gave up a long time ago and just let her do whatever.

I don't expect you to understand. People from my culture (especially from the older generation) think differently than people in the west.
 
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