The Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2016

[refujiunderground]

^ What are your thoughts on black people boycotting the Oscars...???

That falls in the line of institutional racism and I whole heartedly agree with the boycott.

Hollyweird is racist as fuck. It has a history and the history is repeating itself.

 

[refujiunderground]

Why don't you join some of these groups and work your way up and change people's perceptions of them.
Be brave.

Its not my job to make someone less racist though. That's another thing that's racist as hell. Telling someone that they should basically be responsible for someone else's thought process and behavior. Nope.

The problem is once again responsibility and accountability. It's usually a blame game going on. You have racist people basically choosing to be racist and finding every excuse to never own up to their shit from blaming to justifying their feelings choosing whatever they want to see or believe. You got the nerve, Mr bait troll.

One of the dumbest shit I've heard regarding racism is reverse racism.

 

[Cormac135]

That falls in the line of institutional racism and I whole heartedly agree with the boycott.

Hollyweird is racist as fuck. It has a history and the history is repeating itself.

Maybe last year when the guy playing Martin Luther King was ignored, this year however i really don't think any black actors gave a good enough performance to earn a nod.

 

[Cormac135]

Its not my job to make someone less racist though. That's another thing that's racist as hell. Telling someone that they should basically be responsible for someone else's thought process and behavior. Nope.

The problem is once again responsibility and accountability. It's usually a blame game going on. You have racist people basically choosing to be racist and finding every excuse to never own up to their shit from blaming to justifying their feelings choosing whatever they want to see or believe. You got the nerve, Mr bait troll.

It may not be your job to make people less racist, it however does you or your cause no good when you come across as a stereotype.

 

[refujiunderground]

Maybe last year when the guy playing Martin Luther King was ignored, this year however i really don't think any black actors gave a good enough performance to earn a nod.

You're missing the point altogether, sweetie.


Hollyweird usually doesn't like to cast nonwhite people for that matter. Hollyweird also has a history of racism too. You can look that up. Basically, you're acting like as if shit is fair or equal when it's NOT and NEVER WAS. I suggest you do a little history check about it before talking about it.

 

[mikemizanin729]

You're missing the point altogether, sweetie.


Hollyweird usually doesn't like to cast nonwhite people for that matter. Hollyweird also has a history of racism too. You can look that up. Basically, you're acting like as if shit is fair or equal when it's NOT and NEVER WAS. I suggest you do a little history check about it before talking about it.

What about all the artists that dominate the music industry...??? There are tons of black people who outshine white people in the music department.

Beyonce, King Kanye West, 50 Cent but the list is endless.

 

[refujiunderground]

What about all the artists that dominate the music industry...??? There are tons of black people who outshine white people in the music department.

Beyonce, King Kanye West, 50 Cent but the list is endless.

Lol. This is NOT true. Where did you pluck that from? The music industry is even worse. You might wanna check back on that.

 

[Cormac135]

You're missing the point altogether, sweetie.


Hollyweird usually doesn't like to cast nonwhite people for that matter. Hollyweird also has a history of racism too. You can look that up. Basically, you're acting like as if shit is fair or equal when it's NOT and NEVER WAS. I suggest you do a little history check about it before talking about it.

Maybe they don't cast them because most aren't big or good enough to carry a film. Will Smith aside, though his star is fast waning.



I recall a few years ago a huge number of black themed films doing very well, mainly with black people but that was who they aimed the films at.

The sweetie and talking down to people is a tad dull.

 

[refujiunderground]

Maybe they don't cast them because most aren't big or good enough to carry a film. Will Smith aside, though his star is fast waning.



I recall a few years ago a huge number of black themed films doing very well, mainly with black people but that was who they aimed the films at.

The sweetie and talking down to people is a tad dull.

you do that all the time with your blatant trolling and baiting so don't even try to talk that bullshit.

And once again, where are you getting your facts from?

 

[mikemizanin729]

Lol. This is NOT true. Where did you pluck that from? The music industry is even worse. You might wanna check back on that.

You forget Drake too. As of right now black people are more popular with music.
.

I've seen people prefer Beyonce to Britney Spears and Lil Wayne to Justin Bieber.

 

[refujiunderground]

don't understand the drug culture at all. maybe because of the area i grew up in happen to have a lot of drug addicts where you could see REAL psa's walking down the block, on the bus, even your neighbors where you see how your friend's parents were affected. my childhood friends mother was either a heroin addict or a crackhead. whatever drug she was on, she was fucked up where the grandparents had to take care of the kids because the mom was unfit to take care of them and would disappear for days and weeks even. their uncle and grandfather was fucked up too. by the time, we hit our teens, my then childhood friend was "supposedly" on the streets or doing whatever. couldn't blame him because he had a rough life. most of my childhood friends, the boys at least, had rough lives. my other friend basically would get beat up by his stepdad and the fucked up part is that his stepdad showed me more love than his stepson. come to think of it, i don't know but it's possible that he probably was getting sexually abused too and might have been because he (my other childhood friend) played with himself in front of me while we were outside. i was like WTF. even at that age, that shit seemed absolutely weird like why are you doing that at 8 years old? i was like 10 at the time. even looking back then, the kids in my neighborhood were on some shit. i actually had a knife pulled out on me by a teenager when i was 5 or 6 for some silly shit like annoying my neighbor who was my friend but became a bully that hated my guts. was playing with one of my stuff animals on the porch and her boyfriend since she was in junior high chased me down to my yard and flashed a pocket knife on some "come over here" shit. but back to the story... if you know some shit like heroin, meth, percs or any of these highly addictive drugs can fuck you up REALLY bad and very likely have addictive properties that can make you an addict, why even bother to try it?

