Most urinals have partitions

[JohnnyAnger]

The lurkers informed me this forum was very cliquesh.

Hi Pat

 

[peeonme]

It seems to have a lot of others worked up as well. The lurkers informed me this forum was very cliquesh.

The lurkers are the clique.

 

[dpnice]

........................ The lurkers informed me this forum was very cliquesh.

You have 170 posts and you want me to believe that non-posting members are sending you Private Messages in support of your alleged harassment here?

I have been here 10 years and have nearly 10 000 posts yet a non-posting member has never sent me even a post comment.

They are certainly not using the Vistors Messages as you haven't got any.

 

[rareboy]

^ I'm sure that Grimshaw, one of our resident lurkers these days, is filling his ear with poison.

Some of the others aren't lurkers...they are just posters with a bag of axes to grind.

 

[rareboy]

hey. voyeurs. knock yourself out.....

 

[rareboy]

 

[rareboy]

 

[rareboy]

 

[rareboy]

 

[rareboy]

 

[SaskGuy]

Another reason for partitioned urinals is to help out guys who are pee-shy. I admit, I am a little bit pee-shy. I don't often see urinals with partitions, but if I'm using a crowded bathroom and there's either partitions or the urinal is wedged in an out of the way place like between a toilet stall and the wall, it helps me a lot.

I don't think urinal partitions are the same as censoring male nudity though, because it's a different situation. No one wants to be seen pissing, or to see other guys pissing (well, outside of a watersports fetish anyway). Even if the hottest guy on earth went to use the urinal next to me, I wouldn't have any desire to look, just like I wouldn't want to watch him take a dump.

 

[medic1]

It seems to have a lot of others worked up as well. The lurkers informed me this forum was very cliquesh.

Exactly! yes to the information passed onto you by some bitter members, Difference here is we have many cliques, and in general get along.

 

[Draven]

It seems to have a lot of others worked up as well. The lurkers informed me this forum was very cliquesh.

I thought Bender and Cupidboy (and attached drama) were long gong?

 

[equalityboy81]

You have 170 posts and you want me to believe that non-posting members are sending you Private Messages in support of your alleged harassment here?

I have been here 10 years and have nearly 10 000 posts yet a non-posting member has never sent me even a post comment.

They are certainly not using the Vistors Messages as you haven't got any.

I'm sorry you and some others are having trouble believing anything I have to say but I have to reason to lie about silly non-sense. I'm new at this stuff ON THIS SITE so I'm not sure how to go back to see previous notifications. I had received notifications with messages and private messages in email form. I can get the emails. I'd be more than happy to quote the emails but will respect the privacy of the sender as far as their screen names go.

I'm not harassing anyone. Disagreeing or having a different viewpoint is far from being harassing. I think some of you would like my posts to be seen as harassing. I haven't called people perverts, etc.

I'm shocked that I don't see some of you chastising people on the Gay Kink, Fetish, Porn forum section of this site. If you think my posts are immoral you should see the stuff on there. I believe I've seen threads about stealing underwear and jockstraps and gay guys pulling down straight guys pants while they are totally passed about drunk. I hardly consider sneaking a peek of a guy's pee-pee next to you at the urinals is even comparable to the stuff people have talked about on there. You want to talk about invasion of privacy and non-consensual stuff I think you should give them a lecture on politeness, ethics, and morals.

In defense of this thread there is another subject I'll get into later elsewhere which is similar but different and is in discussion of a privacy movement that seemed to begin the late 2000s where several places in different areas of the U.S. "overnight" seemed to redevelop any and all areas that had locker rooms and communal showers. Where the showers were open and communal even where the showers were in good shape and didn't need redesigning places spent a lot of money and redesigned all the showers to be stalled, walled, and curtained, and more recently even on military base gym showers. My theory was that in the late 2000s gay rights started picking up and going a must faster pace and the men's "privacy" movement with showers, changing rooms, urinals, etc. was sort of a backlash due to that progression in rights because more people became aware that there are actually gay people in the world, more than they previously thought, and it caused straight men to be become more self-conscious.

Despite progression in LGBT rights there are still many negative stereotypes that persists about gays. Many straight men, even the ugly ones, wrongly assume that just because they have a penis that every gay guy wants to sleep with them or check out their junk.

I can assure you though that I was contacted by a few lurkers and some of them contacted me more than once but I do recall three or four different screen names. I'm not sure why you were never contacted. Maybe they find you intimidating. lol. But again I assure you I have no reason to lie and that there are others who agree with me and find my posts to be interesting.

 

[dpnice]

Of course I find your posts interesting.

Even more so now that I can read them easily. Thank you for breaking up the blocks of text into more easily read portions.

 

[sixthson]

You have 170 posts and you want me to believe that non-posting members are sending you Private Messages in support of your alleged harassment here?

I have been here 10 years and have nearly 10 000 posts yet a non-posting member has never sent me even a post comment.

They are certainly not using the Vistors Messages as you haven't got any.

