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Undying love for my best friend...please read(long

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Hey where go in florida. I hope you had a great time you deserved it.
 
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Just a VERY quick update....been gone a while from this thread..too much has happened here and there to update you on it all...but the big news is this..I told my buddy Im coming out to see him August 20th-28th....and he almost dropped the phone..he started to cry...and he left me 3 messages saying he feels like hes gunna faint and he so excited like a kid on X-Mas morning....so there you have it..Im set to go see him..Ill be staying with him and his girl in their apt..He said hes not going to sleep a wink when Im here...


I have more to update you with and I will get around to it...hope all is well...VEGAS
 
Im coming out to see him August 20th-28th....and he almost dropped the phone..he started to cry

This is wonderful news!!!! A lot of us have been waiting for this. Of course it's important, now, that you stick with the plans you told him. Changing or canceling would not be advised at all, my friend.

I was going to put in a bunch of dancing bananas, applause and the like, but I DON'T SEE ANY OPTIONS FOR THE ICONS ANYMORE? (I don't mean the one-word THREAD description icons, I mean the emoticons.) Please don't say that it's so, that the "update" of JUB included taking away icons? PLEASE!! That would be even worse than what happened to the galleries a few weeks ago, even if some of the icons (such as the brick wall) may have been over-used.

Are the icons anywhere at all, guys? If so, where?

END OF THREAD HIJACK...we now return you to our regularly-scheduled program, already in progress...
 
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Well it now is OFFICIAL...Ill be seeing Andy for a little over a week in August..the only thing Im still debating is whether to stay with him in his apt or get a hotel room....we have been talking still every night. If I stay with him we are going to be on top of each other 24-7(and not in the good way) but this also means his girl..so I dont know what to do yet...staying at the hotel would cost me like 300 and change...what you guys think I shoud do?

His childhood friend is there visiting him this week and initially I was down about that but now am ok over it...Im human..I was just jealous.

Anyway he called me yesterday(his friends first night there) and tonight saying that he thought he would be more glad to see his friend and that hanging out with him makes him realize how close me and him are and what a great friend I am...
 
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YES!! There ya go! You will finally have the great time that has been lacking for so many months, bordering on eternity. This should finally be the opportunity to resolve where things stand as well.

I'd say, too - if at all humanly possible - you should spring for the hotel room. That way, if having a second place is approriate (whether you go there by yourself, or whether Andy follows you there), you HAVE the room. Furthermore, if it becomes apparent that it's okay to stay at their place, you only need pay for the first one or two nights at the hotel, because you can cancel the rest of the reservation. That means that you'd be paying the entire (about)$300 ONLY if it remained a necessity, and if not necessary you may pay less than $100.

No other visit with Andy, regardless of the outcome of this one, will be "like" this one again. Assuming that some thoughts and issues get resolved during this visit, they likely won't need to be resolved again. No, you guys won't figure everything out on this visit, but I'm sure the nature of this visit will be unlike past or future times together. Because of this, I'd say to go ahead and recognize it for its once-in-a-lifetime nature as it is.

Because having the room initially will give you all the advantages of staying at the hotel, AND all of the advantages of staying at their place, you'll be making the most of the visit. Again don't forget that you should be able to leave and cancel the remaining hotel days, if-or-once it becomes obvious that the hotel isn't necessary. However it doesn't hurt to verify that you have that option.

Thank you for giving us the good news about your trip!
 
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Hey all back with a quick update....Ill be flying on JetBlue..and Ill be leaving 6am my time on the 17th...and gettignto Vegas at 10am about..where Andy will be waiting to pick me up!! I am so nervous...he is so excited...we both cant wait.

Ill be leaving on the 25th at 1am in the morning or technically the 26th at 1am in the morning..I wanted to make sure that the arriving and departing dates were early and very late so I can make the most of those days..so Ill be there about 9 days.

And I will be staying with him the whole trip. We have been having some nice talks and how he realizes how and why our bond is so special..we had some great talks...

And oh yeah we played a silly lil game...he asked if my life was in danger and I had to sleep with a woman, would I do it..I said hell yeah....and he goes what about for 50 million? I go hell yeah bro...and then I asked him the same questions...if your life was on the line or they would give you 50 million would you go down on a guy...and hes like of course I would!!! lol it was a cool talk...update you guys soon...VEGAS
 
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T-9 days...I cant wait!!! and LOONER thanks for all the support, MUCH apreciated...VEGAS
 
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I've been out of the loop for a while....
Great to hear the trip is on!

So -- do you want those bucks people donated, that are still tucked in an envelope on the desk?
 
