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Were there early indications you were gay?

I do recall having quite a fascination with a men's underwear ad in a department store showing all these guys in briefs when I was about 5...

-d-
 
I knew at five I liked cock. All of the neighborhood kids were taught to play sex games by an older kid and I never wanted to go near the girl parts.
 
This thread has taught me something very important.

Men's underwear ads make people gay.

kek

(Kidding, of course.)
 
at a very young age i would try to mimic Barbara Streisand in the scene in hello dolly where she is walking down the stairs in the restaurant to the hello dolly song. i tried to do her hand movements and foot steps to the dances she was doing. i guess that was my first clue that something wasnt quite right....
 
Honey I came out of the womb waving rainbow flags...

Nah but really when me and my neighbor found my parents stash of porn I was so fascinated with the male parts. I never understood why he liked the girly bits. :p

I'm sure there were many more...
 
As a child I loved The Wizard of Oz and carried around a Dorothy doll and would never go to bed without it.

Instead of playing with He-Man action figures, I preferred She-Ra and her pink castle.

Catwoman was my favorite comic book character. I had an old doll of her from the 70's.

And I always loved the femme fatales in James Bond movies.

Same-sex attraction didn't really come into the mix until I hit puberty. At least that's how I remember it happening.
 
Early? Nope.... I do clearly remember when I was 5 seeing my friend's dad and going... Hmmm he has handsome dad... But it was definitely nothing sexual.

Then 5th grade hit and then I started getting erections whenever I saw an attractive guy..... :)
 
Around 9 or 10 I used to fool around with a friend of mine, a bit of grabbing and jerking and rubbing against eachother. If i ever stayed over at his he used to pull down my underwear slowly and play with me when he thought I was asleep. That used to turn me on a lot.

That was one clue, the other was that I used to be infatuated with some guys butts in school in their tight fitting trousers!

Oh those were the days. Turned on so easily. Not much has changed there thankfully!
 
My mother's first clue was when I was nine. She came home to find that I had given my sister's Makeup Barbie a complete makeover, including a new hairstyle.
 
I remember getting an erection while watching wrestling on TV(back in the early days with guys like Gorgeous George and a very young Bruno Sanmartino) and also when looking at the JC Penny and Sears catalogues men's underwear section.
 
I asked my Grams to play "Cinderella" with me as a child. Naturally, I was the lead.

Looking back, that was probably an indication.
 
I remember liking the way the other boys looked more so than the girls when I was little. I didn't recognize this as different at the time, though. I also used to sneak and play with my sister's Barbies on occasion (this included doing their hair as well as the standard little boy action of ripping their heads off... Poor Skipper). Rather stereotypically of me, I've always been not only interested in but fascinated by fashion and I continue to be. This is in stark contrast to my dad, who to this day gets annoyed and even pissed off at times when my mom and I talk about fashion. I learned very quickly not to watch America's Next Top Model and Project Runway in the presence of either of my parents.
 
When I was 5, I'd shower with my uncle and stare, mesmerized, at his penis the entire time.

Pretty much said it all.
 
Around 10 I remember comparing, hands-on, my equipment and a friend's. Tried a bit more with another friend a time later - a year or two, maybe?
 
When I was like 4 I was watching that Singled Out show on MTV and I said one of the male contestants was cute. My sister told me I was gay. She was right.
 
1. I loved playing with my mom's hair.
2. My parents had a couple who were their friends. I went to their house on purpose to play with their daughters. They had barbies.
3. Whenever I went to visit my girl cousins, I always played with their dolls more than they did.
4. I had a shameful amount of Polly Pockets growing up. Now they're hidden away in a box. Thank god xD
5. Early fascination with musicals.
6. Liked walking in my mother's shoes. Only took a couple of desperate glances from my father to realize how wrong that seemed to be.
7. All my close friends until I was 10 were all girls.
8. Barbra Streisand. A lot of Barbra Streisand. To this day, Barbra Streisand.
9. I played with my bath towel. I took turns pretending it was a dress and pretending it was long hair.
10. I watched the most girly cartoons of Girldom.
11. I pretended I was a fairy. I used pencils as wands.
12. Fascination with Disney princesses.

And I still had to come out to my parents, who were present in ALL of this. And my mom still had the nerve to tell me that she felt like she was being punished. Yeah, punished for not having eyes on her face -.-' (Things are better now xD)

I guess that as I grew up and started realizing I liked boys (even though I didn't realize that "liking boys" had a name), I little by little stopped feeling the need to do most of those things. Except for Barbra Streisand and the musicals. :P
 
I played with [STRIKE]dolls[/STRIKE] action figures...
 
Ok short list:

Liked playing with my Mom's and Aunt's jewelry.
There are several pictures of my around 4 years old, wearing my sister's dresses.
My parents bought me a Skipper doll (Barbie's sister) so I would stop playing with my sister's Barbie.

Having said that I did play with trucks, legos and made tents from blankets. And Flintstone building blocks. (If you remember those, you're really old.)
 
i was strongly attracted to a kid in first grade who became my best friend ... of course ... lol

my fascination with his stunning eyes, smiling face and lithe body ... developed into an obviously sexual fixation ... i beat off every night for this kid at 6 years old ... dying because he wasn't beside me ... all the time ...

i had to be touching him ... a brush of the shoulder .... a slap on the back ... a whiff of his scent ... close enough to feel the heat off of his body .... but never really touched ... was never really seen ...

i knew by 5 ... confirmed by 6 ... but totally on the dl ... no one knew ... i knew ... but even that young i had developed somehow an instinct that it was something to be kept private ... secret ....

because i didnt know what it was called or what it was all about ... but i knew it was "wrong" ... so i avoided the feminine part of my developing homosexual psyche ... and allowed my "guy" side to dominate to the public ... a classic closet case

yeah ... pretty early signs ... but only i knew about them ... i was the perfect hetero youngest son
 
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