Since the topic of this thread is basically one of toilet fetish with nudity, I can see that there would be people here not willing to post something publicly but might want to interact with the OP privately. It gives them jack off material. Also, I seem to recall a long time ago that someone posted the number of lurkers here compared to those who actually post. If I remember correctly, it was a large number.
I suspect there are more than a few bisexual married men here who are now interacting privately via PMs that are doing so because they dared to post in a thread about bi married men desperate to experience cock. Maybe the lurkers mentioned in this thread learned the hard way, too?

 

[sixthson]

Just out of curiosity, equalityboy, are you interested in this topic because it is a sexual turn on for you? Since you have written so much about this, you might have already shared that and in all honesty, I have not read every word. I will say, I would have a hard time believing you don't when it seems so important to you. No shame in admitting the truth.

 

[equalityboy81]

[STRIKE][/STRIKE]

hey. voyeurs. knock yourself out.....

Most places of business I've seen do not have these (urinals without partitions which you posted a picture of). I live in the United States and I do think the U.S. tends to be more privacy oriented as of the late 2000s. The few places I have seen with them though it's usually only men of over a certain age bracket that use them when they lack partitions.

As a rule if a U.S. man is under 42 and hot or under 30 or 20 the more modest/prudish they are. When it comes to communal nudity of any kind hot guys do not show it off. Sorry to be so blunt but it's only the older, bigger, hairier, and less attractive men who seem to have no problem with showing it off. I'm not shallow though that comment may come off as shallow.

I don't have a pee fetish so I'm not really into seeing a guy take a piss despite what others may believe. However odd you all may find my explanation for posting this thread the motives I've stated for doing so are based on the truth. Whatever men would be at the urinals would not be worth looking at for most of them are much older and even if younger they'd be in a flaccid state or have "shrinkage" so it's not like anyone, even straight guys, could accurately compare their sizes in a "competition." When washing my hands one time at a place with urinals without partitions there was a young man, probably early 20s, I saw in the mirror while washing my hands, who literally hugged the urinal when peeing trying to conceal himself from the men on the other sides of him urinating. I don't understand why he didn't just go in the toilet stall to pee for there were several of them and don't believe they were all occupied. Maybe he was wanted to see everyone else but not share his (I'm just kidding on this sentence but of course some of the posters will get into an uproar over this).

It has occurred to me that many of the posters on here are from different nations so they may take my humor and even discussions as rude because we come from different cultures. So that may be the reason why they find me to be odd and why they take everything so literally. I invite them to check out some other forums which are more dominated by gay United States posters. If they find me to be offensive then they haven't seen anything yet for I'm nothing offensive compared to many other posters I've seen posting online over the years. I'm surprised however if people are so easily offended why they would not find gay porn and other subjects posted on this forum to be offensive. You would think they would not be into pornography or sexuality at all.

 

[equalityboy81]

Just out of curiosity, equalityboy, are you interested in this topic because it is a sexual turn on for you? Since you have written so much about this, you might have already shared that and in all honesty, I have not read every word. I will say, I would have a hard time believing you don't when it seems so important to you. No shame in admitting the truth.

I have an interest in male nudity/sexuality in the same way any gay man would but I don't have a thing for urinals or watersports. The smell of urine is a turn off to me.

What I state here which is a quote of an earlier post is more what interests me about the urinal subject. As I've stated before I like discussing and questioning the motives of what was and is behind the privacy movement for men in the United States of America. I like discussing the cultural, historical, political, spiritual, religious, and social aspects of it and whether it is motived by politics, religion, homophobia, etc. Being gay of course male sexuality interests me to a degree. I'm very into subjects about homophobia, gay rights, social issues, opposing views, and I also like subjects that are controversial and dramatic. In the U.S. homosexuality, nudity (especially male nudity), and sexuality are very controversial. The U.S is very ambivalent about sexuality. They throw sex in your face all the time (sex sells, especially heterosexual sex and female nudity/sexuality) but they suppress sex/nudity all the same time as if it is a bad thing. Here it the post I made I was telling you about:

"In defense of this thread there is another subject I'll get into later elsewhere which is similar but different and is in discussion of a privacy movement that seemed to begin the late 2000s where several places in different areas of the U.S. "overnight" seemed to redevelop any and all areas that had locker rooms and communal showers. Where the showers were open and communal even where the showers were in good shape and didn't need redesigning places spent a lot of money and redesigned all the showers to be stalled, walled, and curtained, and more recently even on military base gym showers. My theory was that in the late 2000s gay rights started picking up and going a must faster pace and the men's "privacy" movement with showers, changing rooms, urinals, etc. was sort of a backlash due to that progression in rights because more people became aware that there are actually gay people in the world, more than they previously thought, and it caused straight men to be become more self-conscious."

 

[equalityboy81]

I explained my reasons for posting all these things. People will believe my reasons or not. If they don't believe me and just think I'm a freaky, kinky, fetish motivated person then it's not really a big deal for it is somewhat a porn site anyway. I'd have no reason to lie. If I were kinky and freaky I'd just say so, but I'm not that way.