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Hey guys thanks for all the support. ..|

Coming up on a week away now. (!)

CG-As always thanks for the continued and constant support through all of this. :D (*8*)


KUL-It amazes me the generosity of some of you guys on here...while I did scrounge and subsequently went just about broke planning this trip...its worth it..and I couldnt accept anything from you guys..Im sorry...but ultimately appreciative of it. (*8*)

School starts right after I get back, almost literally..so I think thats cool, because I already want the year over with. ;)

Im planning to go to Vegas during Columbus weekend and again at the end of October for my 30th birthday....Im also planning on Maui and Ft. Lauderdale for the Christmas break. So not only am I goign to have a great year travel wise, but Ill be gettign paid and saving(no more money to Andy thank god) and I want to start dating this fall...should be a good year for me. :gogirl: ttyl..VEGAS

P.S.-Oh Im seriously thinking about taking a second masters starting in the fall..It would be in school administration and would allow me to become a vice, assisitant, or prinicpal..and they make good money..thing is..its a two year program..and Im actually fine with that because after 2 years of saving and having both master's my future will be set.

And yes I have told Andy this and he said if I do that he would break down and definitely come back home...Im not 100% on doing it, I have to see...but Im also working on Andy getting his shit in order...I have had many , many talks with him over the past few weeks(so many that I stopped posting them here because they were too long and too much was said)

P.S. II-His friend that was visiting him goes home to NYC tonight at 12:30pm Vegas time..to be honest Im glad hes leaving..I dont like him...bad gambling influence over Andy...and Andy really didnt like having him down there this time too much, they even fought...ttyl VEGAS :wave:
 
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Bri :wave:

I just KNOW this is going to be a fantastic trip!! As great as Vegas is ... ALL of that will be eclipsed by that first Bear Hug you give Andy at the airport!! ..|

We've ALL been following You with "sky high" Hopes! But the most important of all is that You Two firm up, and re-validate, Your phenominal Friendship! And it doesn't matter if "nothing more" happens! Love, and respect, Your "Bro", Man! (I think I'm going to :cry: just thinking about it!)

Wish You would have let "Us" Help! But that's "Kewl"! Doing Your own "Thing", on Your own Terms, is a "Good Thing", too!! (group)

Travel Safe! Take Very Good Care!! And ... of course ... give Andy another HUG from "Us", too!! (But ... He doesn't have to know about that part! :cool: )

Keep smilin'!! :kiss: (*8*)
Chaz ;)
 
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omg...your life is brokeback mountain...only without heath and jake makin out...you poor baby!! i hope you find your happiness...(if u could reword that to make it sound less cheesy then please do)
 
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whoa, august already.
 
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Yeah my own brokeback, but the script is a little different in mine..my buddy and I most likely will never be intimate and hopefully I dont die in the end...at least not anytime soon....lol...but anyway thanks for the responses.

He called today several times and spoke to me for not too long..he was busy moving his stuff out of his apt. and into his mothers...he said he was tired and that he missed me more than I know and he cant be without me much longer. He said that when I come there, to prepare to stay there and that he will drive me back to NYC and get my shit to come back to Vegas and live with him.

His phone service goes out tonight and he promised he would call and after tonight the next time service goes back on is Monday at his moms house. He also wants to get a calling card to call me.

He said he told his mom I was gay and she said "did you judge him?" and he went "of course not", and she went "good, because he is one of the best persons to come into your life and he has such a great heart and hes been so good to us.."

I thought that was kind of cool. TTYL guys..VEGAS
 
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Buddy called today for the last time from his old apt..said he was a little sad to be leaving. Said he cannot wait to see me and noted it was now less than a week away.

He said to be ready because he was going to be kind of tough on me in terms of keeping me out there..he said he was talking to his girl the other day and the talk of money came up and she asked him what he would do if he came into a lot of money..and he said save money for us and the kids...and buy Brian a new car and home and pay him back what he gave me...

Anyway the talk actual went into him taking me to a gay bar and letting me let loose...He said hes gunna get me a Dildo as a gift when I coem there and I said I already have one and Ive been practicing how to take it up the ass..and he was like brooooooooooooooo really? I was like no Im joking..but it was cool and it got me hot....

TTYL-VEGAS
 
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T-5 days...its torture not being able to talk to him the past 2 days..but we will more than make up for it next week.

