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Most Bisexuals Prefer Masculine Gays?

well, err, i have a dilemma.

i'm into masculine guys but i'm a bit -asexual appearing myself?

i'm a whirl of both masculine and feminine qualities; i love art and music; yet i love camping and travelling; i love cinema and shit; i love porn and chest hair.

i have a high pitched voice, but that's genetics and it's not forced.

this thread is making it seem like i have no hope in the world of dating.
 
i agree but when i first found out i was bi i thought i would be into more feminine guys but i was so wrong
 
hellodock said:
I'm into masculine guys, but i'm a bit asexual appearing myself. This thread is making it seem like i have no hope in the world of dating.
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There's always hope. I have seen a couple of guys stating that they like feminim gay guys as well. Don't worry!
 
Hmmm, tough one. Don't mind anything at all I guess ... got tons of different kinda of friends ... from butch straight to fem gay to errr ... 2 transgender friends. Yeah, u should see b-day parties over at my place ... f***kshow! *grin*

But seriously, I like all kindso f people, no matter how they are, what they are, as long as they know how to be good friends. No judgement at all.
 
Good for you SuperDodgy.

So what would everyone consider me? You can see in my gallery what I look like. I don't like sports but I can throw a ball. I have long hair, but I walk and talk like any other guy.

I can talk about emotions but I'm not nelly. To answer your question, RRRalph, nelly describes a guy that sashays, maybe has a limp wrist, and so on.

Just trying to get an idea how people define masculine.
 
Could someone please define your idea of masculinity first before you start degrading feminine guys. I mean, are you really that superficial to judge one person's attractiveness by his degree of masculinity?
 
Yep i agree with this actually, its beyond my mind , why any guy would act all girly and fem.

No offence to anyone, but for me , that is not my idea of a "man" , so if i want a girly girl , i will go and find the real one, not a poor imitation.

But each to their own i quess, some people must like that, coz there is someone for everyone right ? :O)
 
Ok let´s define masculinity shall we?

I´m no fem, but I also do not like to play sports at all (except swimming), and I like to gossip with my straight friends (male gossiping is very cool if you ask me). But I´m no fashion queen, dance queen...

So feminity is in what, according to all of you? Cause I have seen a lot of straight guys who are total fashion queens and such.

Btw. I don´t like either feminie guys or macho guys, I like them normal, everyday guys like me... ;)
 
I think the real issue here is not attraction to butch or fem, but to someone who is REAL.

And I'm constantly confused with this, "If I wanted someone fem I would be with a woman." I've known alot of women in my time, and never have I met one, seen one, or heard of one that acts like a nelly gay man! Have you ever heard any of your girlfriends address each other with, "Oh, gurrrl" or "No you didn't Miss Thang?" (Black women are the exception here! LOL)

Then there is the confusion with most bi men in that fem acting and fem looking are two different things. I have known big, muscular, butch, rough gay men, but when they walked or opened their mouth it was like, Whoa Nelly! And you would be completely suprised to see many "masculine & butch" porn stars in real life, some of the nelliest bitches you'd ever meet.

On the other hand I have known long haired, soft spoken, smooth bodied, delecate featured boys who were completely straight.

So what is it EXACTLY are you talking about instead of making sweeping generalizations?
 
daydreamer27 said:
Could someone please define your idea of masculinity first before you start degrading feminine guys. I mean, are you really that superficial to judge one person's attractiveness by his degree of masculinity?
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Yes, apparently I am. Do you judge a guy's attractiveness based on his civility? I'd be surprised if you didn't to some degree.

PorthAnnwn said:
Good for you SuperDodgy.

So what would everyone consider me? ...
Just trying to get an idea how people define masculine.
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Well, the hood picture looks a little femmy. But if I saw you on the street, I wouldn't judge you as either masculine or feminine.
 
^ I think he doesn't mean fuckshow but freakshow. Rigr, you must be horny now for think about fuckshows ;)
 
ahotjock71 said:
I think the real issue here is not attraction to butch or fem, but to someone who is REAL.
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I disagree. I don't think that femimin guys are unreal. There also real, that's how they are. They don't act. But it doesn't matter anyway: i'm don't feel any attraction to real or unreal femimin guys.
 
In general, as a bi-guy, I do find myself more attracted to "masculine" guys as opposed to "feminine" guys....However, this is not an "iron-clad" rule for me...I have met feminine guys that I was attracted to, and I've met masculine guys that I couldn't get away from fast enough. For me, though, this is more of an assessment of the person's personality and mannerisms. My attraction to men is very individualized to the individual man...I'm attracted to both hairy and smooth men, both muscular and twink men, etc.

This is my opinion for my own preferences. However, I think it's difficult to say what most bi men find attractive...
 
I like girls, and guys that are somewhat masculine. I cant stand feminine guys sometimes, i could never see myself like that, or with someone like that. Im talking about the extreme flamboyant ones. I guess I would say I like guys that are like me, slim, some build.
 
Yea I think I'm with the 99 percentile saying I prefer more guys that are guys and not flambouyantly flaming. I'm attracted to girls but want them as soft and girly as they come without being high maintenance airheads.....
 
It sounds like what a lot of people are talking about isn't femininity, but diva-hood. Then there's another aspect of effeminacy, a certain timidity in the voice. Also not necessarily femininity though.
 
PorthAnnwn said:
It sounds like what a lot of people are talking about isn't femininity, but diva-hood.
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I don't like diva-hood. I don't like arrogant people, including feminine or masculine guys, who think they are all that. ](*,)
 
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