like hearing about how some gay guys are into "slamming" and PnP. WTF? sorry but NO..... just NO, NO, NO. i've seen way too many drug addicts in my lifetime to NOT be horrified at how people seem to think that casual drug use shit is cool. i understand people have issues and etc BUT damn... that's not how you go about it.

 

[medic1]

^Shit!
I had to Google "Slamming", i agree WTF?.
I can understand your frustration, we have a huge problem with "smack" here in Edinburgh, vile, vile illness.

 

[refujiunderground]

^Shit!
I had to Google "Slamming", i agree WTF?.
I can understand your frustration, we have a huge problem with "smack" here in Edinburgh, vile, vile illness.

Its frightening. Dunno if this is also going on over in the uk but it's like they want everyone to be on drugs. Like prescription pills and etc for health problems or utter disturbances. There's no escape.

It's that they try to make these drugs seem cool and shit when most of them fuck people up like the percs docs prescribe for pain.


Personally, there's times like right now where I get into a horrible funk. Like really down, sad, upset, and etc where I want to hide away from the world because whatever situation triggers it. It hurts lIke hell and it's like I want that shit to.go away. So sometimes, I get tempted to you know self medicate though I've never done shit but weed here and there.

Personally, as a black male living in america, it's harder to be able to get help. Like people basically have their minds made up and being that the whole masculinity shit is in play. You can't show vulnerability and have people telling you that you can't show any pain or frustration. You know, if you cry, they say you're weak. If you get mad especially if you get mad living in a society like this, they demonize you. Like you can't be angry. You have to be this emotionless person that has to be cold. I also get fucking frustrated at the idea that among gay guys, i feel that I only matter when it comes to sex. If they dont want to fuck you,you dont matter. Friend wise, folks don't even want to connect except for the guys that are partnered.

I don't want to be used, seen as or treated like a fucking sex object. It is dehumanizing. Especially as a black.man. like dudes are like your dick size and fetishizing. I want love, romance and to be loved. When I hear other dudes trying to tell me how I should give up on love and shit. I get mad especially when I've never had the chance to be in relationship. These guys have been in one and I'm like even though your shit didn't work out. At least you've had the experience to say you've been in one. I get really mad because you got folks not realizing that they are fortunate and privileged. That's why at times am like whatever, get jealous or feel like slapping the fuck out of one of these dudes especially some of these greedy ass open relationship dudes and shit. Bitch ass unappreciatI've. Self centered fucks. Dudes could never be in the position having to deal with less or nothing.

 

[Cormac135]

^Shit!
I had to Google "Slamming", i agree WTF?.
I can understand your frustration, we have a huge problem with "smack" here in Edinburgh, vile, vile illness.

I came across a slamming site a few months ago on tumblr, absolutely horrific what they got up to, it was one of the saddest wanks i've ever had.

 

[refujiunderground]

i fucking hate when i'm trying to focus on doing something and then somebody wants to talk to me at the same time while trying to focus on what i'm doing. now if i catch an attitude, then i'm fucked up or have no right to be annoyed. yet if i were doing the same shit to them, they'd get fucking mad or cop an attitude.

 

[GreyUnderscore]

i fucking hate when i'm trying to focus on doing something and then somebody wants to talk to me at the same time while trying to focus on what i'm doing. now if i catch an attitude, then i'm fucked up or have no right to be annoyed. yet if i were doing the same shit to them, they'd get fucking mad or cop an attitude.

If you told the other person that you're busy at the moment and s/he can't understand that then that's his/her problem. As long as you don't say it in a rude way.

 

[eastofeden]

The guy is easily satisfied...

He said the biggest cock he ever saw (and sucked) was a Japanese guy in Japan...so there goes another stereotype out the window...

I think he was a structural engineer (or something similar) and had to go to all these different countries doing projects.

 

[refujiunderground]

If you told the other person that you're busy at the moment and s/he can't understand that then that's his/her problem. As long as you don't say it in a rude way.

That's the thing. They can't take no for an answer.

 

[GreyUnderscore]

That's the thing. They can't take no for an answer.

Well that's their problem then.

 

[eastofeden]

That's the thing. They can't take no for an answer.

I have this problem and how I solved it.....I say it nice once....maybe twice...and if they ignore it....I just disappear....no explanation.....

...I would be one of "those people" who other people complain about because they won't answer them or "call back"...when the truth may be...the person they are complaining about DID answer them...and they just ignored I because they didn't like the answer....