With the UK terror stuff Im going to arrive at JFK to check in early at 2am...yes I know excessive!!! But I like being early and want nothing to go wrong...PLUS I absolutely love love love all things airport and planes in general..I can stay there all day and shop and watch the planes take off...its so much more exciting when you are walking around seeing the shops and souvenirs and you are going on a plane..I love the whole process....ANYONE WITH ME ON THAT LOL???? TTYL VEGAS

P.S.-I spoke to his mom today, she called me in the afternoon....she said Andy is so excited that Im coming down there that its all he talks about....she said you mean more to him than I think anyone he knows and hes been so excited since you told him you were coming out to Vegas.....anyway TTYL VEGAS
 
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Aw that's just too cute.

I used to love love love all things airporty...in fact my idea of a good time om high school was to visit the airport. Yeah, while all the other kids were drinking and getting laid, I was at the airport burger king. I rock.

The air force took that all out of me. I got pretty tired of airplanes and airports after awhile!

I'm so excited for you!
 
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Do I Love things "Airporty"?? You Bet!! ..| One of my most memorable dates was taking Kay to O'Hare, for Chateau Briand, in the International Terminal! Yeah! ... I was in college ... and dating Girls! :slap:

STILL Love airports! Even with all the security "stuff" these days! Whenever Kev, and I, fly anywhere, I still "get UP!" in more ways than one! :badgrin: How weird is that?? *|* (!)

And as for today's Security?? I'm convinced Everyone should fly Naked!! :eek:

Bri, Dude! THIS is going to be a Great Trip, no matter what!! And it's sounding like Andy's Mom is SO on "Your Side"!! AWESOME!! (And Amazing!!) (group)

What might this mean for "Her Son" and You?? Don't know! But ... :-<

O.K. ... so I may be overstating "possibilities" ... and rapidly running out of "Smilies" ... (do NOT like our new "10 Smilie Limit"!!) ... but there is certainly always "Hope"!!

Travel Safe!! I SO wish I could be going with!! Just to play "fly on the wall"!!

Bri, Dude, YOU ROCK!!! (And don't ever forget that!)

Keep smilin'!! :kiss: (*8*)
Chaz (Outa' Smilies!!)
 
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Thanks for the cool post CG. ..|

KY...your posts have ALWAYS been uplifting, supportive and upbeat...thank you! (*8*)


Well...last night was pretty boring and I put on a WWE DVD to go to sleep...I eventually do fall asleep and I hear the phone ring. After the first ring I look at the clock...4:30am...and then I look at my caller ID..it reads "out of area"

Suffice to say that I didnt have to to really wait to read the caller ID to know it was Andy!!

I pick up the phone:

"Hello?"

"Hey Bri how are you?..I miss you so much!"

"Hey buddy, how are you??"

"Whats the matter, you sound sad?"

"Nah, not sad, just was sleeping, still a lil groggy.."

"I had a very bad night Bri...I broke down crying...Im calling you with my last few dollars...I miss you so much.."

"I know you do buddy, so do I.."

"NO BUDDY...YOU DONT KNOW...I NEED YOU OUT HERE NOW!! 9 DAYS IS NOT ENOUGH!! No one is the same at all here...AT ALL...Ive tried to make friends and hang out with people...but its not the same...no one will ever be like you...I cant explain it...no one...no one likes the simple little things like me and you...its like pulling teeth to get anyone to go to the mountains or to just hang out...no one is like you..not even ******(his girl)...you can get a job out here...please come out here...please!!!"

We talked about a few things...at which point ther operator asked for more change to continue the call and Andy kept running back and forth from the phone to his car....I cant explain how good I felt when he called..it made my day.

"Bri...these past few days have been torture....I cant take not talking to you....remember its only going to be a day until I get my phone back...and on Monday Ill talk to you as long as I fucking want....I need you out here Brian...I dont care anymore....when you come out here I know you will be happy and my life will be complete and YOU KNOW based on just that happiness we can take on things together..." :D

I just couldnt believe how sweet he was being...well maybe I could...heh. ;)

We talked about how nervous we both are about seeing each other....he said when we get back to talking on the phone Monday that the days will go quick....he said that he cant wait to meet me at the luggage claim and see my face...and he said "Im sorry Brian...dont leave your drivers license near me when you visit...you are not going home..Im going to kidnap you!! And dont even think about sleeping this trip...we are hanging 24/7!!" :-)

Anyway the time was running out...he had pumped like 14 quartes in the pay phone...and he said before the lady cuts me off, Ii want to say goodbye to you...

"I miss you so much Bri...I miss you buddy...I miss you buddy....speak to you soon!!!!" :(

And with that we both hung up and I fell asleep with the biggest smile on my face and the warmest feeling in my heart...VEGAS
 
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T-3 Days......................VEGAS
 
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